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General Category => Questions and Answers => Topic started by: Annie- on 20 July 2019, 03:37:20 pm
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Hey all. I've agreed to (and accepted booking request on AW) see a client this eve who has just told me he is a virgin. Whether this is true or not remains to be seen but I do not normally accept bookings from virgins.
Any tips for me if he turns out to be genuine. I've NEVER been with a virgin before. Want it to be great for him. Please help! :)
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Just bear in mind how nervous he'll be. He may come very quickly, or get condom wilt etc. I'd hope he's booked at least 1.5h, but either way just be patient and be prepared to guide him both physically and verbally. I would recommend cowgirl for the first PIV attempt!
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I find virgins can vary however Kay's tips about nerves will be valid for most, some might over think it others may just take to it like a duck to water.
Some are not used to being touched, so go slowly although others might want to just get on with it.
Take your time, an hour has been enough with some so it all varies. Main thing is the over thinking and over planning, advise him to trust you to go with the flow.
Good luck.
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Oh I'm just a bucket of cold water. I get these requests now and then and it's all fantasy.
Sound advice from the ladies though and I hope it works out great.
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Oh I'm just a bucket of cold water. Get lots of these requests and it's all fantasy.
Sound advice from the other ladies though and I hope it works out great.
I'm with you Salty; they show up & it's like well damn, for someone who said they're a virgin you certainly seem to know your way around a vagina🙄.
I always assume they want special treatment.
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Yes I agree Celeste, 'special treatment' like the, 'it's my birthday :P' guys. But I've been proved
very wrong last week about Rose's dodgy sounding booking which turned out to be fabulous.
If it's a kosher request, my spidey senses say there must be something 'wrong' or 'wierd' about him if he can't get laid by a civvy.
I'm dead curious now Annie- ;D!
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Yeah I assume they're angling for bareback.
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Yeah I assume they're angling for bareback.
So do I. Or if they're genuine, that they're going to be needy and difficult - I've been known to tell them they'd be better with somebody more patient but the majority have been OK. I generally assume they're going to cancel/not book if they're massively overthinking it, but I'm not that bothered if they do it's no great loss.
It might be a good time to introduce a standby system if you don't have one already :)
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I've only had two. One I couldn't tell you if he was or wasn't, but by his manner I wouldn't be surprised if he was. The other definitely was - late 20s, very intelligent but on the spectrum, literally shaking with nerves. He'd done a lot of research and travelled quite a way to see me, and we swapped quite a few emails beforehand. It was actually a very rewarding experience, though I almost had to fly the white flag after a sold 1.5h of penetration: it turned out he'd been keeping himself from coming!
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OK thanks so much, he's just left and I'm pretty certain it was genuine virgin. Similar to some of your of your experiences. Was a great guy, loads in common (a geek like me) and very nervous. Actively tried to delay us getting down to it. Spent15 mins in shower!
Very keen to learn although he was physically quivering the whole time!
Took a solid hour to make him cum and kept losing his rock whilst attempting pen as he was 'desparately trying not to shoot his load'
Semi ejoyable all round in the end but I shall not be doing a V-plate again!
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Wow! Amazed and flabbergasted that he was real! You deserve a medal Annie!
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I get loads of virgins. I don’t see anyone under the age of 20 so they’re obviously 20 and up, many much older and I always find it near impossible to make them cum.
Let’s say they’re 25, they’ve been wanking in the same position with the same speed and same GRIP for 15 years so having sex doesn’t feel natural to them especially with a condom desensitising it.
They ALWAYS have that death grip and no vagina in the world is that tight so it’s a real nightmare.
It’s very rare they tell me they’re a virgin prior to booking because if I knew in advance, I would likely decline the booking.
Virgins cumming really fast at the sight of a pair of boobs is a myth, certainly as an adult.
I think virgins cumming really fast is when they lose their virginity young like 14 or whatever.
X
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Another thing I've noticed is many inexperienced and virgin men will put their knees up, they don't realise their legs need to be flat for cowgirl. I suspect this is partly self-protection. I gently coax them down, but as above I find there is a lot of variation not everyone is the same or a handful and I enjoy providing a nice first time for them.
In my teens a couple of boys I knew from school asked me to break their virginity, we went to an 18th party then went to one of the boys really nice parental home. His parents were away so the coast clear, the boy I had sex with just took to it really easy, the other discovered he really is gay.
Occasionally my path has crossed with the first one, we just smile knowingly.
I guess some of my patience may come from these experiences however my virginity was not as smooth - probably another reason I'm able to show care and do like the bookings.
However I won't put up with the 'I'm a virgin so clean' I do a bit of sexual health education, explain I keep myself and everyone I have sex with safe by applying the same rules and encouraging them to take responsibility for their own sexual health. Disability clients have often been well shielded from this sort of thing.
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Oh I'm just a bucket of cold water. I get these requests now and then and it's all fantasy.
Sound advice from the ladies though and I hope it works out great.
I get a lot of AW messages about being a virgin. I just ask them to call me - 99% don't.
If you have spoken to him and he sounds genuine then fingers crossed it goes ahead.
Advice for the booking - make sure you put him at ease with lots of chit chat before getting to business.
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I find that they're either easy in session but super needy and annoying after the booking, or they're actually really difficult and demanding in session. Some of them have spent so long imagining what it'll be like and exactly how they want it to go and they'll get really arsey if everything isn't entirely perfect. I wouldn't go in worrying about making it amazing for them any more than you would any other client tbh, I would hazard a guess that lots of them are lying about it in order to try to make you work harder or put up with shit that you wouldn't otherwise. Just treat it like any other booking/client :)
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When I worked for an escorting agency. I had a few virgins. (I was 20 years old myself and they were of a similar age)
Nothing wrong with them at all, in fact, they made a very pleasant booking. I much prefer being in control and giving guidance so GENUINE virgins can be fun!
I no longer do full service but just my experience.
On AW however; its usually a lie to try convince you to do bareback :FF :FF
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Don’t worry. He might not even show up ::) ;D “virgins” aren’t the most reliable clients - in fact - none of them managed to turn up!
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Way to read the whole thread, folks.