Breathing 

Some if them are so damn nosey. That's why anything I share with them is a lie!

But surely they're paying for the whole experience as well? otherwise it's just an overdone wank?

Maybe so but I remember a time when there was none of this gfe nonsense.

Even kissing wasn't expected

Maybe so but I remember a time when there was none of this gfe nonsense.

Even kissing wasn't expected

I remember it too, and I still always did kissing; I don't like bookings without it and never have.

The big change I've found is punters thinking we want to get our rocks off or receive some physical gratification, and I find that tiring and irritating. Previously it was fine to be friendly, welcoming and enthusiastic and do your service without having to pretend you're there for any reason other than the cash and everybody involved was perfectly happy with and aware of that.

Many of my clients expect/want me to orgasm and it's draining to keep faking it. Although it can be a good way to kill time 
Annoyingly when I do occasionally orgasm for real, they're like was that real? You were so quiet 

Over passionate roughness use of teeth with hard sucking when kissing, same with breaststroke as well as grabbing too hard. I am patient incase it's a one off moment, but if continues or gets stronger I tactfully explain. Happens at least once with most regulars over many, many bookings but recently I've had a spate which has left me a little stunned.

I think you may be in the wrong job tbh

Why? Everybody is allowed a bad day and everybody is allowed to not like their job all or any of the time. That doesn't mean they shouldn't be doing it, because their choices and reasons for making them are nobody's business but their own. And we don't know what your job is since you decided on the above as your first post rather than introducing yourself, which some would say was an interesting choice.

Part of the reason SAAFE has a forum is so that people can safely have a rant rather than taking it out on their customers and possibly losing money as a result. Nobody tells an accountant or bus driver or nurse that they're in the wrong job just because sometimes they have a shit time at work, and we don't want people here to feel they have to pretend everything is always great (and I know sex workers sometimes do to avoid everything negative they say being jumped on by the fuckwit abolitionists).

Posters can and should use this thread and this board for the purpose intended, and moaning about work with one's peers is one of those purposes