Hey all. I've agreed to (and accepted booking request on AW) see a client this eve who has just told me he is a virgin. Whether this is true or not remains to be seen but I do not normally accept bookings from virgins.
Any tips for me if he turns out to be genuine. I've NEVER been with a virgin before. Want it to be great for him. Please help!

I find virgins can vary however Kay's tips about nerves will be valid for most, some might over think it others may just take to it like a duck to water.

Some are not used to being touched, so go slowly although others might want to just get on with it.


Take your time, an hour has been enough with some so it all varies. Main thing is the over thinking and over planning, advise him to trust you to go with the flow.

Good luck.

Oh I'm just a bucket of cold water. Get lots of these requests and it's all fantasy.
Sound advice from the other ladies though and I hope it works out great.

I'm with you Salty;  they show up & it's like well damn, for someone who said they're a virgin you certainly seem to know your way around a vagina🙄.

I always assume they want special treatment.

Yeah I assume they're angling for bareback.

I've only had two. One I couldn't tell you if he was or wasn't, but by his manner I wouldn't be surprised if he was. The other definitely was - late 20s, very intelligent but on the spectrum, literally shaking with nerves. He'd done a lot of research and travelled quite a way to see me, and we swapped quite a few emails beforehand. It was actually a very rewarding experience, though I almost had to fly the white flag after a sold 1.5h of penetration: it turned out he'd been keeping himself from coming!

Wow! Amazed and flabbergasted that he was real! You deserve a medal Annie!

Another thing I've noticed is many inexperienced and virgin men will put their knees up, they don't realise their legs need to be flat for cowgirl. I suspect this is partly self-protection. I gently coax them down, but as above I find there is a lot of variation not everyone is the same or a handful and I enjoy providing a nice first time for them.

In my teens a couple of boys I knew from school asked me to break their virginity, we went to an 18th party then went to one of the boys really nice parental home. His parents were away so the coast clear, the boy I had sex with just took to it really easy, the other discovered he really is gay.

Occasionally my path has crossed with the first one, we just smile knowingly.

I guess some of my patience may come from these experiences however my virginity was not as smooth - probably another reason I'm able to show care and do like the bookings.

However I won't put up with the 'I'm a virgin so clean' I do a bit of sexual health education, explain I keep myself and everyone I have sex with safe by applying the same rules and encouraging them to take responsibility for their own sexual health. Disability clients have often been well shielded from this sort of thing.

I find that they're either easy in session but super needy and annoying after the booking, or they're actually really difficult and demanding in session. Some of them have spent so long imagining what it'll be like and exactly how they want it to go and they'll get really arsey if everything isn't entirely perfect. I wouldn't go in worrying about making it amazing for them any more than you would any other client tbh, I would hazard a guess that lots of them are lying about it in order to try to make you work harder or put up with shit that you wouldn't otherwise. Just treat it like any other booking/client