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General Category => Questions and Answers => Topic started by: figa98 on 19 May 2012, 07:41:42 pm
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I seem to be getting more and more fussy,shall we say as time goes on.
I have just taken couples off my list as I always find the females too jealous,even though she said she was more than happy with the booking on on the phone.I find it far too draining trying to read 2 peoples reactions and making them BOTH happy.After the last couple where she was asking me to leave and he was asking me to stay ( I walked out ) I just thought,never again.
I also am thinking of pricing myself out of the overnight market.I am a very reasonable ?650,which I do not think is worth it anymore for the exhaustion I feel the next day.Again just too draining.Much prefer 3/4 different clients for 1 hour bookings and not have to please someone for 12 hrs.I am thinking of putting my overnights to ?900.If someone is willing to pay that,then I will do it!.
Last one i am tired of,and must say there are not too many of these,are the ones that want you dressed in rubber,and to carry 5 outfit changes plus toys.They just do my head in.
What do you refuse? x
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This is what i do,price very high for all nights..
ive never done one but,i want high pay for draining my self for days..
If i ever get one then,i mite be able to struggle and get my head round it!!
ive put 1200..
I will never be an all nite kind of girl,cant keep the act up,they would have to be like a friend with no sex!!to manage..
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I refuse anything I don't feel 100 per cent comfortable offering! No amount of extra money will change that for me.
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I refuse anything I don't feel 100 per cent comfortable offering! No amount of extra money will change that for me.
That ^^^. I?m also very reluctant to accept longer bookings from men I?ve never seen before. Likewise I have yet to accept a booking from any young immature type trying to pass himself as off a gangster (think Ali G) or anyone who is way over familiar me with on the phone. Other than that, it?s no holds barred!
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Couples
Cross dressers (doesn't do anything for me)
Anyone in the 20-28 age range
Being flown to meet a client I never met (one got really fussy when I said I'd have to meet him in the US before having him fly me to Mexico...although dammit, this was the weekend planned LOL).
In the future I'm planning to refuse or limit activity with the following:
extremely overweights
stinky breaths
I used to think overnights were too expensive and felt bad for charging so much. But as I began to get more and more of them and then weeks and months later the booking still 'lingers' in my mind and how I had to try so hard....900-1200 is really quite fair. I still can't get the image out of my head of the overnight from the other week: horrid breath, fungus toenails, balding...ugh such a mental toll and I'm disgusted just thinking about it. I fall out of my chair when a cute, clean, well taken care of GENTLEMAN books me.
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Anyone who either -
a) Attempts any kind of sex chat via phone or text (I don't mind confirming or listing services when asked politely, but that is AS FAR AS IT GOES as all my ads have pics. ie - { "Can I confirm you offer x?" "Yes I do" } or {"What services do you provide/offer/what is included?" "I offer sensual massage with x and y and options of z and a"} That should be enough for any potential client - I will not go into any further details or indulge any over-familiarity. Making a booking or enquiry should take less than 2 mins and be business-like or I'm not interested and will block. I'm friendly, but I have no desire to spend my personal time providing a free sex-chat service or reeling off my stats. I don't want to be engaging with customers unless I am getting paid ;D - I will be polite and friendly up to the 2 min mark or any sex chat. Hint - sex chat types VERY RARELY honour their appointments and even if they do turn up they tend to act all porny and difficult and to much hard work.
b) Attempts to push any boundaries or acts pushy. For example today I had this exchange - "Hi I'm an MD of a successful company looking to relax blah blah blah , I am looking for a 2 hour appointment when are you free?" me - "Hi ,just to let you know my maximum booking time is 1 hour, that is the longest I do" him - "ok, when are you free?" me - "I'm available blah blah and blah?" him - "I am really looking for 2 hours, how much would that be for you to do 2 hours?" me - hang up. block.
The way I see it is that if they are deliberately pushing boundaries (ie you have told them the deal) or going against what you have said BEFORE the booking, they are more likely to be difficult, disrespectful customers IN the actual booking - there is a good chance they will be the type to ignore you telling them to stop trying for stuff you don't offer, and repeatedly ignore your boundaries.
c) Anyone who has slipped through the net before and been pushy or made me feel disrespected.
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Attempts to push any boundaries or acts pushy. For example today I had this exchange - "Hi I'm an MD of a successful company looking to relax blah blah blah , I am looking for a 2 hour appointment when are you free?" me - "Hi ,just to let you know my maximum booking time is 1 hour, that is the longest I do" him - "ok, when are you free?" me - "I'm available blah blah and blah?" him - "I am really looking for 2 hours, how much would that be for you to do 2 hours?" me - hang up. block.
I follow the same procedure too. Anyone who attempts to push my boundaries gets automatically banned.I remember a dumb conversation yesterday:
Client- Hi, I was looking for a service that included A,B and C.
Me- That's fine. The only problem is that I only do A and B but not C.
Client- Are you sure?
Me- Sure of what?
Client- That you don't offer C?
Me- ( No idiot, I'm just saying that cause I'm mentally handiccaped and have a speech impediment). Very sure sir.
Client- Hmmm... But that's such a pity...because you look so cute in the pictures...
Me- Oh well (rolls eyes back) Just remember that If you want A and B ONLY you know were I am.
click.
I only said the last phrase out of politeness, but truth is I would never give an appointment to said guy because "C" is what he really wants and will be pushing for it the whole time.
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Most of the above, but mostly it comes down to gut instinct with me.
Had a guy pestering me for a booking daily for 2 weeks and I for some reason even though he was so easy to get to, was in his 30's so not too young, and didn't want anything far out, I just didn't feel right about seeing him.
Then Wednesday night he text again, so thought I'd test something out and said...OK I'm just going to call my driver/security, so can I have your full address please (as all he'd said to this point was he was right next to a certain train station)
He text straight back..."Oh I presumed you'd say no again so I've gone out with my mate now"...this was 5 mins after his text asking me to go! And I've not heard back since.
It just goes to show how our gut instinct never lets us down!
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Pretty much everything you said Figa.
I don't see couples anymore and price myself out of the Market where overnights are concerned.
The last one I did I had to get up in the early hours and leave him, which surprised me as I had seen him several times before-even overnight.
I agree that you can close your mind/ ears/nose/eyes to a lot of things for a SHORT amount of time and can happily brush it off as soon as you leave, but for some reason a bad overnight will haunt you for a long time afterwards.
If I DO get asked for overnights by a stranger, I always offer 2/3 hours to see how it goes, with the option I will stay longer if we get on really well. ( make them 'work' for the privilige by being the perfect Host to me and we'll see.. ;) )
I can't bear the young, flash types who talk about their global business empire and want to see me " Asap, to stay the night/maybe the weekend".
Also, if anyone texts me after booking, I simply don't bother running the bath. They are guarranteed to be telling me how much they are looking forward to meeting me and " What will you be wearing sxy bbe?" can be translated as; ' I only booked you so we could engage in sexy chat, I will rub myself at your responses, then text you to cancel as soon as the job is done.'
I pretty much cancel the booking myself at the first text to save myself the bother. ::)
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I'm actually reading this on the train coming back from another overnight. This was probably the best overnight I've ever had. The guy was just amazing, the best sex I've had in a longgg time lol I almost feel a little sad leaving. As I've said before I charge 650-700 for overnights and I'm very comfortable with that because I enjoy them so much and would much rather do that than see 5-6 different men.
GFE is just who I am as a person. So types of bookings I would refuse would be an all nighter with no sleep and constant sex. It's about quality not quantity I believe in sex. Making a conection with the person first usually makes it so much better. So although I do offer a PSE it's not my favourite and I won't do anything hardcore. Oh and young boys under 25 or anyone that sounds like a chav. My pet hate! :FF
I refuse bookings on the way people speak to me. If they don't sound like the sort of person I want to see then I won't see them simple.
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Everything everyone's said. I just DO NOT SEE men who call and start with the dirty talk, offer to send me pics of their cock. I have had a few who start describing what they want to do with me. Hang up.
I charge 1500 for overnights, used to be 1000 but I got too many bookings and hated every one of them. It's just too tiring especially when, after very little to no sleep, you have to get up in the morning and pleasure them again before you leave in peak hour traffic to go home dressed to the nines in a very obvious work of shame :)
;)
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Don't see people who get in touch, asking for booking, I saw put one through, they don't. I see them put up a reverse booking, then they come crawling back when they get let down or cancelled on.
They had their choice.
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Also, if anyone texts me after booking, I simply don't bother running the bath. They are guarranteed to be telling me how much they are looking forward to meeting me and " What will you be wearing sxy bbe?" can be translated as; ' I only booked you so we could engage in sexy chat, I will rub myself at your responses, then text you to cancel as soon as the job is done.'
I pretty much cancel the booking myself at the first text to save myself the bother. ::)
Yup. I do this too. Maybe not necessarily cancel, but i won't make any effort with getting ready or anything and if it's the last booking of day I'll just go home. I already have these types down in my mind as "TW" so many of them don't turn up or "have to go into work" at the last minute. ::)
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I rang a client who requested a booking who said he wanted appointment for an overnight outcall.
He said hes cock was so big he could suck himself off ....IS THAT POSSIBLE......well he asked if I waned to hear.
I couldn't say no to such a normal, non-time wasting person from AW so I agreed to make the booking and got a on a train for a 5 hour journey without an upfront fee paid by CC ;)
Yeah right!
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under 21's
over 60's
people who ask for things that arnt on my likes list over the phone
people who mention drugs
15 minute quickies,
couples/more than 1 guy
anyone who wants me to bring 10 different outfits
anything involving piss or shit lol
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well done meee! piss and shit just added to the no list!! x x x
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In the future I'm planning to refuse or limit activity with the following:
extremely overweights
stinky breaths
I would want to do that too, but how exactly to go about it without sounding too offensive, especially when it comes to the obese.
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In the future I'm planning to refuse or limit activity with the following:
extremely overweights
stinky breaths
I would want to do that too, but how exactly to go about it without sounding too offensive, especially when it comes to the obese.
Don't you insist on the guy being squeaky clean before you start the booking? Including mouth?
What exactly is the problem with obese men?
(genuine - not argumental - question!)
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In the future I'm planning to refuse or limit activity with the following:
extremely overweights
stinky breaths
I would want to do that too, but how exactly to go about it without sounding too offensive, especially when it comes to the obese.
What exactly is the problem with obese men?
(genuine - not argumental - question!)
Can be VERY sweaty! Having to lift up the fat to actually get to their member ewwww! And if extreamly heavy could break you're bed!
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In the future I'm planning to refuse or limit activity with the following:
extremely overweights
stinky breaths
I would want to do that too, but how exactly to go about it without sounding too offensive, especially when it comes to the obese.
What exactly is the problem with obese men?
(genuine - not argumental - question!)
Can be VERY sweaty! Having to lift up the fat to actually get to their member ewwww! And if extreamly heavy could break you're bed!
OK, I understand the bed thing could be a problem, if you don't have a good bed or the client is over 20+ stone.
But sweaty - that comes under personal hygiene, and if you insist on your clients being freshly showered, surely the sweaty stuff doesn't come into it?
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When a man is too big I just don't find them attractive There is big and there is too big. It just seems like a task rather than fun. Also they tend to sweat particularly in the groin area and it is off putting.
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In the future I'm planning to refuse or limit activity with the following:
extremely overweights
stinky breaths
I would want to do that too, but how exactly to go about it without sounding too offensive, especially when it comes to the obese.
What exactly is the problem with obese men?
(genuine - not argumental - question!)
Can be VERY sweaty! Having to lift up the fat to actually get to their member ewwww! And if extreamly heavy could break you're bed!
OK, I understand the bed thing could be a problem, if you don't have a good bed or the client is over 20+ stone.
But sweaty - that comes under personal hygiene, and if you insist on your clients being freshly showered, surely the sweaty stuff doesn't come into it?
Even if you shower regularly when you are extremely overweight you sweat much more than others. I have had reasonably clean very overweight clients start to have sex with on top and just start dripping sweat on me!!! It made me feel sick I had to stop.
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In the future I'm planning to refuse or limit activity with the following:
extremely overweights
stinky breaths
I would want to do that too, but how exactly to go about it without sounding too offensive, especially when it comes to the obese.
What exactly is the problem with obese men?
(genuine - not argumental - question!)
Can be VERY sweaty! Having to lift up the fat to actually get to their member ewwww! And if extreamly heavy could break you're bed!
OK, I understand the bed thing could be a problem, if you don't have a good bed or the client is over 20+ stone.
But sweaty - that comes under personal hygiene, and if you insist on your clients being freshly showered, surely the sweaty stuff doesn't come into it?
Lmao I had a client like this in a parlour once for a half hour booking. And he was the most overweight person I've ever seen in the UK, he could barely walk, he needed help to get onto the massage bed and take his pants off. He must have been atleast 30 stone. I couldnt get on top or underneath for sex as he was so big, his member was hid behind about 4 or 5 layers of very very thick flab so doggy was impossible. I felt awful and helpless throughout the meeting lol. However I eventually managed to make hum cum via hand job. The room was like a sauna by then and I quickly jumped in the shower. It was highly unpleasant and I would not want to see a client like that again and I dont really blame other girls for not wanting to, it makes a proper session very hard to accomplish. How would you know the client was of this attire without offending or asking, if the client didnt tell you?
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Obviously in our line we have to be prepared for all sorts of things. I don't discriminate by shape or size, and obviously we often don't know until the door is opened anyway.
Attitude and respect are the biggies and it's becomes easier to spot this over the phone, and by email or text(although less so) before the appointment happens. If I sense something wrong, or that the guy really isn't suited to me then I'll decline the booking. I tend not to fib, I just say "Sorry not possible" or "Let's leave it". There are however some guys who come across as having an attitude problem, or not clicking on the phone who in person turn out to be great. It's just spotting them that's the problem.
I won't accept any booking which makes me feel uncomfortable, doesn't give me enough time to go through my usual security, or an outcall without all the details I require. I'd rather turn away the booking and the potential fee, stay at home safe and sound than run any more risk than I have to.
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What exactly is the problem with obese men?
Apart from the sweatiness and can't get underneath problems, it wasn't just the guy who was fat. His member was fat too. It was so thick that I couldn't get it in.
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What exactly is the problem with obese men?
Apart from the sweatiness and can't get underneath problems, it wasn't just the guy who was fat. His member was fat too. It was so thick that I couldn't get it in.
I have had two clients like that too it is very uncomfortable.Any position we tried would not work.Their tummy was in the way and their penis was huge.They were very nice clients and I tried for them but it was getting nowhere. One client had to really work he tried to do missionary without using his whole weight on me and accidentally dribbled in my mouth. I started retching and could not stop. we had to call it a day as I just wanted to scrub my mouth out it was a nightmare.
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The overnights are not so bad, at least compared to holiday companioning. All I want to do is top up the tan and read a good book rather than spending the day in bed, or worse, I once had a severe reaction to a spider bite after a client got frisky in a field in Portugal. I'm thinking of stopping offering these.
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The overnights are not so bad, at least compared to holiday companioning. All I want to do is top up the tan and read a good book rather than spending the day in bed, or worse, I once had a severe reaction to a spider bite after a client got frisky in a field in Portugal. I'm thinking of stopping offering these.
That's pretty much my holiday plan minus the tanning part, but presumably you don't expect to be paid for this? On the odd occasions I've been away with clients I've had my couple of (agreed) hours off a day to please myself and the rest of time I do what they want to do, as befits somebody who's taken a significant sum of money from them for doing it. I wouldn't have gone at all unless I expected to work (and it's one of the reasons I don't take these bookings now).
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The overnights are not so bad, at least compared to holiday companioning. All I want to do is top up the tan and read a good book rather than spending the day in bed, or worse, I once had a severe reaction to a spider bite after a client got frisky in a field in Portugal. I'm thinking of stopping offering these.
That's pretty much my holiday plan minus the tanning part, but presumably you don't expect to be paid for this? On the odd occasions I've been away with clients I've had my couple of (agreed) hours off a day to please myself and the rest of time I do what they want to do, as befits somebody who's taken a significant sum of money from them for doing it. I wouldn't have gone at all unless I expected to work (and it's one of the reasons I don't take these bookings now).
Yes that's pretty much it, they are paying to spend a significant portion of the day/night/week with you. It's just not worth a great deal.
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All wot everyone else has said. Why do they insist on asking you "If I pay you extra would you suck my cock without a jonny!!!????" If I did OWO I would advertise it!!! FFS!!
No I don't do anal. "You might like it if you tried it!!! "I have tried it & that's how I know I don't like it!!!" IDIOT.
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