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Funkymonkey

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Re: Sugar Daddies & related arrangements
« Reply #405 on: 15 February 2018, 09:51:37 am »
Ugh back on SA. It could be so useful cos I?d like to have just a couple of lovely clients who spent the day with me for less than the hourly rate would be but my regs usually can?t stay long.

First off, they want to chat on WhatsApp before I?ve even seen what they look like or how Much they?re looking to spend. Then just got out asking for age play, bareback and anal. Crazy - they want ?normal? girls but they?re acting like that?!
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amy

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« Reply #406 on: 22 April 2018, 11:32:20 am »
I've moved these last couple of posts here, since they're more appropriate. Please don't reanimate threads that have been dead for three years, especially to make off topic posts (they've been removed).
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« Reply #407 on: 08 March 2020, 04:20:42 pm »
Does anyone have any experience with seeking arrangement? I was thinking of starting to use it, but want to here some experiences :)
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amy

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« Reply #408 on: 08 March 2020, 05:04:11 pm »
Merged again. Lots of 'experiences' here, along with many, many reasons why straightforward whoring is easier :).
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« Reply #409 on: 08 March 2020, 05:09:17 pm »
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« Reply #410 on: 08 March 2020, 08:22:12 pm »
Quote from: sparkly_top on 08 March 2020, 04:20:42 pm
Does anyone have any experience with seeking arrangement? I was thinking of starting to use it, but want to here some experiences :)
Last time I was on seeking arrangements, men were offering £200 for overnight in London. Many are the same men on adultwork -but they get offended if you ask for escort rates. Plus, I had one splenda-daddy ask if he could compensate me with drinks and riveting conversations about himself instead of cash. He seemed shocked I didn't realise what a privilege it was to be with him! No joke, if you look at the VIP members of seeking arrangement, many are exchanging their 'social currency' instead of cash for your time.  If you're someone who wants to social network through these men, then it might work out....But many fake their credentials and net worth.

Oh, and they message you all day long because they want to build a connection. Conversations were duller than a turd, might as well do 1 escort booking and get the cash quick.
In theory, seeking arrangement is good. In reality it is filled with entitled men dangling carrots.
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« Reply #411 on: 08 March 2020, 11:24:02 pm »
Quote from: Glamglam on 08 March 2020, 05:09:17 pm
I do have a gf who met her SD on tinder he got her a really lovely house (rented) pays bills etc and but she depends on him and it’s a messy situation.

Beware of the man who wants you to be financially dependent on him. Be veeeery afraid because there's a dark reason for it. The money might be good but the toll on your mental health won't.
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« Reply #412 on: 09 March 2020, 09:45:14 am »
Quote from: Ana30 on 08 March 2020, 11:24:02 pm
Beware of the man who wants you to be financially dependent on him. Be veeeery afraid because there's a dark reason for it. The money might be good but the toll on your mental health won't.

Couldn’t agree more, it’s not worth it
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« Reply #413 on: 09 March 2020, 03:52:13 pm »
Quote from: sparkly_top on 08 March 2020, 04:20:42 pm
Does anyone have any experience with seeking arrangement? I was thinking of starting to use it, but want to here some experiences :)

You don't need to be on Seeking etc because these cheapskates will try & tout off AW. I had one once saying that another SW went on holiday for free because she loved his company so much  ::)  Lets not forget the ones who offer you a touring room in a hotel so they can screw you all night for 80 quid.

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Up to you though if you ant to play third fiddle in a guys life for gifts & company go for it. Generally it doesn't end well. Watch out for being outed aswell. I know an escort who was outed by her seeking psycho daddy. He did this by copying her AW account with pics of her face. Most likely lifted off Seeking.

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« Reply #414 on: 09 March 2020, 10:53:37 pm »
If you want a proper sugar daddy go out in high end bars, hotels, restaurants, cafes, spend time in Knightsbridge Mayfair etc. Dress up. Men will approach you.
Sa is rinsed out and a lot of men trying to get sex for cheap. There loads of men who have even made vids on YouTube on how to scam naive women on SA. It’s a lot of work and weeding out. You can find real ones but it’s not that many on there, go out in the right places and you’re more likely to get multiple
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« Reply #415 on: 10 March 2020, 12:31:17 am »
agreed, SA is a waste of time and most of the guys are still on AW but wanting to get cheaper or bare services. There is a hidden sub thread on popular punting forums about which girls do low overnight rates and meet ups. x
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« Reply #416 on: 12 March 2020, 01:23:48 am »
I now ask for a £200 payment when men want to discuss a sugar daddy style arrangement with me, firstly so I know they have the income to follow through with their idea, and also because unsurprisingly it cuts 99% of these conversations off before they become someone jerking themselves off with their fantasy chat and waste my time too much  ;)
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« Reply #417 on: 12 March 2020, 11:18:37 am »
Quote from: Ukdarling on 12 March 2020, 01:23:48 am
I now ask for a £200 payment when men want to discuss a sugar daddy style arrangement with me, firstly so I know they have the income to follow through with their idea, and also because unsurprisingly it cuts 99% of these conversations off before they become someone jerking themselves off with their fantasy chat and waste my time too much  ;)

Absolutely this. I did sign up a while ago, and was so p*ssed off with the TWs. Maybe I need to start charging for these conversations?
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« Reply #418 on: 12 March 2020, 04:29:23 pm »
One of my regulars said he used SA and saw one young girl for a few months. Said it cost more as he had to pay for hotel  and paid what he would an escort on top. The appeal for him apart from being young and beautiful was she was totally exclusive to him.

He did mention though there were a lot of con artist women on there asking for money up front.
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« Reply #419 on: 12 March 2020, 04:40:17 pm »
Quote from: Jessiegirl on 12 March 2020, 04:29:23 pm
One of my regulars said he used SA and saw one young girl for a few months. Said it cost more as he had to pay for hotel  and paid what he would an escort on top. The appeal for him apart from being young and beautiful was she was totally exclusive to him.

He did mention though there were a lot of con artist women on there asking for money up front.

Yes the really good rinsers brainwash these guys to think they're the only one.
They also ask you to remove your ad to be 'exclusive' lol

I've cruised SA and one fool said he wasn't gonna buy me a drink and expected sex as soon as we met-most of them are mental.
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