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Jadine

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« Reply #435 on: 05 September 2022, 09:58:31 pm »
I deleted the what's my price site waste of time , I been on dating sites and I have had 100s of guys giving me likes and still do , i recieved loads and loads of messages,  but this site obviously too old for them wouldn't be bad but a lot are past it in looks and look like tramps not sugardaddys , I am on 3 sugerdaddy sites at the moment  there's older women on there , I have  got 1 guy interested in me at moment  who I'm chatting with now so see how that pans out , no interest in anyone else .

Pet lover I was same as you when I were younger had punters  pay me peanuts for overnights , all these years I been so stupid and let the wankers take advantage of me I done with it now , sacked all the lot , and refuse to see others that are no good blocked them or told them I'm not putting up with it anymore and must admit I been to soft letting them undercut me ect for so long just because they seen me so often .

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 I'm going to give it a week or so and see if anything happens but I know any ask for bare can forget it , don't think be long before I delete it .

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« Reply #436 on: 18 September 2022, 12:44:21 am »
Hi
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Thankyou for your response , it was just a last thought that i had in mind , I just am not getting any decent men enquiring anymore or had any really good payers since I lost my others that were generous with me ,  I just seem to attract all the idiots going and the cheapskates  i put up with so long who still try seeing me I told not to bother with me again as I have done with their shit ,   is why I wanted a change , I will think about what you mention , and i think from how you explain it would be  maybe not ideal for me ,  though I been checking out some sites , even when i smartened up my profile to try attracting a better quality punter it just brought out the inbreds even more , so hard to get the nicer business types like I used to see a lot years back just a matter of the when and if the good ones will  reappear be i happy getting those ones .

I know, this thing requires so much patience and hard work

Another tip for you Jadine is : men who don't have any pictures are in 99% of the time more likely to be rich and reliable so when you message some men there, always prioritise the ones with no picture over the ones with fancy cars, in fancy places/holidays (because trust me the ones who show off are always the biggest cheapskates who pretend to be rich when they are not/or could be rich people in some cases but in general they never want a "pay per meet" arrangement (which is the most advantageous and the one you should look for if you want to make money), these will always say something like "sorry but I'm not looking for an escort" loool, in other words, they are just another type of piss takers 

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« Reply #437 on: 18 September 2022, 12:49:34 am »
Anyone on here tried whats your price ?
Any luck on it finding punters  ? Or is it just fuckbuddys and chancers wanting freebies ?

Sorry I'm a bit late to the party but yes I've tried what's your price, and actually got one from there (saw him once and he gave mea very good amount for a 2-3h meeting) but I think I just got very lucky since I got banned from this website literally 24h after I registered there for no apparent reason so you can keep trying but I don't think you will find qualitative men on there tbh, you should focus more on seeking arrangement, secret benefits and sugardaddie
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« Reply #438 on: 18 September 2022, 09:44:00 pm »
Hi
Ana 66
I did delete the what's your price , got deleted no reason  off sugarbook, I deleted one of the sugardaddy sites as wasn't getting messages only off someone wanting to meet but he already was with a sugarbabe and going on about her and I wasn't attracted to him ,  so I deleted my profile but then went back on a few days ago  , today I been speaking to someone and we are meant to be meeting tomorrow,  usually I would rather wait until I know them a bit but I thought he might try his luck elsewhere as some do not like waiting for weeks ect to meet , hopefully things be good🤞

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« Reply #439 on: 19 September 2022, 11:48:36 am »
Well he turned up , lots of compliments about me , seemed happy enough during session until he wanted bareback , when I said no  he wasn't pleased , carried on with what we was doing , he even mentioned going away weekends and staying if i see him again ,  we finished the deed , he got his phone out checking lots of messages of other women on the sd site , when leaving I could tell from body language and ect he lost interest , I looked on the sd site and his blocked me the knob .
Says he wasn't looking for a escort and think he disliked the fact I told him was what I did , I knew damn well we weren't doing it raw , could been good thing seeing him if he not gone off as he did in the end .

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« Reply #440 on: 19 September 2022, 04:39:33 pm »
Hi Jadine,

Yes, to avoid any awkward situation during the session, always make sure you ask them what they are looking for/what they are into sexually before meeting the guy in person, it will save you a lot of time because as you mentioned plenty of them ask for bareback (or other things you're not willing to do).

Also make sure you do a phone call/video call with them prior to the meeting and always check if their number doesn't have reports (trust me plenty of people there have). Also avoid those who want to text over Telegram, Kik, Viber or any other platform where you can't get to know their phone number, these are never genuine! (use WhatsApp only !)

Don't tell them you're an escort because a lot of them will be turned off by this (even though it's exactly the same at the end of the day lol), just make up a bs story

Once you're in the bedroom, always ask for the money first as some of them will try to rip you off (also always agree on a ppm amount before the meeting).

If you goal is to make quick money, don't bother going to the restaurant with them. Indeed, plenty of guys there will invite you to the restaurant and after that, they will never see you again, or will say something like "I want to think about it" so in the end you just wasted your evening for nothing (because these guys are never ever willing to pay for your time during dinner dates). So my advice here is when you start chatting over the phone with them, just say that before going to the restaurant, you would like to "see if you're compatible in the bedroom first and then if you see each other again, you can go to the restaurant together on that occasion", most of the time guys will accept to have se first because even if they pretend the contrary, in the end they are just looking for sex lol.

As well, something very important that is connected to the last paragraph about not going to the restaurant : a lot of guys on these sugar dating website will have "trust issues" because they are apparently a lot of girl scammers on these so the idea of going to the restaurant is for them to check that you're genuine so in order to prove them you are genuine without wasting your time sitting in the restaurant, do a video call (it will add an extra step to your screening, save your time and show the guy you're genuine so he will be more relaxed about going into the bedroom directly)

To sum up, treat sugar dates pretty much the same as you treat an escort booking, the main difference is be a bit less straightforward with them in your intentions (don't say you're an escort, pretend you want a long term arrangement with them, be quite chatty with them, also don't say that you want x amount of money for x amount of hours, just say that you want x amount of money per meeting (give yourself a tolerance bar in terms of how long you want the meeting to last but I would say 4h on average in my experience, could be less though)


These are all stuff I've done myself when I was doing sugar dates and it worked pretty well in order to make good money and saving your time  ;D

Good luck  :D :D
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« Reply #441 on: 19 September 2022, 07:50:53 pm »
Hi
Ana66
Thankyou for your advice
I will use it if I meet anyone else , gutted about the one I seen my type of guy too 6'4 gorgeous looks , shaved head , he says he was receiving lots of messages .
I am going to try other sites again and stick on the one I am already on  , and I will try not to make any mistakes slipping up again about escorting ,  you given me plenty of tips
Thanks.

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« Reply #442 on: 20 September 2022, 03:11:57 pm »
Anyone on here tried whats your price ?
Any luck on it finding punters  ? Or is it just fuckbuddys and chancers wanting freebies ?

WYP is a waste of time
SA is ok but become full of chancers overs the years.  Defo look out for basic profiles like the ones with no pics as they are often men with the money and want discretion ; )

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« Reply #443 on: 20 September 2022, 04:31:59 pm »
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Yeh I know it was a waste of  time I didn't stay on it long , went on seeking arrangements , lots of messages I got but wasn't going be a paid member to read them so just came off it  , noticed lots of guys with naked pics of their dicks showing , so bet most are on for freebies , with the experiences i have had I ain't paying to view men I'm not attracted too either .

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« Reply #444 on: 24 September 2022, 08:06:57 pm »
I  just today joined a very well known site which was once in the news ,  as I'm still trying for a  SD  as soon as my profile was on I got lots of messages , one was a young guy who got stroppy when I said what I was on it for and cheeky cunt saying I should reconsider as I'm too old lol just because he don't want or can't afford to pay  , majority of the men just after free sex which isn't what I'm on for ,  another guy now is moaning its prostitutes on the site and ones looking SD , not told him yet that's what  I am on for too lol .

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« Reply #445 on: 26 September 2022, 10:17:11 pm »
Omg the amount of messages I am receiving I just can't handle so many not even reading them messages ,  wish it like that on aw ect ,  they like my photos , that  but the majority are all tossers wanting free sex , none want to pay for pussy ,  so obvious , one wants meet me for free time go a coffee like I'm really going lose paying punters even says his not much money , another wanted take me for dinner , as if I go for a bit of grub to drop my pants lol thought this certain site be good for SD or punters but I can't advertise what I'm doing or get booted off , hoping I get someone that I'm looking for .

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« Reply #446 on: 27 September 2022, 09:57:11 am »
Omg the amount of messages I am receiving I just can't handle so many not even reading them messages ,  wish it like that on aw ect ,  they like my photos , that  but the majority are all tossers wanting free sex , none want to pay for pussy ,  so obvious , one wants meet me for free time go a coffee like I'm really going lose paying punters even says his not much money , another wanted take me for dinner , as if I go for a bit of grub to drop my pants lol thought this certain site be good for SD or punters but I can't advertise what I'm doing or get booted off , hoping I get someone that I'm looking for .

that's how it is! most men on SA treat it like tinder.  Make a cup of tea and take your time  :)

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« Reply #447 on: 28 October 2022, 01:35:53 pm »
I've just started in the world of Seeking which I feel is a good compromise between escorting (as I understand it) and dating. I am based in London and it would be good to exchange views/experiences on Seeking in London.

Fairly mixed experience so far but I don't hate it....yet. I find the biggest problem is finding men who actually want to meet rather than ask me for endless an endless supply of photos. Half the time I don't know if they are really looking for an arrangement or a one off.

I've met a few guys now and am getting the hang of how it works. It've made a decent amount of money (for me at least) from it but find the time consuming nature of feeding through profiles and responding tedious.

Have a lovely day!