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Charmaine

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Re: Do you enjoy escorting?
« Reply #60 on: 18 August 2019, 10:21:44 am »
I love it and at the moment it is even better now I have my shy cute 20 year old

K212

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« Reply #61 on: 18 August 2019, 02:46:39 pm »
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Chastity

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Re: Do you enjoy escorting?
« Reply #62 on: 30 August 2019, 11:25:49 am »
Some days were definitely more tolerable than others lol

Ceciliaxxx

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Re: Do you enjoy escorting?
« Reply #63 on: 30 August 2019, 09:37:08 pm »
Some days rather enjoyable
Enjoy life as long as you live, life too short for sorrows

VoluptuousCurves

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Re: Do you enjoy escorting?
« Reply #64 on: 30 August 2019, 10:59:23 pm »
I love it and at the moment it is even better now I have my shy cute 20 year old

I've got a shy cute 24 year old... my son 😂

After 4yrs or so I still love this job. Being self employed is fucking scary sometimes (I had an injury in January which meant I was unable to work for a few weeks... no sick pay!) but the freedom cannot be beaten.

Having come out of a very male dominated industry I also really value being able to just "be" a woman rather than going "Yeah! I'm one of the boys! Look at my big balls!" all the time.

(That said, I definitely had bigger ovaries than all my colleagues bollocks. And that's why I got hired, promoted, seconded, etc)
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katrina

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« Reply #65 on: 30 August 2019, 11:39:17 pm »
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katrina

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Re: Do you enjoy escorting?
« Reply #66 on: 31 August 2019, 08:35:33 am »
I enjoy aspects of this job, the spontaneity of meeting with randoms, whether they be old and intriguing, or young and hot  ;D I mostly love being my own boss and having the flexibility to work around my family life and other interests, plus the fact that I can take days or weeks off and come back when I want.

Rosesugar

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« Reply #67 on: 31 August 2019, 01:45:56 pm »
After this week's game playing guy in my civvy job I am so glad I'm not needing a relationship happy staying single and escorting instead
Can focus on genuine clients regulars who know what they want not silly fools .
I don't make money in a failed relationship !

Louisereturned

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« Reply #68 on: 31 August 2019, 01:51:36 pm »
Some days rather enjoyable

Totally, I had three awesome guys yesterday all very different. I think I enjoyed myself more than them lol.

Midlands Ms

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« Reply #69 on: 01 September 2019, 05:26:09 pm »
Its not so much that I enjoy it as, you know, I find sex in my personal life has never really been up to much, has always been quite disappointing - so I always end up feeling 'best get paid for it then at least I'm getting something solid out of it'. I don't actively enjoy the sex as such but it does fulfill my basic sexual needs, Its like microwave meal sex to me because I can't be bothered to cook and what I end up cooking (flings, relationships, one night stands, whatever) ends up being shit anyway. Sometimes I think 'oh wouldn't it be nice to have some really hot sex with a really hot, nice interesting, clever, compassionate man' but then I wake up from my daydreams etc etc I enjoy the freedom and flexibility and the being my own boss most of all though, like probably many of us here.

ThirdCoastGal

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Re: Do you enjoy escorting?
« Reply #70 on: 04 September 2019, 04:25:33 pm »
Its not so much that I enjoy it as, you know, I find sex in my personal life has never really been up to much, has always been quite disappointing - so I always end up feeling 'best get paid for it then at least I'm getting something solid out of it'. I don't actively enjoy the sex as such but it does fulfill my basic sexual needs, Its like microwave meal sex to me because I can't be bothered to cook and what I end up cooking (flings, relationships, one night stands, whatever) ends up being shit anyway. Sometimes I think 'oh wouldn't it be nice to have some really hot sex with a really hot, nice interesting, clever, compassionate man' but then I wake up from my daydreams etc etc I enjoy the freedom and flexibility and the being my own boss most of all though, like probably many of us here.

I feel like this most of the time.  Plus occasionally I have a day with back to back to back appointments and that makes me feel sexy and smart and like a boss.

BUT- when I get in a relationship, it’s really hard.  I can’t fake giving a shit about them.  I can’t stand occasional chatty text messages. I have a naturally monogamous streak that makes this feel terrible.

That’s my situation right now.  He knows- it isn’t cheating, but it still feels yuck and my income is dropping off so much.  He’s subsidizing me and wants to get me a regular job- I just panick at the thought of that.  Am I even capable of it?  Ugh

TantricTease

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« Reply #71 on: 04 September 2019, 10:01:42 pm »
I’m such a cheater as I feel that life is too short not to shag all the sexy guys, that are sexy  ;), out there! I can’t imagine having a deep love for a man because as soon as your peeing in front of them then I start fantasising about other men, relationships with women are so different, being a hooker suits me too much!!

Wailing Banshee

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Re: Do you enjoy escorting?
« Reply #72 on: 04 September 2019, 10:30:40 pm »
After ten years I am sick to the  back teeth of the faffing about, timewasters, idiot phone calls and I can't wait to give up!

Saying that, the majority of bookings I do really enjoy and I have met some amazing men over the years and had some very good sex. If only they all just called, asked sensible questions, confirm when I ask, show up on time and left happy. I've made some money when I needed it most and it kept me going when I did it full time for 4 years. I have learnt a lot about men, sex and myself and I certainly don't regret it. I've also made some amazing friends through escorting. I'm slowly getting myself into a position where I can give up and progress a new career elsewhere.

Though, a small part of me knows I will miss the good bits and maybe I'll keep the odd decent regular or charge a lot more money for outcalls only on occasions... not sure yet, I have a year of study left and shall see where I am this time next year and in the meantime keep my patience and enjoy the good ones!

saltysweet

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« Reply #73 on: 21 September 2019, 04:30:55 pm »
I've been watching some nearby workmen for the past 8 weeks wearing out their bones breaking concrete on those scorching hot days and thought,' hmm, yes I love escorting'.
« Last Edit: 21 September 2019, 09:39:58 pm by saltysweet »

Rosesugar

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Re: Do you enjoy escorting?
« Reply #74 on: 22 September 2019, 02:07:28 pm »
Not now.. I have currently stopped escorting I was no longer enjoying it .
The waiting for calls the bookings and the time wasters.(exhaustion/burn out  + negative body image
Time to think if I'm going to take a break or return after a while.
It may be the time to look for that part time job now  :)