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Questions and Answers / Re: Race Play?
« Last Post by Vintage Miss on 31 December 2024, 06:20:24 pm »
It's either humiliation race play (slurs etc) or playing out racial stereotypes/power dynamics (boss's wife and servant/slave, types of cuckolding, interracial impregnation fantasies etc). Because I do fetish work I get asked about the latter sometimes (I've found more from asian guys than black tbh) but almost never the former, I would just assume it was someone trying to shock me or see how 'low' they can get a sex worker to sink for money (like when I occasional get asked about bestiality or GBH and stuff... just some edge lord trying to get attention).
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Questions and Answers / Re: Slow at the minute or just me?
« Last Post by DarcyLady on 31 December 2024, 05:28:16 pm »
Not a single phone call or text on NYE - interesting!
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Seeking/Offering / Re: Best hotels for touring in Newcastle city centre
« Last Post by LLucyWx on 31 December 2024, 05:25:06 pm »
Hi! I can’t recommend much myself atm, but I am in the area and if you want to share something I would consider it :) I am looking for something Jan 11 to start with

Hi! It won’t let me PM you (new acc restrictions maybe?) but if you want some recs you can drop me an email
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Questions and Answers / Re: Slow at the minute or just me?
« Last Post by Ella_Fitness on 31 December 2024, 04:51:35 pm »
I’m so glad I got out when I did, my anxiety wouldn’t cope with the uncertainty. Granted my income is less but I’ve adjusted and I’m actually a lot happier and hairier lol. Happy to offer any help and advice to those looking to move back into civvy world.

I'm currently half in civvy world and half out haha...I'm sure being full time would be great money and freedom but also come with the uncertainty and I don't know how I would feel about living in my incall location and being available everyday. I like to turn it off and work 'shifts' per say.
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Questions and Answers / Re: Race Play?
« Last Post by Ella_Fitness on 31 December 2024, 04:49:16 pm »
Hi All,

I had someone ask for race play a few days ago and I'm still stumped.

For context, I'm a white British 22 year old, and he was a Black British man (unknown age).

When I asked what it would entail, he just said he wanted me to constantly call him the N word (hard er) to which I declined, and he got aggressive calling me a slag etc etc.

Is this what raceplay actually is? I can't find much about it online. If so, defo a no for me lol

Yes thats what it is .. pretty niche .. but they want you to degrade them by being racist to them and calling them racial slurs.
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Questions and Answers / Re: Race Play?
« Last Post by OverTheHill on 31 December 2024, 04:46:22 pm »
Yes, that’s part of the race play ‘fantasy,’ which is clearly what it is since your potential client was verbally abusive when you declined.

He’s a time wasting, abusive fantasist who should hit your block list.

Just my opinion from my experience.
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Questions and Answers / Re: Slow at the minute or just me?
« Last Post by fallen angel on 31 December 2024, 04:20:55 pm »
Had a 90 min booking today so a decent end to the year.
Hopefully they're all over Christmas now and ready and raring to go once they get back to work and normality.
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Questions and Answers / Race Play?
« Last Post by TheNamelessGhuleh on 31 December 2024, 03:35:56 pm »
Hi All,

I had someone ask for race play a few days ago and I'm still stumped.

For context, I'm a white British 22 year old, and he was a Black British man (unknown age).

When I asked what it would entail, he just said he wanted me to constantly call him the N word (hard er) to which I declined, and he got aggressive calling me a slag etc etc.

Is this what raceplay actually is? I can't find much about it online. If so, defo a no for me lol
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Warnings & Wasters / Condom Boundary Pusher - DERBYSHIRE
« Last Post by TheNamelessGhuleh on 31 December 2024, 03:33:13 pm »
Hi All,

Had a bit of a shock at an incall this month where prior comms were fine, prices and basic GFE discussed and agreed on.

Bit of a background, I am not AT ALL dominant and do not offer it at all. I'm not comfortable doing it to men at all.

Anyway, when he turned up, he wanted me to not touch him, just play with myself whilst he played with himself. Fine!

He then began asking me to degrade him and verbally humiliate him, calling him naughty, disgusting, pervert etc. Again, I am not dominant, nor offer either of these, so I declined and stated that this is not included in my GFE we had agreed on. He did not say anything back, and continued the mutual playing.

But then he asked me to get used condoms out of my bin and empty the contents onto my chest. He also wanted me to put the used condoms onto a toy and use the toy on myself. Obviously I said no, but I was just so in shock as this is so different to the services he had agreed with.

I ended up finishing the service as it began, with him playing with himself, and me playing with myself, although uncomfortable, and he has since asked to come back and do his requested services. I've explained I'm not comfortable, and was uncomfortable when he asked me but he is continuing to ask. I have had to block him, but he made an email IMessage account to message me again!

Since this encounter, he has contacted me on around 5 different iMessage email addresses all containing his first and last name, and the number "93" which I can only assume is representative of "1993" making him around 31 years old.

The number used was 073981278** and the main email being ja**conn**93@hotmail.com. He's a typical looking white male, I'd say he looks younger than 31, on the slimmer side, wore a pair of tracksuit bottoms and T-Shirt.

I'd just be careful as he keeps making new accounts to message me and when I pull him up on it, he says he's never met me, just wants GFE etc etc. I know that if I rebooked him, he'd pull another boundary pushing stunt like that.
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Questions and Answers / Re: Clients Turn Up Wanting More?
« Last Post by TheNamelessGhuleh on 31 December 2024, 03:23:41 pm »
By the way what he wanted you to do to yourself sounds more like the activities a dominant would tell a submissive to do and get a thrill from watching, rather than him trying to put you in a dominant role.

He may well be getting his kicks from knowing you're fairly new and hoping you'll go along with his requests.

So with this, I didn't mean the condom part was him trying to make me dominant; reading it back, I should've been clearer oops. I meant that he kept trying to get me to degrade and verbally humiliate him throughout, before asking for the condom act. Reading back, I missed that bit. I agree that the condom thing is more submissive, which is more my style, but not if it's gonna risk my health...

These more risky services often carry a higher price tag so it's likely he was taking advantage of the fact that you're quite new to the industry and pushing your boundaries to get what he wanted without paying the going rate for that kind of kink.

He was a younger guy so I'm surprised he'd do this tbh! He looked around 24 (I'm 22 but my usual client base is from 35-55), but then again, any age could take advantage if they wanted to. I'm just glad I stuck to my instincts and didn't do it.

I've heard of some guys asking to buy the used condoms after the days work. I dont think that's too bad because it doesn't affect you but fully understand why you wouldn't want multiple men's semen in and inside you ...

I've had TW's ask to buy condoms before, and a few of my friends (who are dommes) have had their subs request to drink other men's used condoms... I can understand the requests if I was a domme, BUT I'M NOT  ;D

The times I am asked to do roleplay when it is not ticked on my profile.

DO NOT get me sTARTED ON THIS. I mention that roleplay and outfit requests are a NO due to working from hotels, and at least 2 will ask a day.

I ask for 'any specific requests' at the same time as the time, date, duration, location - in order to prevent such surprises as well as try stop pre-booking back and forth.

How does this work for you? I found that in my area, if I send them a "script"/"form" styled text, they just ignore it. Sometimes I have to go through the back and forth to actually get a booking. Same with deposits though - NO ONE in my area will pay a deposit EVER. Now I only request a deposit if the booking is over an hour and I just risk losing out on money from booking my hotel. I think it's because the majority of my clients are 35-55 and are married/in a relationship so don't want it on their bank statements.


QUICK EDIT AS I WAS ABOUT TO POST: He just messaged me AGAIN from another email address. He has like 1000000 email addresses which are different combos of his first and last name, and birth year. I also noticed that he is actually most likely 31 as he has "93" in all his email addresses (1993?)
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