I am not young anymore but I still find it extremely hard. I didn't know much about the industry as I was in a relationship with one person for all my adult life but then circumstances changed so had to do something to support family. When I was new I have encountered what some of you might have said, getting attracted to a client where I thought likes me in the way that I liked him but obviously as time pass by, he likes more and wanting to haggle with my rate, I haven't really seen him that regular but saw him enough. The longer I stay in this job, the more I realised that people are only attracted to the service I provide and not me, so I have learnt.

Also tried to quit this job because I find it draining psychologically, emotionally and physically, but then when I was looking through the internet of the other options, nothing really suits my personal circumstances and experience that would pay as much as I could make having this job with the flexibility, my bank balance was running out so it is back to doing this again.

I stopped seeing my friends because of this, I know that my friends wouldn't understand and I don't have close friends as such that I could trust to tell what I do.

In terms of safety, as I don't have a choice of not telling anyone, I have had that experience already where I was sent somewhere and not expecting what I am supposed to expect but I have since leanr to screen people out.

I would say that young or older ladies, if you are new to the business please read threads here, don't do what I did of going through the business blind folded, I thought I was strong being older but I felt so vulnerable not knowing anything, as you might get into danger if you don't know anything at all about the business.