Just a niggly little annoyance but a client I've know 2 years and have had several ok bookings with will sometimes text asking can I see him in approx 15 mins time. This is despite me telling him repeatedly I can never do that. When he does that he usually says "but just be as you are no need to dress up or anything" 🙄 I don't have my room and myself on permanent fragrant/tidy mode and while new unknown men try this way of booking this particular one knows without doubt I'll say no.
This drives me nuts too and the "no need to dress up "
They seem to think we are some kind of other worldly unicorn type beings who just waft around scrupulously clean and fragrant all day long, prepared for intimate contact at a few mins notice.
They never consider that the place may be a bit untidy, paperwork and junk mail that needs sorting, in the middle of doing the ironing, gardening or whatever like 'normal' people as when they've visited before it's tidy and we are made up and dressed sexily, they just have no idea how long it takes to 'stage' that
I had 2 the other day who were 10 mins away and thought that was suitable notice for a visit!
Like you Patricia, one of them I have known for years and has been told repeatedly that I don't work that way but still he tries it on! Total numpties