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General Category => Blather and Babble => Topic started by: sammy s on 24 June 2019, 11:15:30 am
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I’ve been escorting for years due to suffering with bad anxiety and IBS which make it difficult to go out and work in a civvy job for 8 hours every day.
I don’t actually enjoy escorting though and find it really doesn’t help my anxiety. Do any of you do this too because you feel like you don’t have many other options, or do you genuinely enjoy the job?
Would love to be able to change my mindset but the cons definitely outweigh the pros for me
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I love it i dont take Sh%t from dirty client sI think that may be the biggest kick >:D
They come in filthy i telt them they are filthy if you want me to touch that you better scrub it = all with a smile and nicely done of course
I actually like the men who come to me or i could not touch them
I think I joke too much its more fawlty towers then sexy sultry time I feel guilty at times but they come back so it must be working
I think I am nuts and so are they its good craic I cant take any of it seriously
I earn good money most of the time not always and I am not killing myself on min wage for a horrible boss and I have time off when I want
I some times think I need to calm down and be more sexy but Im not able its all too funny
The men look at me like im cracked in the head and i do ask do they think that and they say yes - its good >:D ;D :D
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I enjoy it, but I'm part-time, and also freelance in another job that involves working from home, so bookings are a nice break for me.
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Yes, I'm still in love with the job. I left a well-paid corporate career to go full time escorting. I feel more valued as a human being, more seen and heard, than I did in my soulless international conglomerate cog in the machine job.
Don't get me wrong, I was fucking amazing at my job and I enjoyed probably 50% of my time at work. But I was busting my ovaries with unpaid overtime, going the extra mile, reading industry publications during lunch and all that shit, and I was getting paid the same as a colleague who was basically doing the bare minimum to not get sacked.
Now I enjoy probably 80% of my bookings, and if a client turns out to be annoying, I never have to see him again. You cannot say that about any employed role. Even when you're not customer facing, you've still got arsehole colleagues that you have to put up with.
Yes, there's no holiday pay, no sick pay. But my earnings are pretty much directly related to how hard/smart I work.
What's really helped me enjoy the job more is taking off any services I'm even slightly ambivalent about (e.g. foot fetish) and making my pricing most attractive for the length of bookings that I prefer. So I now offer a very cheap deal on quickies (oral only) and half hour GFE, but anything longer than half hour is automatically into my "specialist" services which I find much less mentally tiring than GFE.
I do still offer 90 min and 2hr bookings but I've priced them so high that I know I can then take an hour off afterwards to refresh myself.
I've also found it very helpful to practise saying to guys "You need to be more gentle" or "Do NOT suck, lick!" or "No don't try to rub my clit, just fuck me" or on one memorable occasion, "Darling, that's my vagina. You shouldn't be scraping your thumb around it like you're trying to get the last bit of peanut butter out the jar."
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I wouldn’t say enjoy but it’s a job and the hours are good. If I wasn’t doing this I’d be doing 12 hour shifts in a factory or care home and that’s hard work. It’s easy competed to my old care job. I do miss working with colleagues the most. It can get sort of lonely and when I have a bad day and don’t see many that’s depressing.
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I do miss working with colleagues the most.
That's what I found and it's why I have worked to build friendships with other escorts. It's such a relief to have a number of people to message after a booking and say "Wow, that guy was a fucking idiot" or "Cock cheese trauma" or "Wow that was amazing, that client gave me a mega orgasm."
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I found I don’t get on really well with other escorts. I’m quiet and an introvert so can clash a bit. Not that they aren’t mostly lovely people.
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I don't get on with most humans, male or female, SW or civvy. Seek out people who are similar to you. As an introvert (yes me too) it can be bloody difficult. I've found I get on best with SW in my age bracket who don't take drugs and don't take shit off clients.
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Yes I don’t do drugs and hardly ever drink. Sometimes wish I worked in a brother at least you’d have company. But they don’t accept bbw. It’s not all bad i have a friend who used to be a dancer in clubs and can talk to her about anything.
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I also have a couple of health conditions and have found employers aren't always understanding when I need time off etc.
Being self-employed and being able to manage my own time, whilst earning a decent wage are what I like about escorting.
However... the actual 'job' I don't always enjoy, I get burnt out quite quickly (physically and emotionally) - due to my health conditions
It's a case of appreciating the positives of this work, and taking time off when I need to.
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I love it i dont take Sh%t from dirty client sI think that may be the biggest kick >:D
They come in filthy i telt them they are filthy if you want me to touch that you better scrub it = all with a smile and nicely done of course
I actually like the men who come to me or i could not touch them
I think I joke too much its more fawlty towers then sexy sultry time I feel guilty at times but they come back so it must be working
I think I am nuts and so are they its good craic I cant take any of it seriously
I earn good money most of the time not always and I am not killing myself on min wage for a horrible boss and I have time off when I want
I some times think I need to calm down and be more sexy but Im not able its all too funny
The men look at me like im cracked in the head and i do ask do they think that and they say yes - its good >:D ;D :D
HAHAHAH omggg girl love it ;D
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After ten years and what seems like a million clients I feel quite proud of myself that I have not had that burn out feeling and have kept up the standards I started with. Getting ready for a booking fires me up and while I certainly do not enjoy all my bookings all of the time I am a long way off hating it.
These days though I do far less than a few years ago and just as well because I no longer have the mental energy to cope with multiple bookings every day. I have posted about this before and will say that having a good old clear out of the men I began dreading seeing for a variety of reasons has meant I am still just fine to carry on a few more years hopefully.
New clients are what keep me going though. Regulars and many times repeated clients are good of course but there is nothing like meeting a new one to do it for me. It may be a short lived thrill and by the end of the booking I am thinking hmmm not sure I want to see him again but the initial excitement carries me through the job.
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Despite ups and downs, I did enjoy escorting. The moment it stopped being enjoyable, I switched to erotic massage.
I can't even picture myself holding a job that requires being around people for long periods of time and taking directions from someone. Just no. :(
I don’t actually enjoy escorting though and find it really doesn’t help my anxiety. Do any of you do this too because you feel like you don’t have many other options, or do you genuinely enjoy the job?
I totally empathise with anxiety and feeling 'stuck', as if there are no other options.
There are so many opportunities to freelance and work from home though.
The difficult part is to get mentally 'unstuck' and go for it.
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Sometimes it is ok other times not and my health probs have pushed me more to this.
I think it can make some peoples anxiety worse though because there is so many timewasters/ weirdos/ stalkers and dangerous situations so always being on your guard is a job in itself.
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Due to mental health problems, I go through months of working and not being phased (not hating it, but wouldn’t say I get up and think yay I’m working today, can’t wait) and then hating it and finding it too stressful to deal with as well as my health problems, so I stop.
I’m going to start webcamming soon, but the thoughts of sitting around for hours a day waiting puts me off also.
Basically it’s a like hate relationship with escorting for me. Would never do it if I felt I HAD to do it to survive though. I would sign off sick or if we’ll enough, get a part time job. Even if it’s something quiet and voluntary.
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I kinda like escorting though - the thrill, the hours, the freedom of being your own boss. I've got an awful attention span, so I couldn't hold down a job for 8 hours a day, 5 days a week - but escorting, I can make a full day's wage by 9am.
I'm never buzzing with excitement before sessions, but the thing is, I only have to put on my game face for a short time, just long enough to get my client in and out the door. Then I can change back into pajamas and cocoon in bed for the rest of the day :)
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SG, your feelings are a direct match of my own! Three cheers for prostitution! ;D
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PS: really?? ;D ;D
...but escorting, I can make a full day's wage by 9am...
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I enjoy the nice clients and busy days .touring and doing my own thing on my days off .
Took a week sickle loved the time off to make more cash and switch off mentally from civvy job.
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PS: really?? ;D ;D
Yeah ahaha, but I try to start my days early for that particular reason. I try to book appointments as early as possible so they're over with before most people even wake up.
I find that if I have an appointment in the evening, I can't relax beforehand. So it's much easier to churn out a couple of appointments early on...
Plus I've noticed that a lot of punters like to drop in before work anyways (either that or their lunch break) - I don't know if that's the case with everyone or just for me though xx
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I think it is great when it is really busy and I love the freedom.
There are downsides but I wouldn't do anything else.
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After 30 years working normal jobs I became an escort, I jacked my civvy job in after a year, best decision ever!! I've come to the conclusion that I cant ever work for anyone ever again and cant believe I stuck it for so long. I love the freedom, the lifestyle and the money it brings. It is hard work at times but I get huge buzz out of it.
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Yeah ahaha, but I try to start my days early for that particular reason. I try to book appointments as early as possible so they're over with before most people even wake up.
I find that if I have an appointment in the evening, I can't relax beforehand. So it's much easier to churn out a couple of appointments early on...
Plus I've noticed that a lot of punters like to drop in before work anyways (either that or their lunch break) - I don't know if that's the case with everyone or just for me though xx
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I agree that knowing a booking is several hours ahead can put a little dampner on my otherwise free day and there's nothing better than having a couple of bookings (or even just one!) done and dusted by mid or late morning so that day's target is already met.
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After 30 years working normal jobs I became an escort, I jacked my civvy job in after a year, best decision ever!! I've come to the conclusion that I cant ever work for anyone ever again and cant believe I stuck it for so long. I love the freedom, the lifestyle and the money it brings. It is hard work at times but I get huge buzz out of it.
I absolutely agree and identify with this 100%
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;D like! for real! not every booking and not every day! but mostly!
i got two other job! so mix up!
for your anxiety you should heal it and no outside enviroment can heal it! coming from inside! no things can heal it!
missing sometimes normal things as bf ...
but it is ok! as i worked in civvy job long time i can compare! no job is more flexible and fun than escorting for me!
even the most glamourous and well paid! my opinion!
then you know depend if you got good clients, some days...LOL i m asking to myself why i do it!
i could not come back in office for 7 hrs and be under management!
on 7y of civvy experience i loved 1 /2 managers, others lol i just hated! so!
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After 30 years working normal jobs I became an escort, I jacked my civvy job in after a year, best decision ever!! I've come to the conclusion that I cant ever work for anyone ever again and cant believe I stuck it for so long. I love the freedom, the lifestyle and the money it brings. It is hard work at times but I get huge buzz out of it.
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Three cheers for our whoring!
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I think it is great when it is really busy and I love the freedom.
There are downsides but I wouldn't do anything else.
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Long life to prostitution (or rather, an EVEN LONGER life)! ;D
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It took me a little while to really love it. At first I did mostly outcalls and would get really nervous about who I was going to be meeting... and I think the power balance can feel different when you're in their environment. However since I started working from nice hotels and I enjoy the atmosphere of being the host a lot more. I seem to attract different clients too. Honestly I love it now - I hit it off with a lot of my clients and have a great laugh. It makes me happy to connect with so many interesting, different humans. Having more money makes me happier and less anxious too, less to worry about... and you can make money quickly if there's an emergency which you can't really do with other jobs. By far the best part of this job is my "colleagues" and the giggles we have in group chats etc, even though I haven't met most of them yet.
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Whatever else, it's far better than doing a 9 to 5 or working in a factory.
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It makes me happy to connect with so many interesting, different humans.
Yesssssssss girl. This is what I love about working in big cities like London, Glasgow, Manchester. They are international business centres which means you'll be meeting people from all over the world. At 11am you could be seeing the FIO of an international bank, then 1pm you could be seeing Barry who's the guy who takes the trolleys back at Aldi.
Both of whom are probably equally interesting! But what I find really interesting is people who just have different growing-up stories.
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Due to mental health problems, I go through months of working and not being phased (not hating it, but wouldn’t say I get up and think yay I’m working today, can’t wait) and then hating it and finding it too stressful to deal with as well as my health problems, so I stop.
I’m going to start webcamming soon, but the thoughts of sitting around for hours a day waiting puts me off also.
Basically it’s a like hate relationship with escorting for me. Would never do it if I felt I HAD to do it to survive though. I would sign off sick or if we’ll enough, get a part time job. Even if it’s something quiet and voluntary.
SNAP! It’s a tiring battle isn’t it 😩
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see...i wrote that i was thinking that it is a fun job! today...i hate everything! every client!
just keep calm! every job is affected by your wellness, but i think that escort go more on the personal matter too as it is very intimate!
just had so much boring requests lately and my mood go badly! if i do not fancy as they communicate to me i do not arrange a booking!
so overall i enjoy but some day i m not in the mood...i have my limits too!
i do not think that many men are all idiots! but LOL i am getting 20 idiots in 2 days is not fun!
how you can be in good mood then?
tell me your secret!?
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every job is affected by your wellness, but i think that escort go more on the personal matter too as it is very intimate!
just had so much boring requests lately and my mood go badly! if i do not fancy as they communicate to me
So true. . . :o
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I love this job more than any other I've ever done. The positives for me outweigh the negatives by far!
In my last civvy job it was just so many boundaries and rules. Not to mention the bitchy girls who excluded me (or I excluded them ::)) as I have no desire to spend my time around negativity. Besides, I'm SOOO done with my bitch of a (ex)manager bossing me around.
Escorting gives me power and independence that no other job has ever given me. Yes of course, it's still a job and we all have our days when we don't really enjoy our jobs - but that's anywhere you go.
8/10 times I actually REALLY look forward to going to work and seeing some of my favourite clients. I love hearing other people's stories and catch some top banter. I like the ones who make me cum too of course.
The flexibility, the pay, the people I meet through it. Love it all.
A couple of weeks ago I got really ill and went to hospital, told a few regs who have been wondering where I've been. Upon returning to work, I was welcomed back with flowers, drink, food. All from different clients who have been concerned about me and wished me a speedy recovery. NOW- Comparing to my civvy job where in the past I was off work for months due to health, upon return- not ONE person has asked what was wrong or am I okay.
While I know this is not something I'm gonna do forever, I'm happy to continue for years to come.
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I love this work
Gives me great flexibility around family.
I can work when I want, so what I want and see who I want.
This isn't my main income maybe that's why I enjoy it so much and dont have targets I need etc.
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I love this job more than any other I've ever done. The positives for me outweigh the negatives by far!
In my last civvy job it was just so many boundaries and rules. Not to mention the bitchy girls who excluded me (or I excluded them ::)) as I have no desire to spend my time around negativity. Besides, I'm SOOO done with my bitch of a (ex)manager bossing me around.
Escorting gives me power and independence that no other job has ever given me. Yes of course, it's still a job and we all have our days when we don't really enjoy our jobs - but that's anywhere you go.
8/10 times I actually REALLY look forward to going to work and seeing some of my favourite clients. I love hearing other people's stories and catch some top banter. I like the ones who make me cum too of course.
The flexibility, the pay, the people I meet through it. Love it all.
A couple of weeks ago I got really ill and went to hospital, told a few regs who have been wondering where I've been. Upon returning to work, I was welcomed back with flowers, drink, food. All from different clients who have been concerned about me and wished me a speedy recovery. NOW- Comparing to my civvy job where in the past I was off work for months due to health, upon return- not ONE person has asked what was wrong or am I okay.
While I know this is not something I'm gonna do forever, I'm happy to continue for years to come.
Love this! 🙌🏾
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Im with you OP.
I like lots of the things this job affords me but I dislike the work itself, strongly, for many different reasons that I won't go into.
I am just coming out of a period of intense hatred and jadedness and that's purely down to the fact that a) I'm making ok money again after a LONG quiet spell and b) trying hard to focus on the positives and my goals. It's hard to see the positives when you're making shit money.
If you ever want to chat I'm here.
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Im with you OP.
I like lots of the things this job affords me but I dislike the work itself, strongly, for many different reasons that I won't go into.
Why not?
This is a sort of site for supporting everyone involved in this industry. . . and to discuss both good and bad. . . ?
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I love my job today every bit as much as I loved it on day one when I have a NORMAL, DECENT RESPECTFUL GROWN UP CALL ME & WALK THROUGH MY DOOR!
But there’s not enough of those these days to go around us all 😩
I am literally buzzing making such good money in such a short space of time while having a nice time with a nice person.
I don’t care what they look like, I don’t care how much they weigh, I don’t care what race they are, I don’t care about anything superficial.
I care that they’re clean, reliable, respectful of what I offer and engage with me as a human so we can enjoy our time together rather than all these self entitled assholes that walk in taking ownership of my body during the time they pay for.
The latter makes me really anxious and I do everything I can to avoid it but it’s inevitable at times.
So yes, I love my job when it’s good but I really hate it when it’s bad.
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Sophia I would write the exact same response :)
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Sophia I would write the exact same response :)
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Couldn't agree more with you Sophia
xx
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When there is a quiet spell it is easy to dislike it. I still wouldn't do anything else as it gives us plenty of freedom.
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I don’t care what they look like, I don’t care how much they weigh, I don’t care what race they are, I don’t care about anything superficial.
I care that they’re clean, reliable, respectful of what I offer and engage with me as a human so we can enjoy our time together rather...
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When there is a quiet spell it is easy to dislike it. I still wouldn't do anything else as it gives us plenty of freedom.
Amen! ;D
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Sometimes i hate it, sometimes i like it. I certainly do revaluate my feelings towards it when i have a quiet spell and look at all the negatives though.
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I LOVE IT!
I no longer do full service, I enjoyed having escorting full time for a living. Kept me fit and rich lol
But I found it hard to maintain relationships outside of work and decided to do erotic massage only.
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I like the money from escorting, obviously, and getting outcalls to fancy hotels and drinking expensive alcohol whilst being paid for it, I like visiting rich clients in their beautiful homes and getting a tour of it either by them offering, or if I’m feeling forwards then I ask to be shown around, but do I like having sex with strangers, even good looking ones, then the answer to that would be no, I don’t like it and it’s getting harder for me to do it now because I’m really starting to loathe their hands on me, I can tolerate touching them but I’ve started feeling physically sick when they touch me, I’m losing my patience now and I don’t pander to some of the more egotistical clients, I find them mentally draining and the mental issues that escorting can give you, far outweighs having to suck an ugly man’s dirty penis!
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It’s definitely affected relationships for me it’s hard to meet someone because my schedule is unusual. I usually have to be available 9-8 on working days. Also my family think I don’t work and look down on me for that.i think my last relationship ended because they didn’t like me sleeping with other people. I can’t talk about my job like other people do and have no coworkers x
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It’s definitely affected relationships for me it’s hard to meet someone because my schedule is unusual. I usually have to be available 9-8 on working days. Also my family think I don’t work and look down on me for that.i think my last relationship ended because they didn’t like me sleeping with other people. I can’t talk about my job like other people do and have no coworkers x
Yes I found it hard to relate to civvy women especially which means I no longer have female friends and the one I had who knew about it I think secretly disapproved, then when she found her partner at the time sending messages on aw she became more distant.
How come you have to be available so often?
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On the whole, I enjoy it a lot. I like the flexibility, most clients and the cash. There are downsides though, but that could be said for any job.
I’ve changed my way of working a lot recently. I’m another that had a clear out of clients I didn’t actually like. While they were a great source of income, I’d feel down and disgusting afterwards so sacked them off, feel much better about my work now. I generally prefer new clients anyway, I enjoy the craic.
Can’t see me going back to civvie employment now. Once I’m qualified I’ll likely set up another venture but for now, I can’t think of another job that compares to the positives in this one.
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Geordie - Did you just block them without an explanation or would you wait for them to try and book again and let them know you don’t want to see them anymore? I need to get rid of some regulars and don’t know how to play it. Thanks
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I think escorting for a long time is tiring
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Geordie - Did you just block them without an explanation or would you wait for them to try and book again and let them know you don’t want to see them anymore? I need to get rid of some regulars and don’t know how to play it. Thanks
Let them know when they tried to rebook. Generally vague with a reason other then letting them know I no longer enjoy seeing them and am not able to give the best service so think they should see others.
Most of them were lovely guys and I feel bad about cutting them off, especially for how much they've paid over the years. But then I remember I don't owe them anything, and if I feel shitty afterwards, it's time to go.
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My fetish is having sex with strangers with money as foreplay. This is my aphrodisiac. I dont often get off on them sexually, im buzzed by the situation as Im a closet switch. So every day I work is a sunny day! ;D
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It's far far preferable to office or shop work.
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Regulars are the hardest. . .
They turn into "old rubber tires".
Abandon them in a skip or into a landfill site. . .
Not sure what else to describe them. . . .
The same old move...boring .... ::) ::)
They slowly kill me. . . :angel:
The best method would be to "ghost" them.
Stop answering their calls..ignore messages..you have got someone else to see. . . etc.
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I personally really enjoy it. I find it naughty and fun! Obviously the money is great too. I find that now I'm more fussy with who I will see, I have a much better time. It is much better now I have weeded out all my bad or problem clients.
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Yes...
Other posters commented a few times, too. . .
Escorting is great when/if he is ....(add nice qualities in men)
Escorting is a nightmare when/if he is ...
Emotional connection is very hard to get, but it's nice when someone is pleasant.
Interesting conversations, travels, hobbies etc.
"In escorting?", some people might say . .
We are not all "fuck-dolls with boobs and legs" or "pussy" without any hint of intelligence someone else previously commented on.
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Thank you, Saafe for being an emotional outlet. . .
Far more effective than anything else except some comfort eating. . . . ;D
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I enjoy to be an escort doing outcalls but I'm not very much into incalls.
To be an escort has much to do with communication skills which most people do not have because of their age or a lack of curiosity for "other" people or they did not learn small talk. And the virtual age does it make easier for people to live in a very own bubble. Incalls are a bit more sexual e.g. it makes no sense to offer a 15 mins escort date. And another reason why I do not enjoy incalls: you cannot leave the place and you have to take care because of your neighbours. I know a few sex worker doing incalls who feel bounded, controled by neighbours and unsafe.
I think it is more interesting to be an escort.
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I love it and at the moment it is even better now I have my shy cute 20 year old
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Some days were definitely more tolerable than others lol
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Some days rather enjoyable
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I love it and at the moment it is even better now I have my shy cute 20 year old
I've got a shy cute 24 year old... my son 😂
After 4yrs or so I still love this job. Being self employed is fucking scary sometimes (I had an injury in January which meant I was unable to work for a few weeks... no sick pay!) but the freedom cannot be beaten.
Having come out of a very male dominated industry I also really value being able to just "be" a woman rather than going "Yeah! I'm one of the boys! Look at my big balls!" all the time.
(That said, I definitely had bigger ovaries than all my colleagues bollocks. And that's why I got hired, promoted, seconded, etc)
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I enjoy aspects of this job, the spontaneity of meeting with randoms, whether they be old and intriguing, or young and hot ;D I mostly love being my own boss and having the flexibility to work around my family life and other interests, plus the fact that I can take days or weeks off and come back when I want.
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After this week's game playing guy in my civvy job I am so glad I'm not needing a relationship happy staying single and escorting instead
Can focus on genuine clients regulars who know what they want not silly fools .
I don't make money in a failed relationship !
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Some days rather enjoyable
Totally, I had three awesome guys yesterday all very different. I think I enjoyed myself more than them lol.
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Its not so much that I enjoy it as, you know, I find sex in my personal life has never really been up to much, has always been quite disappointing - so I always end up feeling 'best get paid for it then at least I'm getting something solid out of it'. I don't actively enjoy the sex as such but it does fulfill my basic sexual needs, Its like microwave meal sex to me because I can't be bothered to cook and what I end up cooking (flings, relationships, one night stands, whatever) ends up being shit anyway. Sometimes I think 'oh wouldn't it be nice to have some really hot sex with a really hot, nice interesting, clever, compassionate man' but then I wake up from my daydreams etc etc I enjoy the freedom and flexibility and the being my own boss most of all though, like probably many of us here.
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Its not so much that I enjoy it as, you know, I find sex in my personal life has never really been up to much, has always been quite disappointing - so I always end up feeling 'best get paid for it then at least I'm getting something solid out of it'. I don't actively enjoy the sex as such but it does fulfill my basic sexual needs, Its like microwave meal sex to me because I can't be bothered to cook and what I end up cooking (flings, relationships, one night stands, whatever) ends up being shit anyway. Sometimes I think 'oh wouldn't it be nice to have some really hot sex with a really hot, nice interesting, clever, compassionate man' but then I wake up from my daydreams etc etc I enjoy the freedom and flexibility and the being my own boss most of all though, like probably many of us here.
I feel like this most of the time. Plus occasionally I have a day with back to back to back appointments and that makes me feel sexy and smart and like a boss.
BUT- when I get in a relationship, it’s really hard. I can’t fake giving a shit about them. I can’t stand occasional chatty text messages. I have a naturally monogamous streak that makes this feel terrible.
That’s my situation right now. He knows- it isn’t cheating, but it still feels yuck and my income is dropping off so much. He’s subsidizing me and wants to get me a regular job- I just panick at the thought of that. Am I even capable of it? Ugh
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I’m such a cheater as I feel that life is too short not to shag all the sexy guys, that are sexy ;), out there! I can’t imagine having a deep love for a man because as soon as your peeing in front of them then I start fantasising about other men, relationships with women are so different, being a hooker suits me too much!!
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After ten years I am sick to the back teeth of the faffing about, timewasters, idiot phone calls and I can't wait to give up!
Saying that, the majority of bookings I do really enjoy and I have met some amazing men over the years and had some very good sex. If only they all just called, asked sensible questions, confirm when I ask, show up on time and left happy. I've made some money when I needed it most and it kept me going when I did it full time for 4 years. I have learnt a lot about men, sex and myself and I certainly don't regret it. I've also made some amazing friends through escorting. I'm slowly getting myself into a position where I can give up and progress a new career elsewhere.
Though, a small part of me knows I will miss the good bits and maybe I'll keep the odd decent regular or charge a lot more money for outcalls only on occasions... not sure yet, I have a year of study left and shall see where I am this time next year and in the meantime keep my patience and enjoy the good ones!
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I've been watching some nearby workmen for the past 8 weeks wearing out their bones breaking concrete on those scorching hot days and thought,' hmm, yes I love escorting'.
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Not now.. I have currently stopped escorting I was no longer enjoying it .
The waiting for calls the bookings and the time wasters.(exhaustion/burn out + negative body image
Time to think if I'm going to take a break or return after a while.
It may be the time to look for that part time job now :)
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Escorting is massively preferable to a normal job, so it's a shame I'm having to take a break from it right now. :(
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I've been watching some nearby workmen for the past 8 weeks wearing out their bones breaking concrete on those scorching hot days and thought,' hmm, yes I love escorting'.
At least they get tan and get their old muscles toning up whilst they work, we just don’t get the tan!😂😂
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I like that positive view TT,...actually ;D I might take that option on a bit more... sunny side up for others too!
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Absolutely, it’s the best job I’ve ever had ;D. The freedom of working for myself pretty much trumps everything. It means that I get to call my day off if I need to, for whatever reason, in a way that I couldn’t when I worked an office job, I’m not beholden to a boss or co-workers and I sometimes even get to meet interesting people and have good sex while I’m at it >:D .
Of course there are challenges, but for me it’s so much emotionally easier to manage than the challenges that come with working in an office or for a company. If I don’t like something or I need personal time, I have the luxury of getting to self-manage in accordance with my own needs.
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I love it, I work two days a week and on one of them days my kids sleep out anyway and the other day their in school so I’m more or less always there for them. Before I started escorting a year ago I wasn’t struggling but found there was always something I needed to save for birthday/Christmas/trips etc so never really had extra to spend on myself or my house, my kids are spoilt off me and their dad so every penny went on them. But since escorting so much has changed, I’ve been able to decorate the house top to bottom, treated myself plenty and been on lots more trips.
Mostly I enjoy it as most of the clients I’ve seen now book me weekly/fortnightly so it’s helped my confidence which I struggled with beforehand. Of course not every client is a good one but I’ve been lucky really up to now. I have a few regulars who I’m really attracted to so never feels like a “job”
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Sometimes i hate it, sometimes i like it. I certainly do revaluate my feelings towards it when i have a quiet spell and look at all the negatives though.
+1
When work is busy I love it and Im buzzing, but when my phone gets dusty or I have a really bad booking ie look and walk, boundary pusher etc it really affects me and I find it hard to keep myself motivated...
Regulars are the hardest. . .
They turn into "old rubber tires".
Abandon them in a skip or into a landfill site. . .
This made me laugh so damn hard hahah! I feel exactly the same way about regulars: they get boring and tedious after some time. If I had it my way I wouldnt allow a guy to book me more then 3 times lol
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Not when all I get is £50 quickie in 4 hours. I end up turning off my phone at 1 pm then.
Then I kick myself and put it back on an hour later to realise I have lost out on work lol.
It was a bad day yesterday two cancellations the ups and downs are too much sometimes!
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This made me laugh so damn hard hahah! I feel exactly the same way about regulars: they get boring and tedious after some time. If I had it my way I wouldnt allow a guy to book me more then 3 times lol
;D
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When I started out I enjoyed it. It was an adventure, and exciting and I was going places and making money. After a time I got my own place and started incalls. This was a different experience and I got to prefer it as I had more things to hand and could entertain my way.
By the time I retired I had stopped enjoying it so much. Every dog has it's day :)
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Not when all I get is £50 quickie in 4 hours. I end up turning off my phone at 1 pm then.
Then I kick myself and put it back on an hour later to realise I have lost out on work lol.
It was a bad day yesterday two cancellations the ups and downs are too much sometimes!
Sometimes my day starts really slow and all of a sudden, like buses, they all phone at once, and before you know it then it’s been a good day financially, never ever switch your phone off when you show as available, it’s silly but I’ve done it myself because it gets frustrating.
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Escorting is massively preferable to a normal job
:)
Oh yes
I enjoy:
1. The money
2. working from home
3. starting work at what time I want and finishing when I want.
4. Taking a week off a month
5. some of my clients
and if I didn't mention it...the ££££££
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I am an easily bored type but after 7 years in this now I still broadly enjoy it. Amazing.
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I enjoy it. I don't think it should be illegal business for consenting adults.Safety scary with all the stuff going on...Teacher.Tell me the difference between a Prostitute ,Girlfriend and wife.Whole class was silent.Student put up his hand and answered:Prepaid.Postpaid and Unlimited
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Do you genuinely enjoy your job? (if that’s even possible if you are not a nymphomaniac)
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I do. Despite the drawbacks, I do enjoy it. I enjoy the freedom that it gives me, and being my own boss and the chance that it gives me to pursue other ventures if and when I please.
I may not feel that way in five years time, and that's fine. But at the moment I am happy with it.
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On the whole I do enjoy it. I don't think I could do it if I didn't. Obviously there are shitty bits, TWs etc but thats work in general. You'd struggle to find a job with no negative aspects!
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With nice people. Yes.
If they aren't, it won't be enjoyable, naturally. :angel:
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I hate it now and looking at leaving but the money is good compared to minimum wage stuff I'd only be good for.
It affects my relationships either they dont accept what I do, or they want to be with me because I am what I am. Last few relationships failed because of my trust in them. seeing so many married men makes you see them all as cheats, well to me it does.
I feel like men I see use me ,which they do lol, but it starting to make me feel degraded as most are rough and demanding. Very few nice men recently.
And no friends or work chat and banter.
See how it goes but not for me much longer I think
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I hate it now and looking at leaving but the money is good compared to minimum wage stuff I'd only be good for.
It affects my relationships either they dont accept what I do, or they want to be with me because I am what I am. Last few relationships failed because of my trust in them. seeing so many married men makes you see them all as cheats, well to me it does.
I feel like men I see use me ,which they do lol, but it starting to make me feel degraded as most are rough and demanding. Very few nice men recently.
And no friends or work chat and banter.
See how it goes but not for me much longer I think
Sorry you’re struggling so much recently.
Pm if you feel super lonely, we all do sometimes !! Xx
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I feel like men I see use me ,which they do lol, but it starting to make me feel degraded as most are rough and demanding. Very few nice men recently.
I depends on what type of services you are offering (?) but not entirely sure. . .
PSE may encourage a certain group of men, who would enjoy "dominant" roles.
It seems once you/anyone "allows" that type of behaviour, it only gets worse.
Yes, it is very much akin to abuse.
I have to add (to my previous post) I don't get to see "genuinely nice men" that often.
If that helps. . .
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When I had my first few clients, I had to have a little gin and lemonade to calm the nerves. I have a client I've seen a few times now. I think I have a little crush on him, most probably sex brain.. He works hard, if you get me ;).
As a 24 year old curvy escort, personally I wouldn't usually (in my personal life) even entertain guys who are overweight (Because I think two big bodies does not work in sex personally) or anyone much much older than me (for example 55 plus) But as a new escort, I find myself considering these to just my work up..
I do enjoy it though, the lying to family is hard going..