I'm just wondering how you get yourself constantly motivated to dress up and work if you have no bookings ?
During the day it's  filled with calls from  inquiries and time wasters how to keep going ?
I'm prone to go to sleep and switch off .
I dare not go out incase I completely loose the mood to work !

Can you clarify when you saw this punter and what happened, Ladyjane? At the moment it isn't obvious from your post and we don't allow third party warnings and hearsay on SAAFE .

I noticed on the anti-whore websites that research shows most men who "use" prostitutes are younger than 20-30. But I have wondered about this - what research?

I don't remember reading anything that says exactly that. I've seen lots of speculation with all sorts of age profiles, but the statement above is almost the exact opposite of what I think is the case.

I think that most men once they start paying for sex never completely stop. So given that some do not even try it until in their thirties or forties, that means the typical age range is thirties and above, going on to seventies and even eighties in a few cases. Most of my regulars fall between thirty five and sixty five I'd say. Those that book three times a month or more are mostly in the middle of that range. Every client is different, so I'd find it hard to describe a typical one. 

Barclays did the same to me.  He froze my account 1.5 years ago. Then he canceled it.  Since then I have several bank accounts with different banks.  And I always make sure they never have more than 5-6000 on them.

how long did it take you to get access to your monry again?

This is sort of what my other thread was about re sex workers going digital

I wouldn't mind using a card machine but worried about charge backs and privacy etc

Maybe I'll bite the bullet and get a PO account too. Although don't like them after their scandal but guess beggers can't be choosers.

The other thing that bugs me is I have friends (escorts and otherwise) that earn their money cash in hand but then spend their money using card and to me that doesn't help.

 I spend cash wherever I can so that I don’t hit the cash limits
It’s not hard to do
 I removed my card details from Amazon 😂
I buy Amazon vouchers in cash to use on my Amazon account
I buy gift card vouchers  in cash for Netflix so I upload the voucher and use that 😂
I buy hotels .com vouchers to pay for my hotels on hotel .com
I always check at hotel if I can pay cash and a surprising lot will accept cash

I pay for my holidays in a travel agent so pay cash
I buy neosurf vouchers if I need them for Adultwork
If I want something of asos /bo hoo I get the vouchers in cash
Petrol /eating out buying food I pay for in cash
I always keep a min of a £100 in cash in my purse
I only use my cards if I really really have to

 I just keep all the receipts for hotels .com Amazon for my expenses 
Birthday presents for nieces and nephews  I just give them  cash in a card


This week I think I’ve only spent less 80  quid on my card and that was in a restaurant
It also means I don’t spend nowhere near as much as I used to on random shit online