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Questions and Answers / Re: Clean up after a incall
« Last Post by Patricia on 13 April 2025, 04:49:20 pm »
I can't remember ever tying a knot in a condom after it's been filled as I make sure there are man size tissues and all other clean up items within arm's reach. I use a tissue to slide the condom off then  have a second one to be certain it's well wrapped before the little doggy poo type bag is used. It's that which is tied. I don't like to see the contents of the condom so the faster I can do the above the better. I also give him a quick clean with wipes. He's then safe to move off the bed 🙄
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Why have your network provider and AW not been able to stop this and restore your access to phones and your profile? This should not be possible especially if you got new SIMs and phones.
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Cause my phones have been hacked and my aw profile.  They are able to txt me even though I have blocked them.   Very distressing.  I've also had my genuine decent aw profile hacked and they have changed it saying I do all services when I don't.   They also steal my credits from my aw profile as they can access it remotely.      Stay safe ladies.  Xx
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Questions and Answers / Re: Clean up after a incall
« Last Post by amy on 13 April 2025, 12:35:48 pm »
No, I'm not remotely squeamish (and after some of the jobs I've had over the years if I ever had been, I wouldn't be now :D). I prefer not to touch gross stuff directly when there's no need; I don't go and bleach my hands or set myself on fire if I do have to, but knotting condoms that are going to be contained inside a sealed/knotted bag and then a tied bin bag isn't necessary.

Washing my hands is the first thing I do after (sometimes before) they leave regardless of what I did or didn't get on them, and certainly before I touch my hair or my civvy clothes. I have no difficulty picking up dogshit either, but I wouldn't do it without a bag.
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Questions and Answers / Re: Clean up after a incall
« Last Post by MissWolf on 13 April 2025, 12:19:10 pm »
It doesn’t bother me touching a used condom. I just tie them off like a ballooon. If I take them off a toy I’ve used anally on a client, I use wet wipes to slide them off. There have been a couple of occasions where I’ve ended up with dirty fingers.
Luckily, I’m not squeamish  ;D

Basically this for me too, I take them off and tie them as the outside is the bit I'm touching and that's the bit covered in me which I don't have an issue with, I find tying them leaves less smell and stops any leaks from the nappy bag should there be any slight imperfections in it, tbh cum doesn't bother me either,  I clean that up after a cum on boobs or face finish anyway.

Same for anal toys I remove those condoms with a wet wipe or tissues so they end up inside out and roll them in the wipe or tissue and straight to the nappy bag or bin.

The absolute last thing I do is let them do it themselves as it ends up all over the damn place.
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Questions and Answers / Re: Doing massage only advice
« Last Post by OverTheHill on 13 April 2025, 12:11:53 pm »
I offer GFE & massage services.

Massage is tough on your body, if you’re not used to it. It takes a few weeks to adjust. I’ve had major abdominal surgery and there’s no way I would have been able to do massage.

I would just offer very basic services until you have healed. You could maybe do pre paid private videos/chat and offer short HJ bookings.
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Questions and Answers / Re: Clean up after a incall
« Last Post by OverTheHill on 13 April 2025, 12:06:26 pm »
It doesn’t bother me touching a used condom. I just tie them off like a ballooon. If I take them off a toy I’ve used anally on a client, I use wet wipes to slide them off. There have been a couple of occasions where I’ve ended up with dirty fingers.
Luckily, I’m not squeamish  ;D
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Questions and Answers / Re: Clean up after a incall
« Last Post by DBLM on 13 April 2025, 11:11:44 am »
I can honestly say I don't think I've ever tied a knot in a condom. I don't even touch them with my bare hands if I can avoid it; I take them off with a wipe and then put the whole lot in a nappy bag and knot that.

DITTO!
I assumed everyone did this and exactly because who wants to touch it!!!???
Although I use paper kitchen towel cos wet-wipes are also slimy.
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Questions and Answers / Re: Doing massage only advice
« Last Post by DBLM on 13 April 2025, 11:06:16 am »
I'm trained and qualified in massage, and this is what I offer.

I have a massage table - at the right height, and I would say this is essential. With this, I can easily put in a few hours a day, no problem.
I would not massage on a bed or the floor or at the wrong height, as it would be a back-killer within 30 minutes. And very difficult to deliver a good massage on the wrong height equipment.

So, I'm saying - learn how to do massage properly - then you can easily make the session last 1-2 hours (as I do). And have the correct table/ correct equipment. Charge £80+ per hour (in the middle of nowhere, I'd charge more in London). Also, they will pay £100+ per hour if you are nude/topless.
Do not go too cheap!

As for HE. I aim this to be 10 minutes from the end of the session - I have a lot of experience, so rarely get it wrong. But I also charge a lot, so I don't overly worry if we go 10 minutes over due to my misjudging things, or I continue massaging to fill the time if he comes too quickly. I do not aim to make them come twice.
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Questions and Answers / Re: Doing massage only advice
« Last Post by samcas on 13 April 2025, 10:25:29 am »
I went through the same thought process a couple of years ago. I'd had enough of providing paid for sex - I was getting thrush and a long backstory of STIs and pregnancy/terminations. On top of that, i was getting an ick feeling of being so physically close to clients I did not want to be. I tried massage with HJ but I was not good at it and got bad feedback and lost all my regulars. It was hard work for low pay.
I then saw a profile of someone I worked with years ago and she was doing a voyeur experience and had lots of positive reviews. I contacted her and we did some sessions together with a few of her regulars (just solo action where the client watches). I moved away and started voyeur service on my own. Basically, it involves me masturbating and showing off my body whilst the client masturbates (no touching). My prices are about 60% of full sex competitors and close to full sex prices if I do HJ, but I have plenty of regulars,,, mostly nice older and clean guys. No STI risk and no STI risk for clients which many tell me is a reason for picking my service. Some have also told me that their guilt factor from having sex with a stranger is less and that is why they enjoy it more than paid for full sex. I have recently taken things to another level with my male partner and we offer voyeur service for clients to watch us have full sex whilst they masturbate. This also has extra opertunities such as HJ. This is popular even though we only offer it at weekends and times to suit us. Again, older guys like this.
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