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Blather and Babble / Re: Describe your last booking
« Last Post by Sophine88 on 18 September 2020, 11:03:18 pm »
Last client was an absolute weirdo to say the least. He arrived shaking like he’d just heard some bad news and looked me up and down as if he was terrified. He handed the money and a handful of his bank cards over I had to pass him back the bank cards and said am I think you’ll need these. He continued to shake and said “oh sorry, I’ve not done this before”. I said just relax you’re too nervous I’m not going to do anything you’re uncomfortable with. He took a shower and returned minutes later in a towel. When I tried to even touch him he queased and said I can’t I can’t I’m married. I said look I understand if you don’t want to go through with it then you’re free to leave.

He replied can you just give me a lap dance? I said that’s fine. He sat on the bed with his head hanging in shame and it was all so awkward I stopped dancing moments in and said is everything alright? He said I have to go and dressed himself and stormed out like a rocket.

Can’t complain really he was there about 10 minutes in total and I didn’t even have to do anything really and still got paid for an hour. Happy days I guess. Still so strange first time that’s happened to me although I’ve only been doing this on and off for a year now and only full time in the past months.
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Blather and Babble / Re: Describe your last booking
« Last Post by EnglishAmy40 on 18 September 2020, 09:20:37 pm »
Had a newbie earlier. He turns up, says he wants an hour. I say I can't as have a regular in an hour. He says he told me on the phone he wanted an hour (He didn't.). 25 minutes in and I couldn't get him to finish. Turns out be had three wanks today. So we do the half hour. He says he'll be back but I've marked him down in my phone as a No. Big cock that I couldn't take either.
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Blather and Babble / Re: How not to book an escort,world championships!
« Last Post by Snow Whitest on 18 September 2020, 09:19:21 pm »
The usual selection of nonsense..

All via tex

Him: Hey Lisa you availible today
Me: Who the fuck is Lisa?

Him: I see you have a liking for literary classics?
Me: Which classics? I prefer crime novels to be honest
Him: I'm quite partial to a bit of criminal non fiction myself/ & was just pertaining to your Bronte quote love
Me: I know what you were pertaining to, but I'm not a massive Bronte fan
Him: Well it snds like you have a greater awareness than most. I'm quite far frm being culturally enlightened
Me: Do you want a booking then?
Him: I'll give you plenty of notice if I can get over your way babe. Thanks
Me: Massive sigh and begin banging head on the table


Hi,

I could not notice you look gorgeous... I am sure you get 100s of messages like that from thirsty guys, but hear me out, please ;)

Cut to the chase: I would like to ask you if you are up for a photoshoot? Some new portrait pics and NOT just to here! To your social media, etc... fashion stlye, or any creative ones... (also likes garanteed ;)

I am experienced photographer and if you like the idea, message me back and i can show you my insta...

I DONT NEED ANYTHING BACK, and YOU CAN HAVE THE PICS TOO!

An why you? you look great and i would like to work with a fit and pretty girl...


Kind regards,
Peter

Hi
You are gorgeous and I would love to have a photo session with you. Would this be possible? Please say yes
John x
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Questions and Answers / Re: Disabled clients
« Last Post by Kay on 18 September 2020, 08:37:53 pm »
I think one issue is lack of disclosure. I understand that especially if you've lived with a disability from birth (and thus perhaps been slightly infantilised) you may find it awkward to discuss your sexual needs, but it can make things tricky for the escort if you don't. You just don't know how someone is going to react to e.g. a stoma, and there are also practical issues, like access and mobility. I saw a client with a prosthetic limb, but I'd warned him about my stairs and he was fine - it was a lovely straightforward booking. I just feel it's extra important to have a full and frank discussion before any booking.
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Blather and Babble / TMJD/ Jaw Pain
« Last Post by Emilia_D on 18 September 2020, 08:34:16 pm »
Hi everyone,
I have tmj disorder, and I grind my teeth at night. My jaw tends to get stiff, crunches, clicks, sometimes gets stuck, and is quite painful.
As a result, sometimes I have difficulty with blow jobs.
I’m looking into Botox for Tmj, and getting a mouth guard, but I’m wondering if anyone has dealt with jaw pain whilst escorting, and if there’s anything you’ve done that has helped ?
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Questions and Answers / Re: Disabled clients
« Last Post by amy on 18 September 2020, 08:05:27 pm »
Each to their own but I was just hoping for more positive responses :(

Well I've had plenty of positive experiences with disabled punters, but a punter is a punter is a punter as far as I'm concerned (although as a disabled person I do have some insight into being treated like I'm bloody simple just because I experience some things differently to most other people) :)

ALL punters have their individual needs, wants and limitations, and it's up to me whether or not I can accommodate them. And as some other posters have found, having a disability doesn't preclude anybody from behaving like a dick and the prevailing idea that anybody with additional needs of any kind must be some kind of saintly (and asexual) being is incredibly patronising and very naive. They want sex and I want money :D
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Questions and Answers / Re: Disabled clients
« Last Post by amy on 18 September 2020, 07:53:19 pm »
Can we keep the TLC site-specific stuff to the dedicated thread please? This one is on the general discussion board and needs to stay on topic :).
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Hey,

I would love to join TLC but do you need experience working with people with disabilities?

Can someone let me no please thanks

We do prefer it yes as it's a whole different skill set. Can you suck dick round a cathater? - Can you cope with disfigurement? Incontinence? Do you have any experience of using a wheelchair or a hoist? What if your client needs the toilet during a booking and their carer isnt' there - can you hoist them from the bed, into a chair, get them to the toilet and back again? Even dressing and undressing people with muscle spacicity can be really hard work.

The diversity of disabilities means that if you have little to no understanding of the complexity of the possible needs then not really. I mean, you can't get a job as a carer without training and although we are not there as carers, in some situations, care jobs occur whether you planned them to or not.
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The problem is, women (us) are in a far more vulnerable position,
e.g. risks of all social and moral punishments from all directions ,
"once bitten..." applies. 
Some women have chronic illnesses/hidden disabilities, too.

It's really sad to see a site like this demands ID.

We don't even know who these punters are, would they be verified, too?
 ???

There is an option for client membership with ID and proof of disability - the idea being that you, the provider can make it a requirement that a prospective client join before they can book you so yes - we are trying to make this two sided.
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I agree with this, it can't be a bad idea. Besides AW asks for IDs in the most humiliating manner, at least these guys are well intended.

Thanks - they do so to cover their arses re legalilty. We do it to put of predators and ensure people's safety.
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