By the way what he wanted you to do to yourself sounds more like the activities a dominant would tell a submissive to do and get a thrill from watching, rather than him trying to put you in a dominant role.
He may well be getting his kicks from knowing you're fairly new and hoping you'll go along with his requests.
So with this, I didn't mean the condom part was him trying to make me dominant; reading it back, I should've been clearer oops. I meant that he kept trying to get me to degrade and verbally humiliate him throughout, before asking for the condom act. Reading back, I missed that bit. I agree that the condom thing is more submissive, which is more my style, but not if it's gonna risk my health...
These more risky services often carry a higher price tag so it's likely he was taking advantage of the fact that you're quite new to the industry and pushing your boundaries to get what he wanted without paying the going rate for that kind of kink.
He was a younger guy so I'm surprised he'd do this tbh! He looked around 24 (I'm 22 but my usual client base is from 35-55), but then again, any age could take advantage if they wanted to. I'm just glad I stuck to my instincts and didn't do it.
I've heard of some guys asking to buy the used condoms after the days work. I dont think that's too bad because it doesn't affect you but fully understand why you wouldn't want multiple men's semen in and inside you ...
I've had TW's ask to buy condoms before, and a few of my friends (who are dommes) have had their subs request to drink other men's used condoms... I can understand the requests if I was a domme, BUT I'M NOT
The times I am asked to do roleplay when it is not ticked on my profile.
DO NOT get me sTARTED ON THIS. I mention that roleplay and outfit requests are a NO due to working from hotels, and at least 2 will ask a day.
I ask for 'any specific requests' at the same time as the time, date, duration, location - in order to prevent such surprises as well as try stop pre-booking back and forth.
How does this work for you? I found that in my area, if I send them a "script"/"form" styled text, they just ignore it. Sometimes I have to go through the back and forth to actually get a booking. Same with deposits though - NO ONE in my area will pay a deposit EVER. Now I only request a deposit if the booking is over an hour and I just risk losing out on money from booking my hotel. I think it's because the majority of my clients are 35-55 and are married/in a relationship so don't want it on their bank statements.
QUICK EDIT AS I WAS ABOUT TO POST: He just messaged me AGAIN from another email address. He has like 1000000 email addresses which are different combos of his first and last name, and birth year. I also noticed that he is actually most likely 31 as he has "93" in all his email addresses (1993?)