My Boyfriend of 7 years, soon to be my husband, (when he pops the question  ) he knows about me and is very supportive. I have no pressure and I explained what I did at the start, I prefer to be alone than have loads of shit later.
We talk regular over all parts of my work and he knows I love him so much, I am good at my job, the money is helpful and i like it. I am very possessive and I get a little worried why he doesn?t want to take other girls but he seems contented to be with me and I am coming to accept its me he loves, he knows my lovemaking is only  for him, sex is for the clients.
I have to keep pinching myself and  try not forget him in the balance of life.

Tell the guys at the start, if they run arr well... bye.
If they stay, talk more, if they get too turned about it still be careful with your emotions.
If he is a client, personally I would not like him seeing anyone else. ( but that?s your call)
Relationships are all different, if it works for you, then its right 
Web dating is a good way to look for guys.

TELL ME YOUR SECRETS!!! LOL
nah i get it tell them at the start but you know its scary

Oh my! I have to agree with Layla.

My partner of 2 years, soon to be husband this summer, used to be a client of mine. I never had or wanted a relationship with a client before but he is the best man I have ever met. It hasn't always been easy, but then again no relationship ever is. He is understanding, supportive and doesn't see anyone else, because he doesn't want to, although I wouldn't like him to either. He understands that this is a job and doesn't get off on it. His daughter, from a previous relationship, has been a godsend who has had an incredibly positive effect in my life.

Everyone is different, and every relationship is different. After this experience I wouldn't advise anyone to dismiss the possibility of a relationship. Keep your head on your shoulders and be careful of who you open up to. But love is a very powerful thing, one that may appear when you least expect it and never appear again. You may never know unless you embrace it.

My ex found out that I'm a prostitute today (well technically not anymore seeing as I webcam only now). It's a big deal to me because I'm still madly in love with him and we we've been seeing each other again  and talking about being together again.
 He asked me to be completely honest with him before we get together as he had his suspicions (he asked for honesty because I've lied and cheated on him in the past) so I was completely honest and told him everything. AMazingly  he didn't immediately tell me he was never going to see me again as I thought he would.  He was calm and asked questions about it....but he doesn't want me anymore. Not even for a casual fwb situation.

I know this sounds silly but it really hurts. It really really hurts . I'll never see someone that I really love again because of my job.

Sorry to hear this.
But you are not alone. There is always worse... I can add myself here..
So, after I told him about past ( I had taken a break and was not doing it anymore) 1.5 years after we were together and I realised that I really....you know...for him (sorry I can't use this word), he stayed with me for another 1.5 years and we lived together actually. At his last trip to his parents in India (I dropped him to the airport in his car) he never came back. He eventually txt me that he had gone for his marriage... second arranged marriage..he was already divorced from his first arranged marriage. He was telling his family and his new wife that I was the "landlady"

OK I am a daft blonde...fine I know....

So here I am back with you girls and guys! And I'm loving this....

OK I am a daft blonde...fine I know....

So here I am back with you girls and guys! And I'm loving this....

Honey I feel for you. You are not a daft blonde. I have a lovely civvie friend who went through something similar with a British born man from an asian background. There were strong cultural pressures but yes, the guy was a dickhead. After years of being together he ended up leaving her for an arranged marriage.

My partner also knows a man who broke up his marriage for an arranged one again due to cultural pressures from his family. I don't aim to generalise.

Take care of yourself, mend your heart but keep it open. Love is everywhere and will find its way to you with the right person.

I think I've struck lucky with mr megan I've been on and off with him since I was 14. He was my first boyfriend. He has always been supportive whenever I have made a decision about my career first stripping then escorting. We even work together sometimes! 7 nearly 8 years later we still got it going on. He helps me underwear shop for work, buys me condoms when I'm running too behind and have left them at home, always comes home from the pound shop with stacks of baby wipes, and is great in bed but at the same time only wants me! I suggested getting an escort for a threesome for his birthday but he just said he wasn't interested and that he was more than happy spending his birthday going to a simple restaurant in our hometown and spending the evening together. He also cooks, cleans decorates our home and loves animals and if I tell him I can't be bothered to work one day he motivates me. I really am blessed. 

I think I got lulled into a false sense of security as I had a boyfriend for a few years not long after I started escorting who was always really good and supportive and never had any issues with what I do.

It was only after we broke up and I started seeing other guys that I had my first experiences of men's insecurities and bad attitudes, even from those who on the surface seemed fine with the job.

But I do think (as was the case with my ex boyfriend) that there are people out there who are genuinely supportive and don't have problems with sex work in relationships. I guess for me it's a bit easier as I'm quite open about what I do and surround myself with people who have the same politics as me so relationships and friendships aren't as problematic.

I think I got lulled into a false sense of security as I had a boyfriend for a few years not long after I started escorting who was always really good and supportive and never had any issues with what I do.

It was only after we broke up and I started seeing other guys that I had my first experiences of men's insecurities and bad attitudes, even from those who on the surface seemed fine with the job.

But I do think (as was the case with my ex boyfriend) that there are people out there who are genuinely supportive and don't have problems with sex work in relationships. I guess for me it's a bit easier as I'm quite open about what I do and surround myself with people who have the same politics as me so relationships and friendships aren't as problematic.

I take it it wasn't your work that split you up in the end then. I think some relationships start out okay before jealously rears it's head.