Author Topic: What bookings do you refuse? (Read 7255 times)

figa98 · « **on:** 19 May 2012, 07:41:42 pm »

I seem to be getting more and more fussy,shall we say as time goes on.

I have just taken couples off my list as I always find the females too jealous,even though she said she was more than happy with the booking on on the phone.I find it far too draining trying to read 2 peoples reactions and making them BOTH happy.After the last couple where she was asking me to leave and he was asking me to stay ( I walked out ) I just thought,never again.

I also am thinking of pricing myself out of the overnight market.I am a very reasonable ?650,which I do not think is worth it anymore for the exhaustion I feel the next day.Again just too draining.Much prefer 3/4 different clients for 1 hour bookings and not have to please someone for 12 hrs.I am thinking of putting my overnights to ?900.If someone is willing to pay that,then I will do it!.

Last one i am tired of,and must say there are not too many of these,are the ones that want you dressed in rubber,and to carry 5 outfit changes plus toys.They just do my head in.

What do you refuse? x

sadie x · « **Reply #1 on:** 19 May 2012, 07:57:17 pm »

This is what i do,price very high for all nights..
ive never done one but,i want high pay for draining my self for days..
If i ever get one then,i mite be able to struggle and get my head round it!!
ive put 1200..

I will never be an all nite kind of girl,cant keep the act up,they would have to be like a friend with no sex!!to manage..

southern belle · « **Reply #2 on:** 19 May 2012, 09:24:18 pm »

I refuse anything I don't feel 100 per cent comfortable offering! No amount of extra money will change that for me.

danae · « **Reply #3 on:** 19 May 2012, 09:33:32 pm »

Quote from: southern belle on 19 May 2012, 09:24:18 pm

I refuse anything I don't feel 100 per cent comfortable offering! No amount of extra money will change that for me.

That ^^^. I?m also very reluctant to accept longer bookings from men I?ve never seen before. Likewise I have yet to accept a booking from any young immature type trying to pass himself as off a gangster (think Ali G) or anyone who is way over familiar me with on the phone. Other than that, it?s no holds barred!

The Bachelor · « **Reply #4 on:** 19 May 2012, 10:06:12 pm »

Couples
Cross dressers (doesn't do anything for me)
Anyone in the 20-28 age range
Being flown to meet a client I never met (one got really fussy when I said I'd have to meet him in the US before having him fly me to Mexico...although dammit, this was the weekend planned LOL).

In the future I'm planning to refuse or limit activity with the following:

extremely overweights
stinky breaths

I used to think overnights were too expensive and felt bad for charging so much. But as I began to get more and more of them and then weeks and months later the booking still 'lingers' in my mind and how I had to try so hard....900-1200 is really quite fair. I still can't get the image out of my head of the overnight from the other week: horrid breath, fungus toenails, balding...ugh such a mental toll and I'm disgusted just thinking about it. I fall out of my chair when a cute, clean, well taken care of GENTLEMAN books me.

LouLou37 · « **Reply #5 on:** 19 May 2012, 11:16:36 pm »

Anyone who either -

a) Attempts any kind of sex chat via phone or text (I don't mind confirming or listing services when asked politely, but that is AS FAR AS IT GOES as all my ads have pics. ie - { "Can I confirm you offer x?" "Yes I do" } or {"What services do you provide/offer/what is included?" "I offer sensual massage with x and y and options of z and a"} That should be enough for any potential client - I will not go into any further details or indulge any over-familiarity. Making a booking or enquiry should take less than 2 mins and be business-like or I'm not interested and will block. I'm friendly, but I have no desire to spend my personal time providing a free sex-chat service or reeling off my stats. I don't want to be engaging with customers unless I am getting paid

- I will be polite and friendly up to the 2 min mark or any sex chat. Hint - sex chat types VERY RARELY honour their appointments and even if they do turn up they tend to act all porny and difficult and to much hard work.

b) Attempts to push any boundaries or acts pushy. For example today I had this exchange - "Hi I'm an MD of a successful company looking to relax blah blah blah , I am looking for a 2 hour appointment when are you free?" me - "Hi ,just to let you know my maximum booking time is 1 hour, that is the longest I do" him - "ok, when are you free?" me - "I'm available blah blah and blah?" him - "I am really looking for 2 hours, how much would that be for you to do 2 hours?" me - hang up. block.
The way I see it is that if they are deliberately pushing boundaries (ie you have told them the deal) or going against what you have said BEFORE the booking, they are more likely to be difficult, disrespectful customers IN the actual booking - there is a good chance they will be the type to ignore you telling them to stop trying for stuff you don't offer, and repeatedly ignore your boundaries.

c) Anyone who has slipped through the net before and been pushy or made me feel disrespected.

ana30 · « **Reply #6 on:** 20 May 2012, 01:21:31 am »

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Attempts to push any boundaries or acts pushy. For example today I had this exchange - "Hi I'm an MD of a successful company looking to relax blah blah blah , I am looking for a 2 hour appointment when are you free?" me - "Hi ,just to let you know my maximum booking time is 1 hour, that is the longest I do" him - "ok, when are you free?" me - "I'm available blah blah and blah?" him - "I am really looking for 2 hours, how much would that be for you to do 2 hours?" me - hang up. block.

I follow the same procedure too. Anyone who attempts to push my boundaries gets automatically banned.I remember a dumb conversation yesterday:

Client- Hi, I was looking for a service that included A,B and C.
Me- That's fine. The only problem is that I only do A and B but not C.
Client- Are you sure?
Me- Sure of what?
Client- That you don't offer C?
Me- ( No idiot, I'm just saying that cause I'm mentally handiccaped and have a speech impediment). Very sure sir.
Client- Hmmm... But that's such a pity...because you look so cute in the pictures...
Me- Oh well (rolls eyes back) Just remember that If you want A and B ONLY you know were I am.
click.

I only said the last phrase out of politeness, but truth is I would never give an appointment to said guy because "C" is what he really wants and will be pushing for it the whole time.

Coty · « **Reply #7 on:** 20 May 2012, 02:52:33 am »

Most of the above, but mostly it comes down to gut instinct with me.

Had a guy pestering me for a booking daily for 2 weeks and I for some reason even though he was so easy to get to, was in his 30's so not too young, and didn't want anything far out, I just didn't feel right about seeing him.
Then Wednesday night he text again, so thought I'd test something out and said...OK I'm just going to call my driver/security, so can I have your full address please (as all he'd said to this point was he was right next to a certain train station)
He text straight back..."Oh I presumed you'd say no again so I've gone out with my mate now"...this was 5 mins after his text asking me to go! And I've not heard back since.
It just goes to show how our gut instinct never lets us down!

Phoenix · « **Reply #8 on:** 20 May 2012, 08:53:58 am »

Pretty much everything you said Figa.

I don't see couples anymore and price myself out of the Market where overnights are concerned.
The last one I did I had to get up in the early hours and leave him, which surprised me as I had seen him several times before-even overnight.
I agree that you can close your mind/ ears/nose/eyes to a lot of things for a SHORT amount of time and can happily brush it off as soon as you leave, but for some reason a bad overnight will haunt you for a long time afterwards.
If I DO get asked for overnights by a stranger, I always offer 2/3 hours to see how it goes, with the option I will stay longer if we get on really well. ( make them 'work' for the privilige by being the perfect Host to me and we'll see..

)

I can't bear the young, flash types who talk about their global business empire and want to see me " Asap, to stay the night/maybe the weekend".

Also, if anyone texts me after booking, I simply don't bother running the bath. They are guarranteed to be telling me how much they are looking forward to meeting me and " What will you be wearing sxy bbe?" can be translated as; ' I only booked you so we could engage in sexy chat, I will rub myself at your responses, then text you to cancel as soon as the job is done.'

I pretty much cancel the booking myself at the first text to save myself the bother.

TeenKylie · « **Reply #9 on:** 20 May 2012, 11:46:46 am »

I'm actually reading this on the train coming back from another overnight. This was probably the best overnight I've ever had. The guy was just amazing, the best sex I've had in a longgg time lol I almost feel a little sad leaving. As I've said before I charge 650-700 for overnights and I'm very comfortable with that because I enjoy them so much and would much rather do that than see 5-6 different men.

GFE is just who I am as a person. So types of bookings I would refuse would be an all nighter with no sleep and constant sex. It's about quality not quantity I believe in sex. Making a conection with the person first usually makes it so much better. So although I do offer a PSE it's not my favourite and I won't do anything hardcore. Oh and young boys under 25 or anyone that sounds like a chav. My pet hate!

I refuse bookings on the way people speak to me. If they don't sound like the sort of person I want to see then I won't see them simple.

Sahrbear · « **Reply #10 on:** 20 May 2012, 02:27:46 pm »

Everything everyone's said. I just DO NOT SEE men who call and start with the dirty talk, offer to send me pics of their cock. I have had a few who start describing what they want to do with me. Hang up.

I charge 1500 for overnights, used to be 1000 but I got too many bookings and hated every one of them. It's just too tiring especially when, after very little to no sleep, you have to get up in the morning and pleasure them again before you leave in peak hour traffic to go home dressed to the nines in a very obvious work of shame

XxAnnaliseXx · « **Reply #11 on:** 20 May 2012, 03:22:37 pm »

Don't see people who get in touch, asking for booking, I saw put one through, they don't. I see them put up a reverse booking, then they come crawling back when they get let down or cancelled on.

They had their choice.

LouLou37 · « **Reply #12 on:** 20 May 2012, 04:35:01 pm »

Quote from: Phoenix on 20 May 2012, 08:53:58 am

Also, if anyone texts me after booking, I simply don't bother running the bath. They are guarranteed to be telling me how much they are looking forward to meeting me and " What will you be wearing sxy bbe?" can be translated as; ' I only booked you so we could engage in sexy chat, I will rub myself at your responses, then text you to cancel as soon as the job is done.'

I pretty much cancel the booking myself at the first text to save myself the bother.

Yup. I do this too. Maybe not necessarily cancel, but i won't make any effort with getting ready or anything and if it's the last booking of day I'll just go home. I already have these types down in my mind as "TW" so many of them don't turn up or "have to go into work" at the last minute.

LouLou37 · « **Reply #13 on:** 20 May 2012, 05:30:13 pm »

secretcallgirl91 · « **Reply #14 on:** 20 May 2012, 08:26:24 pm »

I rang a client who requested a booking who said he wanted appointment for an overnight outcall.
He said hes cock was so big he could suck himself off ....IS THAT POSSIBLE......well he asked if I waned to hear.

I couldn't say no to such a normal, non-time wasting person from AW so I agreed to make the booking and got a on a train for a 5 hour journey without an upfront fee paid by CC

Yeah right!

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Author Topic: What bookings do you refuse? (Read 7255 times)

figa98

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