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Re: Things Clients Do To Annoy!!!
« Reply #4050 on: 06 August 2022, 02:08:13 pm »
 That is really uncomfortable do they not realise were human .. you can get really unwell in that position if in it for too long .

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« Reply #4051 on: 10 August 2022, 12:07:53 pm »
Asking what you do for work while you're literally providing the service they payed for.  :FF

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« Reply #4052 on: 10 August 2022, 02:02:17 pm »
Asking that if I won the lotto jackpot would I give him a free booking.  Yes of course I would do the lot of them for free!

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« Reply #4053 on: 10 August 2022, 04:03:17 pm »
Asking what you do for work while you're literally providing the service they payed for.  :FF
Or when they ask "is this all you do"  ???

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« Reply #4054 on: 10 August 2022, 06:18:47 pm »
Does anyone else get this?

Asks for days this week I can do a booking at a particular time, I reply with the days I can offer that time. He replies saying what about these other days(days I have not put in my reply because I cannot do that time on those days).

Have learned to put into my first availability reply "I cannot do these other days". One client say he used to ask for mornings, I would reply saying mornings on the dates requested were not possible, he would then say "Remember I can do as early as you like". I learned to write into my replies "I have taken into account you can do very early in the morning".

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« Reply #4055 on: 10 August 2022, 10:28:09 pm »
Or when they ask "is this all you do"  ???

I get asked that too. I did have another job before going full-time (as I wanted to ensure I could financially support myself before having this as my sole income) but quit that job a month into escorting, and responded to someone's message about my availability to inform them that I was in my notice period for a full-time job so would have much more flexible availability soon - he said something along the lines of "I take it you prefer escorting to your proper job then?". Imagine paying someone to provide a service and not thinking the person you pay for this service has a proper job.  ???

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« Reply #4056 on: 11 August 2022, 12:11:43 am »
I get asked that too. I did have another job before going full-time (as I wanted to ensure I could financially support myself before having this as my sole income) but quit that job a month into escorting, and responded to someone's message about my availability to inform them that I was in my notice period for a full-time job so would have much more flexible availability soon - he said something along the lines of "I take it you prefer escorting to your proper job then?". Imagine paying someone to provide a service and not thinking the person you pay for this service has a proper job.  ???

I get this quite a lot too, " Is this all you do?"  It beggers belief really when you consider the amount of admin and organisation it takes not to mention the guys who expect us to be available at practically zero notice.
I think many of them prefer to think we are just hobbyists and so must be very much into having sex with them (and any random guy) rather than the idea that we are only doing it for the money.
Clearly many of them don't consider it to be a "real job".

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« Reply #4057 on: 11 August 2022, 01:33:28 pm »
One of my favourite regs came out with, Oh, I didn't know you worked, when I told him I've been really busy with work lately. I said of course I do it's this and he goes, Ohhh  ;D

I had to laugh. In fact, it really tickled me  :D
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« Reply #4058 on: 11 August 2022, 10:00:30 pm »
I think many of them prefer to think we are just hobbyists and so must be very much into having sex with them (and any random guy) rather than the idea that we are only doing it for the money.
Clearly many of them don't consider it to be a "real job".

I think this is very much the case (even though I've taken to answering the inevitable 'what do you like?' question with 'money'), but I do wonder how they reconcile that with their apparent belief that "I must see some real 'weirdos' ", since they ask me that an awful lot too. Obviously they are the lone, unique punter who is pleasant and normal ???.

I've banged on about it on this thread already and probably more than once, but the early arrivers are driving me round the fucking bend. No I am not 'ready', because your booking doesn't start for fifteen minutes. And no, I don't want you to 'just let me know you're here', because - incredibly - it doesn't make me feel relaxed and comfortable knowing there's some random numpty hanging around my street pacing up and down checking his phone  >:( :

I would be less irritated if my text template with their directions didn't include the words 'please be punctual'. Nothing I add makes a blind bit of difference.

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« Reply #4059 on: 12 August 2022, 05:42:22 pm »
I think this is very much the case (even though I've taken to answering the inevitable 'what do you like?' question with 'money'), but I do wonder how they reconcile that with their apparent belief that "I must see some real 'weirdos' ", since they ask me that an awful lot too. Obviously they are the lone, unique punter who is pleasant and normal ???.

I've banged on about it on this thread already and probably more than once, but the early arrivers are driving me round the fucking bend. No I am not 'ready', because your booking doesn't start for fifteen minutes. And no, I don't want you to 'just let me know you're here', because - incredibly - it doesn't make me feel relaxed and comfortable knowing there's some random numpty hanging around my street pacing up and down checking his phone  >:( :

I would be less irritated if my text template with their directions didn't include the words 'please be punctual'. Nothing I add makes a blind bit of difference.

Yes I am asked this quite a lot, also assumed that marks on my body from general life etc have been inflicted by A N Other client. They seem to think others are awful.


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Re: Things Clients Do To Annoy!!!
« Reply #4060 on: 12 August 2022, 11:10:31 pm »
Yes I am asked this quite a lot, also assumed that marks on my body from general life etc have been inflicted by A N Other client. They seem to think others are awful.

Yes! I often have small bruises (mostly on my legs) from the hexagonal dumbells at my gym - they have pointy corners. I've had several comment on them and at least one idiot thought they were track marks ::).

It's like their version of Occam's razor; the simplest explanation is definitely going to be the right one provided it fits whatever stereotype they're applying to the situation. I also have a missing tooth which broke and had to be removed years ago and I was asked more than once at the time who had dunnit  ;D

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« Reply #4061 on: 14 August 2022, 01:57:22 pm »
It's like their version of Occam's razor; the simplest explanation is definitely going to be the right one provided it fits whatever stereotype they're applying to the situation.

I've had the same questions others have remarked upon. Least effort and first stereotype which springs to mind explains a lot of things. I've experienced this in none sex work situations too including those which would count as a failure of professional standards by people who should know better.

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« Reply #4062 on: 14 August 2022, 03:12:12 pm »
Not a huge problem but I don't like the introductory emails which begin " hi hope you're (or your😏) having a wonderful day so far "

It bugs me.

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« Reply #4063 on: 14 August 2022, 03:43:25 pm »
Not a huge problem but I don't like the introductory emails which begin " hi hope you're (or your😏) having a wonderful day so far "

It bugs me.

Hope you are well, I'm finding this is a life wide work thing not specific to sex work. I find it very weird but assumed it's just me (I can be blunt).


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Re: Things Clients Do To Annoy!!!
« Reply #4064 on: 15 August 2022, 08:29:47 am »
Alot of these strangers don't know what to say to escorts !