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MissElvira

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Re: Slow at the minute or just me?
« Reply #12960 on: 21 February 2022, 08:00:25 am »
Have a new regular asking me to meet up for coffee, They just go and spoil things when they do this. He is a nice guy and I like seeing him for a paid booking but what are they thinking will be the outcome of meeting up. I have things I want to do with my spare time outside of work and it's not meeting up with punters for coffee or dinner casually.  There's been a few rare times I've had a booking with a guy I'd of happily met for a date in the civvy world, Most after the time is up I just want to shower and detox them out of my mind.

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Re: Slow at the minute or just me?
« Reply #12961 on: 21 February 2022, 10:19:37 am »
I believe at least a few think we ought to be grateful that someone (anyone!) will actually stoop so low as to go out in public with us and provide a few quids' worth of food and drink, because otherwise we'd spend all our down time sitting alone in our flats staring at the wall wishing desperately to be carted off by some white knight type. The weapons-grade misogyny makes me  :-X >:(

'Meet' used as a noun is just shit, lazy English - I don't call the surgery and ask for a 'meet' with the doctor; I ask to make an appointment because that is what it's called. None of it is a massive deal on it's own, but for the same reason that I won't see a punter who can't or won't address me by name, the small things make up the big picture and if the picture is of somebody thick, rude and disrespectful then I don't want them in my flat.

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Re: Slow at the minute or just me?
« Reply #12962 on: 21 February 2022, 10:33:17 am »
If I had a £ for every email containing just "fancy a meet"  ::)

but even worse than that one for me is the "fancy some fun?" from an unknown human.


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Re: Slow at the minute or just me?
« Reply #12963 on: 21 February 2022, 11:32:46 am »
If I had a £ for every email containing just "fancy a meet"  ::)

but even worse than that one for me is the "fancy some fun?" from an unknown human.

Oh the fun :D ::) 8)

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Re: Slow at the minute or just me?
« Reply #12964 on: 21 February 2022, 01:19:38 pm »
Always makes me think of ‘hunt meet’ i.e. idiots on mistreated horses chasing and ripping apart a fox. I suspect they dislike the word ‘appointment’, because it reminds them of the commercial aspect of the transaction.
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Re: Slow at the minute or just me?
« Reply #12965 on: 21 February 2022, 01:41:24 pm »
I don't mind the word, and even state if you would like to meet me, there is a process you must follow

If they don't follow my process, then they won't be meeting me. EVER.  ;D
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Milf-G

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Re: Slow at the minute or just me?
« Reply #12966 on: 21 February 2022, 02:01:58 pm »
Oh god the 'fancy meeting for some naughty fun' ones... haven't had one in a while but instant ick and scream timewasters

EnglishAmy40

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Re: Slow at the minute or just me?
« Reply #12967 on: 21 February 2022, 02:11:10 pm »
Always makes me think of ‘hunt meet’ i.e. idiots on mistreated horses chasing and ripping apart a fox. I suspect they dislike the word ‘appointment’, because it reminds them of the commercial aspect of the transaction.

+1.

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Re: Slow at the minute or just me?
« Reply #12968 on: 21 February 2022, 07:11:43 pm »
I don't mind the word, and even state if you would like to meet me, there is a process you must follow

If they don't follow my process, then they won't be meeting me. EVER.  ;D

Yes, I think when it's used like that it sounds natural. Meet as a noun isn't my cup of tea though.
Even worse is when they email you with 'can I drop by?'. No, you blimmin can't!

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Re: Slow at the minute or just me?
« Reply #12969 on: 21 February 2022, 07:17:32 pm »
I've never known it to be so dead. I used to get calls even during slow periods and when other escorts phone went dead. Now I'm getting no calls at all. I'm guessing my target market of older men and men traveling in or passing through has just evaporated because of the pandemic. I don't do PSE or kink which others in my area do and I'm not minded to do so just to get a client. I'm not even getting what I suspect are booty calls, and getting zero calls at night from men stuck in hotels which I wouldn't be answering now anyway.

Milf-G

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Re: Slow at the minute or just me?
« Reply #12970 on: 21 February 2022, 09:40:26 pm »
Tickle, hopefully some will see Boris's announcement as an indication to return to seeking services. Certainly when lockdown #3 finished last year I was inundated (March). I don't do kink or pse either, and I'm older, I do domme but turn many down for being more than I'm willing to accept. I had 3 today, 2 semi reg, 1 very reg. A few new calls. Hopefully things pick up for us all x

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Re: Slow at the minute or just me?
« Reply #12971 on: 22 February 2022, 06:31:40 am »
Tickle, hopefully some will see Boris's announcement as an indication to return to seeking services. Certainly when lockdown #3 finished last year I was inundated (March). I don't do kink or pse either, and I'm older, I do domme but turn many down for being more than I'm willing to accept. I had 3 today, 2 semi reg, 1 very reg. A few new calls. Hopefully things pick up for us all x

I'm still cautions. I'm following the science on isolation, contagion, mitigations, care for vulnerable people, potential risk of a mutation, and testing. We've had the financial crash, Brexit, a pandemic, and now a cost of living squeeze. The retail and hospitality sectors are currently downbeat about prospects. Like you say it may pick up but I have never known it to be so dead. I've had pretty much nothing since Christmas.

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Re: Slow at the minute or just me?
« Reply #12972 on: 22 February 2022, 07:57:18 am »
I am not well this week and yesterday had three enquiries. Two of whom have met before! Typical.

February am often rundown. At least there was some interest.

Milf-G

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Re: Slow at the minute or just me?
« Reply #12973 on: 22 February 2022, 08:03:17 am »
I'm still cautions. I'm following the science on isolation, contagion, mitigations, care for vulnerable people, potential risk of a mutation, and testing. We've had the financial crash, Brexit, a pandemic, and now a cost of living squeeze. The retail and hospitality sectors are currently downbeat about prospects. Like you say it may pick up but I have never known it to be so dead. I've had pretty much nothing since Christmas.

I totally get you. I only started escorting during the pandemic but I was busy. Media don't help the financial squeeze at all when it's barely the only thing other than the virus they talk about. I don't know your age or location but I'm always happy to have a chat on the phone if you want a friend to off load on x

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Re: Slow at the minute or just me?
« Reply #12974 on: 22 February 2022, 11:58:32 am »
I’m in the North East area and it’s dead today, been like that since Christmas, Valentines day didn’t make a big difference either. I barely have one client a day, and that’s usually a regular, nobody new… I think the best way to fish more money nowadays is touring all over… not something that I particularly like since I find it hard to find a tour buddy and get very anxious when on my own….
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