I like the money from escorting, obviously, and getting outcalls to fancy hotels and drinking expensive alcohol whilst being paid for it, I like visiting rich clients in their beautiful homes and getting a tour of it either by them offering, or if I’m feeling forwards then I ask to be shown around, but do I like having sex with strangers, even good looking ones, then the answer to that would be no, I don’t like it and it’s getting harder for me to do it now because I’m really starting to loathe their hands on me, I can tolerate touching them but I’ve started feeling physically sick when they touch me, I’m losing my patience now and I don’t pander to some of the more egotistical clients, I find them mentally draining and the mental issues that escorting can give you, far outweighs having to suck an ugly man’s dirty penis!

It’s definitely affected relationships for me it’s hard to meet someone because my schedule is unusual. I usually have to be available 9-8 on working days. Also my family think I don’t work and look down on me for that.i think my last relationship ended because they didn’t like me sleeping with other people. I can’t talk about my job like other people do and have no coworkers x

Yes I found it hard to relate to civvy women especially which means I no longer have female friends and the one I had who knew about it I think secretly disapproved, then when she found her partner at the time sending messages on aw she became more distant.

How come you have to be available so often?

Geordie - Did you just block them without an explanation or would you wait for them to try and book again and let them know you don’t want to see them anymore? I need to get rid of some regulars and don’t know how to play it. Thanks

Geordie - Did you just block them without an explanation or would you wait for them to try and book again and let them know you don’t want to see them anymore? I need to get rid of some regulars and don’t know how to play it. Thanks

Let them know when they tried to rebook. Generally vague with a reason other then letting them know I no longer enjoy seeing them and am not able to give the best service so think they should see others.

Most of them were lovely guys and I feel bad about cutting them off, especially for how much they've paid over the years. But then I remember I don't owe them anything, and if I feel shitty afterwards, it's time to go.

It's far far preferable to office or shop work.

I personally really enjoy it. I find it naughty and fun! Obviously the money is great too. I find that now I'm more fussy with who I will see, I have a much better time. It is much better now I have weeded out all my bad or problem clients.

Thank you, Saafe for being an emotional outlet. . .
Far more effective than anything else except some comfort eating. . . .