Quote from: Iluvcats on 12 January 2016, 06:07:18 pm

Quote from: Nia Hope on 12 January 2016, 05:14:19 pm

Maybe it's just me but I get irritated when a guy texts something like "Hi, I was wondering if you're free at all today?"

I text back "Hi, sorry but I'm busy today"

And then nothing! Not even an "Ok thanks". I would at least text back a thanks, is it me or am I being narky?

This ^^^ 😡😡

When clients won't/don't take no for an answer then repeatedly put bookings through so u have no choice but to reply to them (forced contact) or they take a mini tantrum & tell everyone on a well known place but add some lies to the mix all because we declined a meet with them. Poir wee scones spit their dummies out. (I can just imagine their faces bright purple with steam coming from their ears)

I just block anyone who keeps putting unannouced and unwanted booking requests through.

This is already blocked members doing this, they can still put bookings through & leave feedback only if they're blocked.

I block my whole calendar as unavailable and put a note on my profile to disregard the AW calendar and also the hours I'm available..

Thus no one can bung thro an unwanted booking & potentially leave nasty 'FB only' comments. This is because exactly this happened to me 18 months ago after I refused a booking.

I've tried that too but still having blocked clients putting bookings through & leaving fake feedback :-(

Clients that don't understand what "at discretion" means.

I offer anal at discretion, and the amount of guys that text me and ask ahead of time can they definitely have anal in the booking is unbelievable.

I politely reply no, as this service is at discretion, so even though I may sometimes offer it cannot be guaranteed. My offering anal depends on how I feel, if I'm in the right mood, if I'm turned on enough, if I feel the client can be gentle enough. I tell them clearly when making the initial enquiry that this is a decision I make during the booking and not before. My profile also very clearly states that anal sex is at discretion.

Despite this I get endless "but will you"? and "I have 7 inches, quite thick so will you do it"? type calls. I really think that guys expect me to have one of those post office plastic things with the letterbox shaped hole in it - you know the ones they use to ascertain whether your letter will be charged in the cheaper or more expensive bracket, depending on whether or not you can squish your parcel through the gap.

They want me to say yes -  if you can stick your throbbing purple member through this bit of plastic with a hole in it, this will qualify you to fuck me in the arse.

Anyway, if I was (for example) happy to bum-fuck anyone under 6 inches I would simply say so on my profile. That's not what at discretion means. At discretion means you have the right to choose, at any time, and for any reason!!

Rant over 

H xx

The guys who say they're 7 inches or whatever are timewasters. I have never had a guy show up after giving me the measurement. Doesn't matter if they say it's 3 inches or 10. He's not showing up.

However, I did once have a guy inquire about my "anal at discretion." I told him that it came down to his size, circumference, and how gentle he seemed. He just said, "Oh, there won't be a problem."

Sure enough, guy had a tiny dick. But he didn't press the issue or give me a size one way or the other.

It annoys me when they deliberately intend to overstay their time to get free extras.

Quote from: Nia Hope on 12 January 2016, 05:14:19 pm

Maybe it's just me but I get irritated when a guy texts something like "Hi, I was wondering if you're free at all today?"

I text back "Hi, sorry but I'm busy today"

And then nothing! Not even an "Ok thanks". I would at least text back a thanks, is it me or am I being narky?

No it's not just you nia. It irritates me as well hence why I have just stopped replying to them now. They are normally the ones that sends vague messages and are often very polite as well. e.g. "Hi, are you free at all today or are you free next week? Thanks Jack" etc. Then you have to reply with yes I am free at so and so time on so and so date, then they don't respond. Now, if they don't email me with a date, time, duration and location I ignore.

Same here I just ignore stupidity.  Even worse "Are you around this week?" The last one who did this ( a client who has been many times before too but sometimes decides to behave like a complete idiot!!)  texted that I replied "Why?" He then gave an actual day and time he was thinking of, booking was made then "what will you be wearing?" Me: Whatever you want me to" (yawns) so he then asks for what he would like me to wear, I tell him yes and to confirm that morning,  then he decides he wants the day before with one hours notice, I happen to be available the day before at short notice so he then texts to say he has arrived ...Half a fucking hour early!!!


I see his text 10 minutes before he's due, after rushing around finding the requested clothing, so I then put kettle on, have a cig out my balcony and text him dead on 12 to say, "I'm ready now"

the guys that spend ages on the phone politely I must say, asking about your services etc being very exact about what they want and don't want then tell you they want a 15 minute booking! Jesus Christ just arrive and fuck me, cum then leave! Simple, it's 15 minutes x

Just one of the many reasons why I don't offer 15 minute bookings, too many tight stupid idiots.

Guys who freak out over the curtains/blinds being open even a crack. Even if you're on a high floor and the only way someone could see in your window would be with a high-powered telescope from the top of that church tower a mile away....

Yes I have that.Curtain open like half an inch at the bottom on a 3rd floor window.I asked who he thought might be able to see given there was also a net curtain.Spiderman?!?

Maybe it's just me but I get irritated when a guy texts something like "Hi, I was wondering if you're free at all today?"

I text back "Hi, sorry but I'm busy today"

And then nothing! Not even an "Ok thanks". I would at least text back a thanks, is it me or am I being narky?

This client who I have seen several times in the past is notorious for doing stuff like this. He is also quite vague like "when are you free?" I only respond because I have seen him several times before and he seems quite normal. But when I respond he usually ignores it if it's a time that doesn't suit him or ignore it if I say i am not working. I then started to ignore him when he asks if I am free at so and so time blah blah. Just recently, he messaged again asking if I was working today? Knowing how he doesn't reply I still thought I give benefit of the doubt as I am much calmer now and it's quiet. I said yes, please let me know what time, he said 3pm I explained that I can see him at 3:15 and if this is not ok to let me know. did he respond? No. I then told him off (sorry I was just pissed) and he then apologized and said he got busy (understandable) he then asked when next i'm working. (still vague, I mean if you want to make a booking another day just say it no?) At this point I am just fedup with texting back and forth so just thought "forget it" It shouldn't be this long and complicated to make a booking. BLOCKED! Am I being a bit ott?

Also, I'm starting to think that men text "are you working" Only for you to respond so they can ignore it. I think they get a kick out of it maybe? I have a friend who have received "are you working" text from the same number several times and whenever she responded he ignores it. Starting to think it has nothing to do with them being busy now.