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Questions and Answers / Re: Clean up after a incall
« Last Post by amy on 11 April 2025, 03:38:12 pm »
I can only speak for London since it's years since I worked anywhere else, but in the City at least I don't have any difficulties with dirty or smelly punters (West London I would think it's more common, going on very limited experience of punter who travel to me from the other side of town). I charge normal rates though, so maybe I get fewer of the entitled types who think we have to put up with anything because they're paying over the odds.

Back on the thread topic and going back over other posts, I can honestly say I don't think I've ever tied a knot in a condom. I don't even touch them with my bare hands if I can avoid it; I take them off with a wipe and then put the whole lot in a nappy bag and knot that.
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Questions and Answers / Re: Clean up after a incall
« Last Post by SAAFE on 11 April 2025, 02:46:29 pm »
when you put hygiene in the saafe bar there are so many ladies reporting how dirty clients are and it is alot.

Of course there are because why would anybody start threads about clients who are clean and polite, and turn up on time and pay without asked and so on? :)
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Questions and Answers / Re: Body dysmorphia
« Last Post by Patricia on 11 April 2025, 01:22:53 pm »
Point taken Amy 🙂

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Questions and Answers / Re: Body dysmorphia
« Last Post by MissWolf on 11 April 2025, 01:10:18 pm »
Definitely. Some of the wealthiest punters I've met have also been the most needy, annoying and entitled of the lot. And so have some of the not so wealthy ones; there's no correlation at all.

Absolutely this, if he's going to be an arse hole the he's going to be an arse hole no matter how rich he is or how much he's paying.

Just make sure your screening is as good as it can be, use the available screening help and most importantly trust your gut
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Questions and Answers / Re: Clean up after a incall
« Last Post by MuseM on 11 April 2025, 12:52:54 pm »
I understand what you mean but in my case and other girls I have toured with that wasn't the case and even when you put hygiene in the saafe bar there are so many ladies reporting how dirty clients are and it is alot.
I was in London , Edinburgh, Bristol ,  Ireland , Manchester ( Asian guys were very clean but i was getting lots of guys my age and most are into their appearance , the local guys some were not clean at all) .

But it is well known Nordic people are very well dressed and their hygiene follows but yes in London even charging over 350 an hour the clients were not so clean , of course i had some that were , but the rest were not , Ireland had the dirtiest and many discussions from so many girls, only reason i went there the Irish are super nice and if new you make lots  but uk didn't fare better in terms of hygiene.
Just my opinion and others i have met , talked to etc
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Questions and Answers / Re: Body dysmorphia
« Last Post by amy on 11 April 2025, 12:37:06 pm »
Er, suggesting that women who pay for X or Y cosmetic treatments do so because they have mental health problems (rather than because they want to, or like the way it looks) is not what we do here. It's also nothing to do with sex work.

So called high end clients (wealthy doesn't necessarily mean they're nice to spend time with and I've had my share of millionaires who have tended to be arrogant and not welcome back in some cases) think because they pay higher fees they are "special" but they're basically men who want to offload their junk just like Billy the the sparky who's a good laugh and not up his own backside 🙄

Definitely. Some of the wealthiest punters I've met have also been the most needy, annoying and entitled of the lot. And so have some of the not so wealthy ones; there's no correlation at all.
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Questions and Answers / Re: Body dysmorphia
« Last Post by Patricia on 11 April 2025, 12:18:37 pm »
So called high end clients (wealthy doesn't necessarily mean they're nice to spend time with and I've had my share of millionaires who have tended to be arrogant and not welcome back in some cases) think because they pay higher fees they are "special" but they're basically men who want to offload their junk just like Billy the the sparky who's a good laugh and not up his own backside 🙄

Body dysmorphia must exist in millions of (mostly) females which is why they pay to change their faces and natural shapes - backsides and boobs etc. High fee paying men don't all want skinny bed partners. When I began this work I was very slim and slightly bigger now but only by one dress size. I assumed all escorts were toned to perfection and would win beauty contests. Wrong! When I took a good look at many others who advertised it was clear to me that all kinds of men are turned on by all kinds of women.

As said above go independent if you possibly can. Good luck.
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Questions and Answers / Re: Body dysmorphia
« Last Post by amy on 11 April 2025, 11:50:47 am »
But 'high end clientele' is just marketing fluffspeak - they're punters, no different to the ones the rest of us get?

The only difference is that they'll be paying more, and given that the pimp will take a big slice anyway what's the point? It's unlikely you'll earn more (because as we've seen here before, the higher the rate generally means the fewer the bookings) and you'll get no say at all in who you see or what they're told to get them through the door.

If the men booking you at the moment are unpleasant, that's a marketing/screening problem and nothing to with how much they pay. A pimp may be helpful with the first if you don't have the time to make lots of ads and so on, but they won't do anything about the second.
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Questions and Answers / Re: Body dysmorphia
« Last Post by Blondietina on 11 April 2025, 11:41:02 am »
Thank you everyone for the replies, my whole life no matter what I job I’ve done, I’ve kind of like cared a little abit about what people thought about my looks. After yesterday I realised I need to work on therapy regarding bdd, because I know I am beautiful. I just constantly nit pick my looks. I believe no matter what job you are doing-you need to not give two fucks.

I only applied for the agency because I want high end clientele
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Questions and Answers / Re: Body dysmorphia
« Last Post by MissWolf on 11 April 2025, 11:30:31 am »
OP I read that and immediately thought 2 things, firstly  what an absolute c##t of a human

My second thought was the more important one for you, this 'pimp' is playing the classic game of make a person feel less than perfect,  bring them down to a low point, give them self doubt and then make then feel like only they can help you.
They will make you feel like shit then offer to 'take you on' but will need a bigger cut of the fee as marketing you will be an issue, however they can help etc.
The likeleyhood is they will try to make you reliant on them for all your bookings and you will end up doing stuff you don't want to do.

If you really really want to do sex work then be independent,  you are beautiful and you are worth it, there is a market for everyone in this industry.

Yes you will get comments and guys will judge you but that is their issue not yours, work at being happy with who you are and love yourself,  your opinion is the only one that matters
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