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Re: Sugar Daddies & related arrangements
« Reply #390 on: 03 September 2017, 03:42:50 pm »
On seeking arrangements i see we have to pay 60 quid a month to see messages. Is that right??

No I think that's what the men pay. Unless they've changed it since I looked.

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« Reply #391 on: 03 September 2017, 04:33:28 pm »
I was on seeking arrangements before I started escorting and it was honestly ridiculous! I had one guy want an overnight bareback for ?100 and after I told him to jog on he then offered ?120 and his wife's chanel sunglasses  ::) I had a few dates - one wanted to pay me ?200 monthly for twice a week meets... the rest were just desperately looking to someone to send naughty texts all day every day  :FF
I did manage to get a "daddy piggy" who (unknowingly) paid for all my webcam/travel costs when I started up escorting.

Turns out my second client was a guy who had tried to get a date with me on SA (I didn't have face pics on my AW so a bit of a coincidence) who wanted to save me from "becoming bitter" (too late! ;D) and wanted to be exclusive and buy me handbags and blah blah blah. So he'd been pestering me for months so I told him I'd be exclusive to him for 3k per month, he made his excuses not long after  ::)

Personally wouldn't bother with it, bunch of dudes trying to scam naive girls for freebies by pulling the "you sound like a whore when you ask for money" crap

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« Reply #392 on: 06 November 2017, 11:40:21 pm »
A lot of TWs who expect your company for a dinner for ?30 and then cheekily add if I want massage as well. Keep your hands and ?30 off me. :-X

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« Reply #393 on: 07 November 2017, 12:29:08 am »
Christ Almighty I was on SA before AW and it is full of the biggest load of arrogant, cheapskate wankers I have ever had the misfortune to come across. Full of horrendous ugly guys who really want an escort but won't actually admit it. They are so rude too.  Hardly any guy on there actually wants a proper arrangement either. Just man up and join AW! Actually no don't, keep your patronising selves to SA!

I did have an unfortunate 'date' with a guy from there, my one and only before I saw sense. He did pay me, not much I grant you, to see him in a hotel and he wanted lots of kissing. Ew. I think he put me off from doing it now. There was no sex, not back then and he just wanted a LOT of kissing before we went for food etc. Anyway I asked him a couple of times if he was ready to go out and he threw a wobbler like a fucking child, sulking and asked me to leave. Had to hide my amusement as I walked out! My first and last SA experience.

If any girls can make it work then fucking good luck to you, I think it's slim pickings...  :D

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Re: Sugar Daddies & related arrangements
« Reply #394 on: 07 November 2017, 10:34:47 am »
5. Can I advertise my services (e.g. escort, dating services)?

No. You may not advertise your services on SeekingArrangement.com. Anyone caught doing so, will have their account cancelled and will be banned from using our website. Please do not advertise your dating services or escort services on our website. Advertising such services violates our User Agreement, and as such you may be accessing our website without authorization or permission from us. Unauthorized access is a felony offense, and we reserve the right to seek legal action against you.

I dont get it. I dont fucking get it. They have a photo of a man with 1,000 worth of bills, and 2 women kissing on 1 man. If its not escorting, what is it?

(http://www.seekingarrangement.com/_img/jpeg/contactus1.jpg)




Actual LMAO. It's so stupid isn't it.

And whats with the 'Daddies' stating 'Absolutely NO escorts' on their bio, like they feel that ALL sex workers are dead eyed robots and magically somehow every SB is going to be an adorable, naive, loyal 18 year old.

Cash strapped 18 year olds balk on the date out of fear, experienced SW's dont. Just man up and get an escort.

I met a couple and they were absolutely gross, patronising old codgers trapped in dead relationships.

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« Reply #395 on: 07 November 2017, 09:12:57 pm »
Ugh. I?ve joined and left about 3 times. I met one guy who was nice enough and was actually offering a decent amount but then something happened in my personal life so I didn?t pursue it. Second time I managed to find a guy to ?employ? me so I could get a mortgage so that worked out well but the most recent time I couldn?t believe it.

I wanted to know how much they are willing to offer as an ?arrangement? before we met but they wouldn?t say. I wasn?t going to miss out on bookings to meet some guy who reckons they can shag me all day for ?50. Oh and one guy who was like ?I?m married so we will have to meet at your place and have to be discrete so no lunches or shopping.? He also wouldn?t show a face picture. I told him just to go get a prostitute.

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« Reply #396 on: 17 December 2017, 01:45:38 am »
Hi girls,

As some of you'll know from other posts, I'm new to escorting. In the new year I'm looking to join SA but still keep my AW profile for the time being.

To those who've used SA or similar while escorting, do you use a fake name and not include face pics on public profile? I'm aware that potential SD's will want a face pic or skype prior to meeting.

Thanks!

x

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Re: Sugar Daddies & related arrangements
« Reply #397 on: 17 December 2017, 01:49:44 am »
Hello welcome to escort world.

I am on SA. I use different - name - email - images i use ensure they are not used for escort or on facebook. So new pic thats taken on phone cropped to the lips. For genuine SD guys (well I only target married ones with family where discretion is priority) Do quick whatsapp video call - i have a separate sim and cheap samsung for that so no link to personal and escort life.

x

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« Reply #398 on: 17 December 2017, 01:52:04 am »
Oh I forgot to add I make sure that after speaking on the phone verbally and moved to short video whatsapp call. I keep it very very short ( i'm on a mini break from my work office I must be quick) so they seen your face and you have not sent out many face images to stupid timewasting dick heads who are image collectors.

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« Reply #399 on: 17 December 2017, 08:45:41 am »
Hi girls,

As some of you'll know from other posts, I'm new to escorting. In the new year I'm looking to join SA but still keep my AW profile for the time being.

To those who've used SA or similar while escorting, do you use a fake name and not include face pics on public profile? I'm aware that potential SD's will want a face pic or skype prior to meeting.

Thanks!

x

If you don?t know the pitfalls of SA have a good read of this thread to prepare yourself....

http://www.saafe.info/main/index.php?topic=2755.msg293329#msg293329

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Re: Sugar Daddies & related arrangements
« Reply #400 on: 17 December 2017, 09:03:57 am »
What is SA??
I'm glad I got all the Cynthia Payne books before the prices rocked to sky high.

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Re: Sugar Daddies & related arrangements
« Reply #401 on: 17 December 2017, 09:07:24 am »
If you don?t know the pitfalls of SA have a good read of this thread to prepare yourself....

http://www.saafe.info/main/index.php?topic=2755.msg293329#msg293329

Merged, just to keep it all together :)

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Re: Sugar Daddies & related arrangements
« Reply #402 on: 17 December 2017, 09:57:14 am »
Oh I forgot to add I make sure that after speaking on the phone verbally and moved to short video whatsapp call. I keep it very very short ( i'm on a mini break from my work office I must be quick) so they seen your face and you have not sent out many face images to stupid timewasting dick heads who are image collectors.

Hello welcome to escort world.

I am on SA. I use different - name - email - images i use ensure they are not used for escort or on facebook. So new pic thats taken on phone cropped to the lips. For genuine SD guys (well I only target married ones with family where discretion is priority) Do quick whatsapp video call - i have a separate sim and cheap samsung for that so no link to personal and escort life.

x


Thanks for this! All very useful :) I use different name, email and even background (what I do at uni etc) as you'd expect for escorting, but wasn't sure whether it was the done thing with SD's! x


What is SA??

Seeking Arrangement - a popular sugar daddy site x

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« Reply #403 on: 17 December 2017, 10:15:38 am »
Personally wouldn't bother with it, bunch of dudes trying to scam naive girls for freebies by pulling the "you sound like a whore when you ask for money" crap
+1

If not freebies then mimimal payment, just not worth the crap you have to put up with. Plain old escorting is much better. Getting paid by the hour. Short and simple if not sweet.

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« Reply #404 on: 17 December 2017, 04:13:18 pm »
I always think of them as clients the ones from S.A so get what I can get if its 300 quid or 400 quid with the hotel booked for two nights so the second day I am using that hotel for escort incalls. Course coming off innocent to suggest hotel that I never been to (yet it is a hotel I read on here that is upmarket good for incalls) majority of the time the men married my target market don't sleep over be with me few hours have to run off to the mrs.

The S.A can be handy depending how you go around it. Single guys are dicks want less for nothing and lovey dovey crap.

The married guys with family less drama complications.