Thank you so much for the replies guys! Sorry i've only just seen them.
I'm still highly considering it, i've got a few regular camming clients who have been asking for meets, and tbh i do find camming a chore sometimes as my agency take 50%!

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I thought I'd give you all an upate on my change in profile - now that I'm a month on. I did not big up the massage as a headline service - I hate doing them. Most definitely a voyeuristic offerning.

The first week was slow and I'm gradually picking up new clients and one or two former clients. There is a definite change in the type of men that have come to see me - they are definitely older. Mostly over 50 and some 65 plus. I have not seen one guy under 40.

So far no boundary pushers - some have hinted at wanting "extras" and I have refused apart from one old regular who likes his bj with a condom who I really enjoy seeing.

I probably set my price a bit low - but I'm leaving it where it is to build up a new client base. I have also added on some kinky none penetrative activities to charge as extras and last week, every client paid for an extra which was easy and safe to provide. I'm happier and healthier working this way. No thrush, no BV or soreness.

To put it in perspective, I made about two thirds of the income I would have made on a really good month under my old anything goes profile.

I have asked clients to give reviews but so far nothing..... I think some reviews could help bring in more clients and hopefully I'm gonna move to a better incall location next month - cheaper and no nosey neighbours (had one comment last week from next door).

Thanks for all the advice you gave me - it helped give me confidence to change the way I work

I have worked in small communities, I have had indiscrete punters - one who hadn't seen me in the town I moved to spotted me shouting my working name across the road in a very sensitive place. When I ignored him he shouted again saying "I am sure it's you". This is a man who on the couple of times he booked me was terrified of being found, told me privacy and discretion were for him paramount. I had to go hide around the corner before heading to my destination because combined with his behaviour (after becoming unreliable, then a gap of a year or two had been contacting me for a while trying to get around some of my new booking requirements), and not understanding why this was all undesireable.

Someone not too far away who I was stupid enough to offer a small discount for minimal travel ran up to me in the street calling me by my working name, and despite being given a name to call me when next saw me decided to play a game of 'what name shall I call you'.

HOWEVER many clients travel into the area either for work or leisure reasons or paths simply do not cross. Infact I have bumped into clients a 90 minute drive away in completely random situation - also 90 minutes away from the place I know they live. Many live several hours drive away, others the other end of the country. For discretion and privacy reasons I actually prefer outcalls to homes rather than incalls or hotels. Historically I have had so many be indiscrete at incalls, and to some extent some hotels. I also have a discretion speech when accepting their booking, if they are localish I explain what to do if we do bump into each other.

Solihull dead today was banging busy yesterday today very quiet only 2

I would send a second email.
To write an email I would use AI (Gemini or whatever) to make it neat and limit the time spent on dealing with these arseholes (a prompt along the line - "Write a strongly-worded email telling the website owners to remove my details and content that they stole from my advertising. Quote UK and USA copywriting laws as well as trafficking. Threaten with legal action if not removed within 2 business days.")

Looks like they are using Cloudflare, so include in the email that you will be filing a formal complaint with Cloudflare.com

They have finally removed my details from their website. Thank you.