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amber_c

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Sex work after leaving escorting
« on: 29 April 2015, 12:19:08 am »
I've been doing this a while behind my BF's back (7 months) and his family found out so he knows now. He was angry initially and very upset but he is willing to fix our relationship if I quit escorting as soon as I can. I'm looking for a civvie job but I'd like to leave escorting with as much to show for it as possible as I haven't really saved anything up (silly, I know).

I'm quite popular in my city so if I announce my escorting is coming to an end soon I might get an influx of people who want to catch me before I go, but what else can I do?
I like to play it safe and not get lots of visitors at my flat so I don't want to just accept loads of bookings even though it would be easiest. As I've got lots of feedback and my profile is in the top 5 for my city, is it possible that if I started phone chat/selling worn panties&tights/writing erotica/etc that it could be worth the time put into it?
I wouldn't do cams, not even with a venetian mask/wig/fake glasses, out of fear of someone taking a screenshot and the fact that anyone could be watching.

If it was successful enough I'd maybe continue the phone chat/selling things after I quit escorting if I made enough off it. Nobody could out me over the sound of my voice/smell of my underwear! And the people closest to me already know now.
I know asking how much I could make is a 'piece of string' question but even a ballpark figure or personal experiences would be nice.

I've got all positive feedback and good reviews so I'm really hoping it will work out.

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Re: Sex work after leaving escorting
« Reply #1 on: 29 April 2015, 09:03:32 am »
Amber, there is no ball park figure anyone can give you. 

It's a case of trying and finding out for yourself and judge it from there.  Different girls earn differerent amounts and there is just Jo telling what another can make.
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Re: Sex work after leaving escorting
« Reply #2 on: 29 April 2015, 09:56:45 am »
I charge ?5 for worn tights ,but that is after a meet. You would probably have to charge more to cover packing and post etc. It does amaze me how many men want this sort of thing used panties/tights etc. The mind boggles as to why they want them.

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Re: Sex work after leaving escorting
« Reply #3 on: 29 April 2015, 09:48:17 pm »
If they already know, it's probably time to have a talk about boundaries. Have you talked with him about camming? Some partners have the attitude that it's money and while the men can wank over you (thus proving your attractiveness) they don't get to be sexual with you.

The mind boggles as to why they want them.

I'd have thought it was quite obvious ;D
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amber_c

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Re: Sex work after leaving escorting
« Reply #4 on: 01 May 2015, 04:48:28 pm »
I've talked to him and he's really unhappy about the idea of me meeting anyone or doing webcams (small city so local people might be watching) but he said the phone chat doesn't bother him at all as it's just talk and means nothing. I completely understand why he draws the line there so I'm going to give phone chat a go and pray it works out!

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Re: Sex work after leaving escorting
« Reply #5 on: 03 May 2015, 07:40:23 pm »
I find 'phone chat dead though (compared to webcam), esp on AW - I did phone chat/Direct IM for 4 months (on AW) before I moved onto webcam (and I only moved onto Webcam because, compared to 'phone chat it is much busier and you can charge/earn more).

Before that I did phone chat with 2 other phone chat companies and although it was busy (a few years back, not sure now) I got paid something like 17p per min - then I found AW where I could set my own rate and earn a lot more but the phone chat side of it is sporadic. I could log in some nights as 'available for phone chat' and not get one call. This happens quite regular so I don't rely on it (hence me combining it with webcam).

If you've been used to the sort of money Escorting brings in I would say the 'phone chat earnings will be a huge shock. (Probably best described as pin money). :-\
« Last Edit: 03 May 2015, 08:00:00 pm by Bexy »

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Re: Sex work after leaving escorting
« Reply #6 on: 03 May 2015, 07:53:27 pm »
Regarding selling used underwear - in addition to advertising on AW (where they take 30% of your purchase) I seem to recall reading somewhere (couple of years back) that you can sell them on ebay but as a PRIVATE sale/seller.

For example input into the ebay search field "used well worn ladies black tights" or "used panties private" - (apparently you can do this under a 'private listing').

ebay states:

When to use a Private Listing

Private listings are intended for use when, due to the nature of the item being sold, bidders don't want their identity to be revealed. While there are some cases where private listings are appropriate, such as the sale of high-priced items or approved pharmaceutical products, you should only make your listing private for a specific reason.


Before doing it I would recommend perhaps that you also 'google' the words (something like) "selling used underwear on ebay" as there are various topics/forums threads about it on other sites.

« Last Edit: 03 May 2015, 07:56:51 pm by Bexy »

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Re: Sex work after leaving escorting
« Reply #7 on: 05 May 2015, 04:29:49 pm »
Why don't you remain listed as an escort (but not actually take any bookings) so that you show up on searches and then just make money via content sales?

I make quite a bit on photos and videos even though, I must admit, I do not update them as much as I should. If I were to add new content every day then I imagine I could make even more! At the moment I make about 400 credits a month but only add 2 short videos per month and I have about 200 photos in my PG.

It is nowhere near what can be made by escorting but it is a way to earn money and still respect your partner's wishes of not doing escorting or cam. Another thing you might want to consider if you want to earn more is simply wear a mask when camming. This is what I do, or I will position the camera so that my face isn't shown. I also dont show face in photos or video.

Just an idea.