It's sooo dead for me since a month and a half, I start getting quite desperate hence sometimes thinking about replying and seeing the "hey babe, are you working today ?" kind of people if no reports on CE

Yes, I really really hope it's gonna catch up soon (like now I'm worried about whether I'm gonna be able to pay for my bills or not, which has never happened before). I was also thinking about getting a civvy job but finding something decent seems quite compromised at the moment

I pay rent for 1 bed in Knightsbridge, I don’t like many bookings a day normally I like 3-4 and stop my rent paid in 1 1/2 days. Now 1 or 2 booking a day if lucky, by end of week after rent £400-£800 in my pocket. My landlord know what I do, I tempted to offer him 1 hour and remove from rent but I don’t know how he react. He always friendly and do business with respect do not want to make things strange if he says no or he lose respect.

If £400-£800 a week left over after rent isn't enough for you Lorena I sympathise - your living costs must be horrendous.

Tickle, I realise you're likely to have personal commitments and a support network at your current location, but if not I would maybe think about trying somewhere else? You've mentioned wanting longer bookings with dinner and so on rather than straightforward bread-and-butter ones, but whilst the market for these certainly exists, it's vanishingly small and the punters who book them are - by and large - not scratching about on Adultwork.

I moved nearly 300 miles to get the sort of business I wanted, so I do have some idea about the frustration of spending time and effort on good marketing and a decent service offering just to get whinging hagglers and unhygienic, pig ignorant bigots who could barely string a sentence together and I couldn't continue as I was, but obviously I know it isn't that easy for everyone (and I also know that these punters would be perfectly fine for somebody else, just not me). Sometimes you have to recognise that your market isn't accessible to you in your current situation and then you can work out ways of making it so, if that makes sense?

I'd also suggest that if you want 'dates', forget about getting them through punters and just go on some dates .

I pay rent for 1 bed in Knightsbridge, I don’t like many bookings a day normally I like 3-4 and stop my rent paid in 1 1/2 days. Now 1 or 2 booking a day if lucky, by end of week after rent £400-£800 in my pocket. My landlord know what I do, I tempted to offer him 1 hour and remove from rent but I don’t know how he react. He always friendly and do business with respect do not want to make things strange if he says no or he lose respect.