Okay thank you so much girls. I’m currently down as a ‘stress consultant’ lol xx

Young woman, unemployed and with family ties to the US raises more red flags to the border agents than a commie parade. "Stress consultant" will make them think you're taking the piss. Get a solid story as back up, beautician or mobile beauty therapist working in a salon or whatever you write on your tax return. They may ask more questions or not (name of the business, how long you've been doing it) so do you homework and have a backup solid story. If you say you're an escort or admit any ties to see industry they'll send you back to the UK. Sometimes they'll ask for your phone to look at browsing history, emails and corroborate your story, again... any sexy  photos, adult websites, messages with clients or ties to the sex industry will get you back.

An opening text from a new client that simply says "Hotel?" 

Hi,
Hope you are well.
I go two or three time a year in the US. I am a European citizen .I do the Esta first from their website.Then I plan my trips . Most questions they ask me when i cross the border:What is the purpose of my trip , how long i intend to stay , where do I stay, how much money i have during my trip. What kind of job i am
doing in London ? They never ask me to prove my job , only one time i was asked the name of the company and name of my manager but not sure he tooke a note of it. I work part time employee and  also being a self employed. So only mentioned my part time job.
Hope that help.keep a copy of your hotel room booking and plane
 ticket , that can help to prove your saying .

Okay thank you so much girls. I’m currently down as a ‘stress consultant’ lol xx

I believe you have to complete an ESTA visa to travel to the USA .they wanted my   work information etc as I've just had to complete mine for sept travel. I do work in a regular job too.
Do use homeland security website though as some sites ask for  alot of money to pay for it. It should be $14 no more.