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Re: Late clients problems
« Reply #15 on: 25 March 2015, 09:05:09 pm »
This is exactly why I won't leave anything less than an hour between bookings when I do incalls.

Yes I might not make as much, but I'm not running about like a headless chicken, plus being asthmatic I wouldn't like to be rushing about.

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Re: Late clients problems
« Reply #16 on: 25 March 2015, 09:17:06 pm »
I would be all harassed and hot and bothered if I only left 15-30 mins between clients. I don't like to have a clock in the room or even wear a watch so I can usually judge an hour just by guessing and it's not the end of the world if we run over a bit cause I've plenty of time before my next client whereas I would feel that I would have to rush my clients if I left such little time inbetween.

I actually couldn't work that way at all, funny how different ways of working work differently for different people.

I prefer my meets to be much more relaxed. My clients take about 10 minutes just to get dressed soemtimes.

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Re: Late clients problems
« Reply #17 on: 25 March 2015, 09:26:59 pm »
 :) Yes...I agree.
It's amazing how varied
everyone's comfort zones are.

« Last Edit: 25 March 2015, 09:38:48 pm by cheesypeas »
Random idle thoughs...Can I manage 100 sit ups a day for a year...?

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Re: Late clients problems
« Reply #18 on: 26 March 2015, 12:40:40 am »
If you've booked a guy in for an hour and he's 15 minutes late, assuming you can't overrun as you've got another booking later, do you still charge him for the hour?

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I've had guys who have been 15 minutes late for a half hour appointment and I'll either say "Well, that's our time up now unfortunately" after 45 mins (the time it would have ended if they had been punctual), with no warning before that they were only getting 45 minutes. I charged them the hour at the start. The reason for this? They've been awful clients and I just want them the heck out and I'm not wanting to do them any favours. On the other hands, I've had guys in the exact same situation and I give them their full hour, because they have been super apologetic and polite and lovely.

The most recent guy who was late that I cut short... Was late because he couldn't follow directions, went in the door behind someone else rather than buzzing me as he had been instructed 30 seconds before, meaning I didn't know he was in the building meaning I couldn't open the door to him in time to prevent him RINGING THE FLAT DOORBELL. He then comes in, no apology, just his "reasons," kisses like a wet dog, asks if we really have to use a condom, asks if I have a boyfriend, asks if he can make me cum, soaks the bathroom floor, tries to lift me up the bed by grabbing my head, thus causing me a week-long neck injury... Was he getting his full hour? Was he fuck. I told him clearly to not ever come back. His explanation "But I haven't done this before!" Only newbie I ever had that wasn't timid and doing his hardest to listen carefully to instructions.

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Re: Late clients problems
« Reply #19 on: 26 March 2015, 04:02:44 pm »
Do you change the bed after every client? You could save a bit of time putting a throw on and changing top 2 pillow cases  8)

I change pillow cases and duvet covers but not the fitted sheet as no one ever gets in the covers! it only takes me a few mins, I thought everyone did that? Oh dear haha x

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Re: Late clients problems
« Reply #20 on: 26 March 2015, 04:27:39 pm »
Do you change the bed after every client? You could save a bit of time putting a throw on and changing top 2 pillow cases  8)

I change pillow cases and duvet covers but not the fitted sheet as no one ever gets in the covers! it only takes me a few mins, I thought everyone did that? Oh dear haha x

I bought a bunch of cheap kingsize sheets at Asda and Primark - cost at most ?6 each - and I spread one over the bed at the start of each booking, while we're chatting and saying "hello" (that way they see that they're getting a clean sheet!) I don't change the pillow cases as often - they are under the sheet and if they want to fish them out and put them under their heads a certain way, they can. I change them when I think they need to be changed (so they never smell or look grubby.)

This cuts my laundry down by quite a lot.

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Re: Late clients problems
« Reply #21 on: 26 March 2015, 08:14:12 pm »
I leave 30 minutes in between which means I can just about pull it off if they're 15 minutes late, but they will be slightly rushed. I may, for example, suggest we shower together 5 mins before the thirty minutes is up and while they're dressing, I'm also dressing and fixing my hair and makeup.

But I have had a couple of guys do exactly what yours did - ignore my messages saying "I'm sorry, but it's now too late." In which case they just get told when they arrive that I wasn't kidding.

Same here. 30 min in between. But a guy arriving 15 min late, then him showering etc plus me getting myself and the room ready (open the window etc). I felt awful once for that guy who said he was literally downstairs and I said "sorry, too late". He learnt his lesson and booked again. Came on time:).

Lool. you saw him after that? lol. me being the paranoid one wouldnt dare see him again, and not because he was late the first time but just the fact that he came all the way to see me and I turned him away (then again, not my fault you were late) But some men can be very revengeful and I'll be too scared that he will try to hurt me next i see him. Am i being extra?? lool

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Re: Late clients problems
« Reply #22 on: 26 March 2015, 10:40:19 pm »
Oh just a thought. Not related to my escorting activities but it's also that I simply hate people who are being late. It's disrespectful.

And also because I don't want to have to worry about 30' sharp or 1 hour sharp I just can't stand them being late. But somehow 99% of them get the message. They must call once on their way anyway:)

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Re: Late clients problems
« Reply #23 on: 27 March 2015, 01:46:19 pm »
Grrrrr, just had one today. Texted him with my address and saying "if your running late drop me a quick text blah blah blah". Due at 12.30. Phones at 12.42, well prank calls 3 times first trying to get me to call him back, pfffft, nope! So rings properly to say he's stuck in traffic. Should of rang half an hour ago not 12 minutes after start time. Claimed he was low on battery and saving it for satnav, what difference does it make on your battery if you texted me then or rang me now!? I cancelled his booking, he still couldn't understand why  :FF :FF :FF Twat!

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Re: Late clients problems
« Reply #24 on: 27 March 2015, 02:15:44 pm »
I had one yesterday. He was 15 mins late and was quite literally the most repulsive guy ever. He was due at 12.45, but at 12.45 he text to say he had no Sat Nav and could I send him directions (WTF who has no sat nav?!). 1 oclock comes and im thinking, I REALLY, REALLY, dont want to see you, but business is slow and I needed the cash.

Anyway in he waltzes at 1.05pm, no apology or explanation. I wont go into details but he was just vile. Im still wretching from the thought of those grey pubes in my mouth!! :(

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Re: Late clients problems
« Reply #25 on: 27 March 2015, 02:18:02 pm »
Unless the fuckers call to say they will be late, if they are 10 mins late with no word I assume the appointment is cancelled ... it pisses me off and I don't want to spend time with someone who has already pissed me off lol

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Re: Late clients problems
« Reply #26 on: 27 March 2015, 03:10:18 pm »
I leave 30 minutes in between which means I can just about pull it off if they're 15 minutes late, but they will be slightly rushed. I may, for example, suggest we shower together 5 mins before the thirty minutes is up and while they're dressing, I'm also dressing and fixing my hair and makeup.

But I have had a couple of guys do exactly what yours did - ignore my messages saying "I'm sorry, but it's now too late." In which case they just get told when they arrive that I wasn't kidding.

Same here. 30 min in between. But a guy arriving 15 min late, then him showering etc plus me getting myself and the room ready (open the window etc). I felt awful once for that guy who said he was literally downstairs and I said "sorry, too late". He learnt his lesson and booked again. Came on time:).

Lool. you saw him after that? lol. me being the paranoid one wouldnt dare see him again, and not because he was late the first time but just the fact that he came all the way to see me and I turned him away (then again, not my fault you were late) But some men can be very revengeful and I'll be too scared that he will try to hurt me next i see him. Am i being extra?? lool

Yes. He was a decent sounding guy and kept texting while on his way. But I was going to a bday that day and already had a cab booked. I really couldn't wait any longer, he was way too late. So there was no reason for him to be revengeful: he was extremely late and he knew it was his fault.
Which is why I did book him for another day and accepted his apologies. Especially as he seemed genuinely sorry.

Some guys really just have something come up and they are late. Things happen to everyone. Those guys always text or call and it's always possible to work something out.

When a client is late and I don't hear from them then f*** them. I won't wait.

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Re: Late clients problems
« Reply #27 on: 27 March 2015, 03:25:10 pm »
I prefer my meets to be much more relaxed. My clients take about 10 minutes just to get dressed soemtimes.

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With me they have plenty of time to relax but it's time they have paid for lol. No way I want clients taking up my personal time. If they take 10mins to get dressed and have a long shower that could be 20 mins  :o I have better things to do. Don't you feel they're taking advantage of you by doing this?

I have a clock on the wall the size of big ben and wear a watch too. Time is money.

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Re: Late clients problems
« Reply #28 on: 27 March 2015, 03:25:53 pm »
Unless the fuckers call to say they will be late, if they are 10 mins late with no word I assume the appointment is cancelled ... it pisses me off and I don't want to spend time with someone who has already pissed me off lol

I'm exactly the same as you, at 12.40 I got dressed back into my pjs, when he rang at 12.42 it didn't matter what bullshit he came up with, there was no way I was budging, I'm a stubborn little fucker! Now, had he called or texted prior to the booking, he would of got his booking. It's all about manners! Lol xox

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Re: Late clients problems
« Reply #29 on: 02 April 2015, 08:52:12 pm »
im going to just give them their remainding time from now on, it may make them on time next time