clients who smoke! Know its there right etc and even when they dont smoke just before, during or after. I stink of smoke! makes me feel sick! hate it! even loads of perfume, air freshener and showers doesnt get rid of it! 

clients who smoke! Know its there right etc and even when they dont smoke just before, during or after. I stink of smoke! makes me feel sick! hate it! even loads of perfume, air freshener and showers doesnt get rid of it! 

That pisses me off and they expect to have the kissing - nooo way I decline. You want to kiss me I am minty fresh tasty you are stinking of fag mouth too. Also when they want to touch you yet no amount of washing hands can take off that stinking smoking smell.

Ok ready for this one? lol

Get a meet, all arranged this afternoon for an hour at 7pm. Spoke on phone, seemed ok but said was his first time and nervous which is nothing abnormal. Then after I reasured him will make him feel comfortable and relaxed, he said 'I have a girlfriend/fiancee, is that ok?'

errr what am I supposed to say?? 'no its not ok' lol got to admit made me laugh. Anyway, after all 'booked' in, had a few hours before and just had that feeling, sure we have all had it like 'yeah this meet is so not going to happen' Then about 15mins before said he was going to be late. I said it was ok but needed him to be here before 7:30pm. Think got to be firm and think 30mins over is more than fair. Then he finally got there 2 mins before 7:30pm. Did my usual, let him know my apartment number. He came in and was out of breath, weird? as he said he parked his car outside. Then he came up with an excuse saying he had to pick up and drop off his boss round the corner.

Then of course said 'I am so sorry but I am nervous, can we not do this?' I tried by saying, can I offer you a drink, we dont have to do full sex, happy to chat, offer a massage. but nope he wanted to go, saying he felt guilty etc etc. Made it clear was very annoyed and he had wasted my time and that he should give me at least something as a goodwill gesture. He gave me ?20, suppose should be grateful I got that but could of earned an whole hour rate instead! At the end of the day, both adults and it was his choice to book my time and want to do it. sigh I laugh but should cry! suppose thats food for the rest of the week at least!!! 

No that's completely not right.  Anyone who had any ounce of respect would have paid the full fee whether he wanted to stay or not after taking up that much of your time.  Really seems to be time waster central for this industry the last month looking at everyone's posts and my own experiences!  Hope you're ok I would have wanted to cry too, should pick up soon with Christmas xx

Thanks sugar (smiled a little typing that lol) Yeah I know! you know what, at the end of the day, I may not be everyones cup of tea and thats fair enough. We all have the power to choose but I think its simply cruel for someone to 'promise' to pay a fee, waste your time and make it so you have to 'depend' on them for the money you are working for. Only for them to walk out. They would never do that for a 'normal' everyday appointment, like dentist, hair appointment etc. Imagine it?? I laugh but it is very much  lol. I think some really get off on it and its quite sad as most are just trying to make a living and better themselves, surely cant begrudge anyone for that?

Anyway, thanks for your message. Hope you have a good day. Got one booking confirmed but shall see! used to feel a bit more happier once they shown up as was thinking, for sure get money but even if they actually walk in, always chance for it to be 'cancelled!' PMSL xx