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Questions and Answers / Re: Doing massage only advice
« Last Post by hybridwork on 12 April 2025, 09:20:41 pm »
I'd advice you wait until the muscles are stronger because, as others have said, it's tiring and you'll slow down your recovery.  Perhaps see one or two people a day could help if you really want to do it but due to your surgery I'd limit the service to maximum 20 or 30 mins, and only go lightly.  If a clients wants a deep sports massage you can sweet talk them into why lighter massages are better for him without giving away you've had an operation
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Questions and Answers / Re: Body dysmorphia
« Last Post by MissElvira on 12 April 2025, 09:05:23 pm »
I've had Body dysmorphia and my advice is to seek help, now my BD is a 2 out of 10. I was at my worst before I entered Escorting and thankfully I didn't have the funds to get drastic surgery. I've now come to except my flaws, and when I start to have intrusive thoughts about my body and looks, I can now tell myself it's just that I'm a bit stressed or tired and it passes. Be kind to yourself and I hope you get through BDD.

Funny how those that are less than perfect themselves will criticise others looks. Clients see beauty in all kinds of body shapes and I doubt there's anyone that's without imperfections. It's confidence that is attractive and having a beautiful personality, being ugly on the inside is a bigger turn off than anything else.

Getting Body confidence starts from within, build up your inner strength, talk to someone and if you have anxiety then get that sorted out.
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Blather and Babble / Re: clients who you no longer want to see
« Last Post by CuteElsa on 12 April 2025, 03:57:07 pm »
Quote from: Fifi on 11 February 2025, 12:09:28 pm
I don't mind what communication method they use but I hate clients that I've met on one or more occasions and then message me with "hi how are you?" Like I'm an old friend.  :FF

If they're not planning to make a booking then bugger off. I'm here to make money, not make nice.

I just use Apple Intelligence for my message replies. Takes one second  :)
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Questions and Answers / Re: Clean up after a incall
« Last Post by amy on 12 April 2025, 01:38:04 pm »
Quote from: CuteElsa on 11 April 2025, 09:00:16 pm
That’s interesting Amy. Do you know the reasons why you avoid touching them ? Is it the texture.

There's only one reason, and that is that used condoms are revolting. I don't need to touch them directly to get them off and dispose of them, so I don't :)
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Buddy Link-up / Re: Travelling abroad
« Last Post by Brazilian_Honey on 12 April 2025, 12:36:02 pm »
Where abroad that would be? any country in mind?
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Buddy Link-up / Travel buddy
« Last Post by Brazilian_Honey on 12 April 2025, 12:34:26 pm »
"Has anyone else noticed how hard it is to make real friends these days? I'm hoping to meet some kind, down-to-earth ladies who are mature over 40's and might be interested in taking a holiday with a travel buddy instead of going solo. I’m into walking, hiking, being out in nature, and I also enjoy playing padel. Just looking for good company and shared adventures!"
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Seeking/Offering / Re: Good photographer in London?
« Last Post by Blondietina on 12 April 2025, 07:00:15 am »
For those who have shot with atglam (Alan), does he also give you the pictures with edits plus the edits? Also who has worked with rvds Ruan van der Sande. I did a photoshoot before with a guy called creative and I hated the edits . So don’t want the same thing happening. This photoshoot is specifically for agency
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Blather and Babble / Re: clients who you no longer want to see
« Last Post by Mirror on 12 April 2025, 06:33:27 am »
Quote from: ff on 12 April 2025, 04:17:25 am
It's irritating isn't it as many are either looking for free wank material or wasting time getting in touch with no intention of booking

Some do think this is the way to ask for a booking, it's irritating. I don't need chatting up or several prelims whilst I figure out what they want to ask.
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Blather and Babble / Re: How not to book an escort,world championships!
« Last Post by ff on 12 April 2025, 04:21:56 am »
My profile states phone chat only yet emailed asking for an incall meet  :FF
Clueless 😔
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Blather and Babble / Re: clients who you no longer want to see
« Last Post by ff on 12 April 2025, 04:17:25 am »
Quote from: Fifi on 11 February 2025, 12:09:28 pm
I don't mind what communication method they use but I hate clients that I've met on one or more occasions and then message me with "hi how are you?" Like I'm an old friend.  :FF

If they're not planning to make a booking then bugger off. I'm here to make money, not make nice.
It's irritating isn't it as many are either looking for free wank material or wasting time getting in touch with no intention of booking
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