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PinkR2021

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Re: Things Clients Do To Annoy!!!
« Reply #4080 on: 06 September 2022, 05:36:24 pm »
I’ve started seeing a few new clients. Quite a few of them have started asking me what my “real” job is  ::). They don’t seem to get that this could be my “real” job.
I’m going to start making stuff up like Tightrope Walker or Lion Tamer 😂

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Re: Things Clients Do To Annoy!!!
« Reply #4081 on: 07 September 2022, 07:15:55 am »
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I’ve started seeing a few new clients. Quite a few of them have started asking me what my “real” job is  ::). They don’t seem to get that this could be my “real” job.
I’m going to start making stuff up like Tightrope Walker or Lion Tamer 😂

That's the opposite of my experience, most men who say anything about it think I can only do this. Mind you a fair few just assume I'm at university, which I suppose is probably the same deal as assuming I've got another job? I dunno.

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Re: Things Clients Do To Annoy!!!
« Reply #4082 on: 07 September 2022, 12:06:51 pm »
I’ve started seeing a few new clients. Quite a few of them have started asking me what my “real” job is  ::). They don’t seem to get that this could be my “real” job.

I think a lot of this is them wanting to believe we don't really need the money so they can kid themselves on that we're having sex with them (at least partly) for fun, rather than because we have bills to pay.

There is a whole subsection of deludedness which wants to think we're these horny libertines traversing the fringes of society rather than perfectly ordinary people who want the electric paid and food on the table quickly and easily so we can forget about it and go off to do something else. And to be fair, some marketing approaches do nothing to dissuade them of the idea.

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Re: Things Clients Do To Annoy!!!
« Reply #4083 on: 07 September 2022, 02:01:34 pm »
I’ve started seeing a few new clients. Quite a few of them have started asking me what my “real” job is  ::). They don’t seem to get that this could be my “real” job.
I’m going to start making stuff up like Tightrope Walker or Lion Tamer 😂
😂 You'll better have a circus name to go with that .!!

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Re: Things Clients Do To Annoy!!!
« Reply #4084 on: 07 September 2022, 04:17:22 pm »
I’ve started seeing a few new clients. Quite a few of them have started asking me what my “real” job is  ::). They don’t seem to get that this could be my “real” job.
I’m going to start making stuff up like Tightrope Walker or Lion Tamer 😂

I only really do part time hours and the amount of guys who can't believe I don't work at 7am, or midnight, or every day is astonishing.

PinkR2021

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Re: Things Clients Do To Annoy!!!
« Reply #4085 on: 13 September 2022, 09:49:17 pm »


That's the opposite of my experience, most men who say anything about it think I can only do this. Mind you a fair few just assume I'm at university, which I suppose is probably the same deal as assuming I've got another job? I dunno.
I’ve had the odd client like that. Telling them I used to have a professional job (that required a degree/ post graduate training) and I still chose this line of work for the money/flexibility normally shuts them up.

I think a lot of this is them wanting to believe we don't really need the money so they can kid themselves on that we're having sex with them (at least partly) for fun, rather than because we have bills to pay.

There is a whole subsection of deludedness which wants to think we're these horny libertines traversing the fringes of society rather than perfectly ordinary people who want the electric paid and food on the table quickly and easily so we can forget about it and go off to do something else. And to be fair, some marketing approaches do nothing to dissuade them of the idea.
I’m lucky I tend to see older blokes who accept it is what it is. I’ve found the younger men seem hung up on the idea that I’m some nymphomaniac who can’t wait to jump them  ::) . These same men seem to get annoyed that I won’t rearrange my day to accommodate them.

I think some resent paying so they have to make this fantasy up to make them feel better.

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Re: Things Clients Do To Annoy!!!
« Reply #4086 on: 20 September 2022, 06:14:51 pm »
Why is it when you tell punters who you do not want to see anymore they will not leave you alone?
I have  had some guy I seen a few times years back he was hard work and I always thought bit  snidey , I stopped see him when on a feedback ( i looked on one he did from my feedbacks after we stopped contact ) I  noticed he been to a  barebacker , the man made a fake booking sometime after on a different site used a different name and email and when I had a go at him for  not turn up I realised who he was , he said he done it on purpose to get back at me for ignore him, then over the last couple of years he keeps using different emails to bother me sprouting shit , other day HD on about his paying xamount big money to women who appreciate him , I told him stick with them am I meant be jealous ? Today he started again 3 emails different names and saying I had it in my head we were going get married and I following him around on the Internet saying his been with barebackers , (  like i nothing else to do than that the fucking idiot ) the guys a weirdo and deluded.

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« Reply #4087 on: 28 September 2022, 11:35:50 pm »
It will forever be an issue but not reading a profile - I am not sure how many times I have to write OUTCALLS ONLY within a profile for them to get the hint that I don't do incalls!

This is the one thing that worries me about getting my own website up & running fully, having to deal with the guys who can't be bothered to read
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Re: Things Clients Do To Annoy!!!
« Reply #4088 on: 29 September 2022, 08:16:24 am »
 When i used to work some guys would turn up saying ..oh I've been trying to book you for months .
I'd ask them if they had emailed me to get a booking ..no they hadn't nor had they called before !!!!

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Re: Things Clients Do To Annoy!!!
« Reply #4089 on: 29 September 2022, 08:41:08 am »
It will forever be an issue but not reading a profile - I am not sure how many times I have to write OUTCALLS ONLY within a profile for them to get the hint that I don't do incalls!

This is the one thing that worries me about getting my own website up & running fully, having to deal with the guys who can't be bothered to read

Having your own website increases the quality of men, I think. Those that find you through your website have bothered to look and research as supposed to those who just sit and scroll through pages of AW  :)
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Re: Things Clients Do To Annoy!!!
« Reply #4090 on: 29 September 2022, 12:36:49 pm »
When they've seen you once before and since then have never booked in advance despite you pretty much always being booked up at the times they want, but message you asking if you have availability and to let them know if you have any cancellations. Bonus points when they literally say they hope you have cancellations. Though if I do become available and let them know, there's no response or suddenly they can't make it.  :FF

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« Reply #4091 on: 29 September 2022, 01:09:10 pm »
When they've seen you once before and since then have never booked in advance despite you pretty much always being booked up at the times they want, but message you asking if you have availability and to let them know if you have any cancellations. Bonus points when they literally say they hope you have cancellations. Though if I do become available and let them know, there's no response or suddenly they can't make it.  :FF

Yes what I do is ask for specifics the times and days they can do, obtaining this can be a task but I want to target my cancellation notifications.

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Re: Things Clients Do To Annoy!!!
« Reply #4092 on: 29 September 2022, 01:59:46 pm »
Why is it when you tell punters who you do not want to see anymore they will not leave you alone?
I have  had some guy I seen a few times years back he was hard work and I always thought bit  snidey , I stopped see him when on a feedback ( i looked on one he did from my feedbacks after we stopped contact ) I  noticed he been to a  barebacker , the man made a fake booking sometime after on a different site used a different name and email and when I had a go at him for  not turn up I realised who he was , he said he done it on purpose to get back at me for ignore him, then over the last couple of years he keeps using different emails to bother me sprouting shit , other day HD on about his paying xamount big money to women who appreciate him , I told him stick with them am I meant be jealous ? Today he started again 3 emails different names and saying I had it in my head we were going get married and I following him around on the Internet saying his been with barebackers , (  like i nothing else to do than that the fucking idiot ) the guys a weirdo and deluded.

yes 100%, I never understood this as well, like you tell people you don't want to see them but they keep contacting you with different names/numbers/age like what's the point ?
Why would you want to see somebody who doesn't want to see you??!!! That doesn't make sense, I think their ego must be hurt after a refusal (especially if they "pay" lol) and they just can't accept it


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Re: Things Clients Do To Annoy!!!
« Reply #4093 on: 29 September 2022, 03:22:10 pm »
Having your own website increases the quality of men, I think. Those that find you through your website have bothered to look and research as supposed to those who just sit and scroll through pages of AW  :)

This fills me with some hope so thank you!!  ;D
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Re: Things Clients Do To Annoy!!!
« Reply #4094 on: 02 October 2022, 01:04:34 pm »
The ones who have seen you before no problems and then start to mess you around

Today a client I had seen once no issues except he was very awkward, wanted a short notice booking today. First he asked for 15 mins notice which is absurd, my profile says minimum 1 hour. I agreed to 30 mins notice.

Then within 10 minutes he texted to cancel ‘ something had come up’  when I had rushed around getting ready  😠