Hi

Had a guy going contact me for a overnight.  I was really excited,because I have been quite quiet lately. He agreed to my £200 deposit. I asked him to call me. When he did,  he was so monotone and awkward,  it was kind of creepy. He spoke in 1 or 2 word answers. I asked him when exactly he wanted the overnight.  He said "soon". I then asked when exactly.  He said "weekend", I said Saturday  then?  He said "yes".  I then asked "incall or outcall?" He said "outcall my place" I said let me send my bank details by WhatsApp. He said "ok".  I them sent my bank details, but something in my gut, made me delete them again  on WhatsApp, and say "sorry I changed my mind , I'm Not the right escort for you".  He just made me feel very uncomfortable speaking to him, he was dismissive and not really want to speak to me. It made me think that maybe he us like that in real life too.  He texted me that "he is disappointed because I was the girl getting chose and I'm his type" [off topic removed]. However I feel he was genuine but there was just something from our conversation that gave me the creeps.   I feel silly for turning down a large amount of money, when my rent is die next month.......but I just felt something in my gut was not right.  Maybe he was just socially awkward or he wasn't comfortable talking over the phone......Has anyone else had a gut feeling about someone, that felt irrational,  but it just didn't feel right??

I may be alot OCD but I have find what works for nevus having a weekly and daily target.  I stick the same playlist music on to get ready as it helps me switch personal from me to Miss Betty me.  My underwear i treat as my uniform. I present myself underwear, Hair and nails and make up is all on as perfect as I can. 

My location is always warm,clean very comfy and dimly lit.  I set the ambiance.

I can be sat ready for work early answering calls from 8am.  I prefer to book on the day so usually zero bookings at start of day but that soon changes.  I find if I in a shitty mood I answer my phone in front of a mirror whilst smiling..  someone told me once it will make me sound happy.  Probably bollox but I do it lol. 

I just treat it like any other job. If I had to go into an office job, I’d have to look presentable do my hair & makeup and look professional. Same thing with escorting, but also depends if you’re the type of person who likes doing your hair, makeup and dressing up. If your pics show that you are natural and casual dress, then no need. I have a schedule and work 1pm - 1am. I get up to gym or run errands then around 12pm I’ll start getting ready. I plan days off I am going to have, so I’m focused on the working days.  You really never know with this job. Sometimes I have to wait till the evening to get my first booking. I’ve had days I’ve waited till 7pm and had 4 jobs back to back. I’m someone who likes to dress up and look glam, I look like that in my pictures so it’s gonna be what the client is expecting. I used to want to go bed early and stop working at like 8pm. I’ve stopped that now, I will stick it out for longer.. sometimes I’ve been up till 3am and had the best bookings where they extend. Depends on what kind of worker you are.

I don't dress up and work if I have no bookings? Having said that I don't really dress up if I do have bookings 🤣

I have bills and rent to pay like everybody else, but if I'm tired and really not feeling up to it I can't make myself work no matter what I do; I've left hotels early and gone home, switched my phone off at lunchtime and gone back to bed and all sorts of things. Then I beat myself up about it and feel even worse, so feel even less like working - it's a vicious circle. And it makes no difference how badly I need the money.

Like Sue69 I screen even more heavily if I'm stressed or tired - sticking to punters I've seen before or half hour bookings helps

It’s the money!

However my motivation varies, at times I might not see new clients as they are unknown and thus I find them more stressful.

One or two regulars I enjoy their company, so if my motivation is low I might still say yes to an appointment with them.  Other regulars are easy-money, not very demanding so little stress.

Others I have to be in the mood for, its more of a performance to keep them happy.