I find not snogging far more clinical and I don't like taking bookings where I don't kiss. On the rare ocassion that a client has refused kissing, I've wondered if I'm, you know... ugly or my breath smells lol. But I've learned ways out of getting out of the washing machine tongue action jobs that make it seem like I'm oh so driven with lust that my mouth and hands have to be on other parts of his body. I am always the first to initiate snogging - but I market myself as being a bit of a cocky sod with a swagger so its part of my character really. In my experience, I find that men are so used to being the 'aggressor' sexually that when the tables are turned and a woman is taking complete charge of the scene from the off, they tend to go along with whatever you want. Or maybe I just vet well/attract the type of clients best suited to me. YMMV. Sometimes I find that they want the genuine intimacy due to their own loneliness/other issues, and given I'm single, it doesn't feel much more different than snogging someone in a bar. Except I'm paid in pounds sterling, not vodka shots. Saying that though, I don't see anyone older than my dad as I just couldn't be ok with that. So I mostly spend my time snogging men in their forties - maybe if you added a generation on top my response would be different!