I wouldn't have refunded him, his relationship problems aren't going to pay your bills.

+1, it?s up to you how you operate as I am happy to refund in particular circumstances but if it?s just because they are having a bad day it?s really not your fault. It usually has to do with something relating the booking itself or if it has been an issue on my part.

The other day I had reached my target and someone was running late, it was for an hour and had had lots of enquiries about his particular slot and I had a booking soon after. So I decided to take Amy?s stance on people turning up late by saying that he would still need to pay for the hour he had booked as I had to turn people down. He understood and was still happy to see me. He turned up came twice in 10mins and jumped straight into the shower! I gave -him- a refund! Only a small percentage as the fact remained that I could have seen others.

The point is, never let anyone deliberately guilt you into a refund, always be the one in control. You are your own boss. If I worked at Tesco as a cashier and gave out discounts for things that didn?t warrant it my boss would have sacked me, we all have bills to pay. x

Book me when they don?t actually want a booking.

Lost count of the amount of sour faces over the years in my agency days who just booked for the sake of booking because they were in a routine.

And had a client today who didn?t really want to be here at all. Just broken up with his fianc?, wasn?t in the right frame of mind. Couldn?t get hard and said ?I?ve just paid 100 to lick pussy?, so I felt bad and refunded him for his remaining time. But why should I be out of pocket because someone doesn?t want to be there? I get why he came, he thought it would take his mind off it/cheer him up, but I lost out on a booking for the same time with someone who actually wanted that space and would have been happy to pay the whole fee 

?100 to lick pussy sounds like a great deal to me, I don't know what he was complaining about 

In all seriousness though yes, much better for yourself to be less lax about refunds. It's not your fault he wasn't in the right frame of mind. You wouldn't expect money back if you got food at a restaurant and then decided you weren't actually in the mood for eating out. I have only ever given back someone ?20 because I was concerned for my safety.

My latest gripe is asking me for a date and telling me to 'give them a chance' and asling personal questions - am I dating etc. It's none of your business!!
I finish next week. It's for the best now; I said I'd call it a day when it became a chore and it's getting that way...

Received an email from a reg,  "Why do you do why you do? I'll give you a job if you want? "

and another client earlier on in the week said, "here's my card, contact me and I'll tell you how you can make some REAL money, a good girl like you can do better..."

First of all, I'm an independent and am not looking to be rescued. I have made a conscious decision to be an escort, I am not under duress, so please don't ask me if I need work or why I am doing this. There are lots of job sites/agencies out there and I am not looking to be employed by clients.

so fucking rude.

I want to print this off and shove it in the face of every guy who asks that. Or the ones who say "you're too nice to be doing this."

Like wtf would you rather I was horrible to you during the meet?

Received an email from a reg,  "Why do you do why you do?
and another client earlier on in the week said, "here's my card, contact me and I'll tell you how you can make some REAL money, a good girl like you can do better..."

I get asked why do you do this job and how did you get into it etc. and up until recently I was quite honest as my story is quite interesting but now I answer them by saying "so how did YOU get into it and why do YOU do it? 

Some very obvious and expected responses but I turn it around to them because I am no longer prepared to tell them anything about myself. If they still ask me even after I have sidestepped them I just say I had always wanted to try it and found I loved it type of answer.

I've started saying outright now when they say that that they're being patronising. That's when they start to backpedal like 'no no I didn't mean it like that.' Well, you can be patronising without intending to be? I reckon they think they're being so complimentary when they say it but I don't have the patience for it because they're indirectly slagging off other escorts, which I hate.

If anyone asks how I got into this I have to hold back saying I was a bit skint and just needed a bit of extra cash and it just kinda stuck with me and I realised I was good at it. Same with most people who choose to carry on doing sometime. I mean why else does -anyone- work? I just chose to do sex related work.