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Amaliaxo

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Leasing & paying for me?
« on: 12 October 2018, 12:50:31 am »
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someonesomewhere

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Re: Leasing & paying for me?
« Reply #1 on: 12 October 2018, 01:21:33 am »
Without your name on the lease he can kick you out at any time and you have no legal come back.
Where will he be staying?
What is he wanting in return?

Personally, I wouldn't do it. I wouldn't want another person controlling my home environment so much. I wouldn't do this with a partner and not a chance would I do this with someone casual.

Amaliaxo

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Re: Leasing & paying for me?
« Reply #2 on: 12 October 2018, 02:14:48 am »
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Re: Leasing & paying for me?
« Reply #3 on: 12 October 2018, 03:15:20 am »
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You don't need to have your name on if if everything stays good. But if things turn sour he can kick you out without any notice. At the same then, if it's in your name, if he cuts you off you're responsible for everything. If it's in both your names, depends on the lease, you may be responsible for all, or just half.

I wouldn't personally move into somewhere someone else owns and controls, but you know him better than we can. I would just say ensure you have an out, and keep important documents in a safe or with trusted friends/family.
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Amaliaxo

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Re: Leasing & paying for me?
« Reply #4 on: 12 October 2018, 03:26:14 am »
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Re: Leasing & paying for me?
« Reply #5 on: 12 October 2018, 10:10:12 am »
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Re: Leasing & paying for me?
« Reply #6 on: 12 October 2018, 10:27:21 am »
To an extent it will depend on the tenancy.

If this is a property he is renting, rather than a property he owns then I would expect that the person on the tenancy agreement has to be the person that is living there. If he is not then he is effectively subletting to you - regardless of who's paying - which is normally not allowed and therefore the actual landlord could throw you out at any time for breach. Of course as long as they're being paid in full and on time they may not care to do so, but it could cause issues if there's ever any problems with the property since you'll have invalidated the lease from day one.

I would strongly advise both you and him to read and understand the lease very carefully before reaching a decision and in any case have a separate, written agreement between yourselves setting out the basics of how the arrangement is going to work - it doesn't have to be anything complicated, just enough to give you both peace of mind and provide backup should it be needed.
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Re: Leasing & paying for me?
« Reply #7 on: 12 October 2018, 11:11:16 am »
Yeah I guess all ways have both pros and cons but I think the best for me in this situation is just to have his name on it. Thanks :) x

I wouldnt put your name on if he refuses to pay then your responsible.. just have a back up plan incase u have to leave. Its nice having someone pay ur bills  ;D i had this arrangement a few years ago with a client and it worked out very well but at the back of your mind also be preapred for the worse case scenario x

Amaliaxo

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Re: Leasing & paying for me?
« Reply #8 on: 12 October 2018, 12:11:18 pm »

To an extent it will depend on the tenancy.

If this is a property he is renting, rather than a property he owns then I would expect that the person on the tenancy agreement has to be the person that is living there. If he is not then he is effectively subletting to you - regardless of who's paying - which is normally not allowed and therefore the actual landlord could throw you out at any time for breach. Of course as long as they're being paid in full and on time they may not care to do so, but it could cause issues if there's ever any problems with the property since you'll have invalidated the lease from day one.

I would strongly advise both you and him to read and understand the lease very carefully before reaching a decision and in any case have a separate, written agreement between yourselves setting out the basics of how the arrangement is going to work - it doesn't have to be anything complicated, just enough to give you both peace of mind and provide backup should it be needed.

Ohh okay that might be a problem then, something to check over for thank you! Xx

I wouldnt put your name on if he refuses to pay then your responsible.. just have a back up plan incase u have to leave. Its nice having someone pay ur bills  ;D i had this arrangement a few years ago with a client and it worked out very well but at the back of your mind also be preapred for the worse case scenario x
Yeah and I can’t be dealing with that, I have a back up plan so hopefully should work out all good! Haha that’s what’s up girl! ;) Xx
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Re: Leasing & paying for me?
« Reply #9 on: 12 October 2018, 01:28:15 pm »
What does he want in return, in terms of your time, availability etc.? Will you be able to escort?
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Amaliaxo

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Re: Leasing & paying for me?
« Reply #10 on: 12 October 2018, 01:57:27 pm »
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Re: Leasing & paying for me?
« Reply #11 on: 12 October 2018, 04:10:10 pm »
we don’t have like set days and times to see eachother just whenever we’re both horny lol x

What happens when he's 'horny' and you're not?

Amaliaxo

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Re: Leasing & paying for me?
« Reply #12 on: 12 October 2018, 05:46:05 pm »
What happens when he's 'horny' and you're not?
Lol what kind of question is that?

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« Reply #13 on: 12 October 2018, 06:03:41 pm »
Lol what kind of question is that?

Sensible one. Good to give it a thought if you havnt questioned it yet. I personally think such an arrangement is not worth it where you have to service them whenever they are horny. But if you dont mind go for it. Better to have lease in his name imo.
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Amaliaxo

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Re: Leasing & paying for me?
« Reply #14 on: 12 October 2018, 06:12:09 pm »
Simple one. Good to give it a thought if you havnt questioned it yet. I personally think such an arrangement is not worth it where you have to service them whenever they are horny. But if you dont mind go for it. Better to have lease in his name imo.

Where in any of this have I said I HAVE to service him whenever he’s horny for this? We’re already involved, of course I don’t mind otherwise I wouldn’t be doing anything with him  :)