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well done meee! piss and shit just added to the no list!! x x x

Quote from: Blaine on 19 May 2012, 10:06:12 pm

In the future I'm planning to refuse or limit activity with the following:

extremely overweights 
stinky breaths

I would want to do that too, but how exactly to go about it without sounding too offensive, especially when it comes to the obese.

Don't you insist on the guy being squeaky clean  before you start the booking? Including mouth?


What exactly is the problem with obese men?
(genuine - not argumental - question!)

Quote from: Cat_BBW on 22 May 2012, 08:22:20 pm

Quote from: clover on 22 May 2012, 08:19:40 pm

Quote from: Blaine on 19 May 2012, 10:06:12 pm

In the future I'm planning to refuse or limit activity with the following:

extremely overweights 
stinky breaths

I would want to do that too, but how exactly to go about it without sounding too offensive, especially when it comes to the obese.

What exactly is the problem with obese men?
(genuine - not argumental - question!)

Can be VERY sweaty! Having to lift up the fat to actually get to their member ewwww! And if extreamly heavy could break you're bed!

OK, I understand the bed thing could be a problem, if you don't have a good bed or the client is over 20+ stone.

But sweaty - that comes under personal hygiene, and if you insist on your clients being freshly showered, surely the sweaty stuff doesn't come into it?

Quote from: MissKylie on 22 May 2012, 08:25:09 pm

Quote from: Cat_BBW on 22 May 2012, 08:22:20 pm

Quote from: clover on 22 May 2012, 08:19:40 pm

Quote from: Blaine on 19 May 2012, 10:06:12 pm

In the future I'm planning to refuse or limit activity with the following:

extremely overweights 
stinky breaths

I would want to do that too, but how exactly to go about it without sounding too offensive, especially when it comes to the obese.

What exactly is the problem with obese men?
(genuine - not argumental - question!)

Can be VERY sweaty! Having to lift up the fat to actually get to their member ewwww! And if extreamly heavy could break you're bed!

OK, I understand the bed thing could be a problem, if you don't have a good bed or the client is over 20+ stone.

But sweaty - that comes under personal hygiene, and if you insist on your clients being freshly showered, surely the sweaty stuff doesn't come into it?

Even if you shower regularly when you are extremely overweight you sweat much more than others. I have had reasonably clean very overweight clients start to have sex with on top and just start dripping sweat on me!!! It made me feel sick I had to stop.

Obviously in our line we have to be prepared for all sorts of things. I don't discriminate by shape or size, and obviously we often don't know until the door is opened anyway.

Attitude and respect are the biggies and it's becomes easier to spot this over the phone, and by email or text(although less so) before the appointment happens. If I sense something wrong, or that the guy really isn't suited to me then I'll decline the booking. I tend not to fib, I just say "Sorry not possible" or "Let's leave it". There are however some guys who come across as having an attitude problem, or not clicking on the phone who in person turn out to be great. It's just spotting them that's the problem.

I won't accept any booking which makes me feel uncomfortable, doesn't give me enough time to go through my usual security, or an outcall without all the details I require. I'd rather turn away the booking and the potential fee, stay at home safe and sound than run any more risk than I have to.

Quote from: Cat_BBW on 22 May 2012, 08:22:20 pm

What exactly is the problem with obese men?

Apart from the sweatiness and can't get underneath problems, it wasn't just the guy who was fat. His member was fat too. It was so thick that I couldn't get it in.

I have had two clients like that too it is very uncomfortable.Any position we tried would not work.Their tummy was in the way and their penis was huge.They were very nice clients and I tried for them but it was getting nowhere. One client had to really work he tried to do missionary without using his whole weight on me and accidentally dribbled in my mouth. I started retching and could not stop. we had to call it a day as I just wanted to scrub my mouth out it was a nightmare.

The overnights are not so bad, at least compared to holiday companioning. All I want to do is top up the tan and read a good book rather than spending the day in bed, or worse, I once had a severe reaction to a spider bite after a client got frisky in a field in Portugal. I'm thinking of stopping offering these.

That's pretty much my holiday plan minus the tanning part, but presumably you don't expect to be paid for this? On the odd occasions I've been away with clients I've had my couple of (agreed) hours off a day to please myself and the rest of time I do what they want to do, as befits somebody who's taken a significant sum of money from them for doing it. I wouldn't have gone at all unless I expected to work (and it's one of the reasons I don't take these bookings now).