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Ana66

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Asking clients to keep their socks on
« on: 11 February 2022, 12:45:49 pm »
Hi everyone,

You might think my question is silly but I was wondering how you all deal with older people who have a nail fungus on their feet (also called onychomycosis). 
I had a client yesterday who had really bad toe nails (and to my surprise didn’t seem aware that he had fungus and hence didn’t treat them  :-\). I asked him to keep his socks (I was obviously freaked out) on and he became quite offended and said that my reaction was ridiculous. I mean seriously, how can people not be aware of this nail condition, which is actually fairly common, especially among older people (50+).
So how do you deal with the situation when it happens to you ? I guess many of you must know what I’m talking about. Do you turn the client down ? Do you ask them to keep their socks ? Or am I a bit too paranoid ? (I know that these kind of nail condition are contagious but quite unlikely to spread on dry surfaces)
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Re: Asking clients to keep their socks on
« Reply #1 on: 11 February 2022, 01:05:57 pm »
I advise the client to attend a doctor ASAP as it is something that can be very easily treated. As somebody who loves watching Doctor Pimplepopper and squeezing smelly spots from clients’ backs that would not bother me at all.
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Re: Asking clients to keep their socks on
« Reply #2 on: 11 February 2022, 01:07:47 pm »
Yes I've seen that a few times and yes, ask them to keep their socks on and suggest they visit their GP  ;D

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Re: Asking clients to keep their socks on
« Reply #3 on: 11 February 2022, 01:56:03 pm »
Psoriasis can affect the nails and looks very much like fungus, although isn't contageous. I would suggest they see a dr and then stay away from the feet. I hate feet anyway so this wouldn't be a problem for me (to stay away from them, I mean lol).

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Re: Asking clients to keep their socks on
« Reply #4 on: 11 February 2022, 02:07:03 pm »
Thanks for your reply, I know that psoriasis can affect the nail but I'm 99% sure that it was a proper fungus here.
Do you think I could catch it just by walking on the floor ? (where the client walked ?)
Shower is fine (I always wear flip flops in the shower anyway lol big paranoid here)

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Re: Asking clients to keep their socks on
« Reply #5 on: 11 February 2022, 04:36:45 pm »
Clients with surface disfiguration due to conditions are always too much for me. I will mostly likely block them. Clients who don't get none ignoreable conditions seen to or who spring them upon me get blocked.

For clients who like a shower I bake time for air drying into hospitality. I bought a pair of large navy blue shower flip flops for clients to wear after their shower. (Mine are pink size 7 so they're not wearing them!)

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Re: Asking clients to keep their socks on
« Reply #6 on: 11 February 2022, 06:03:05 pm »
I've no idea about the age element, but tea tree oil is the best cure for fungal nail infections. If I remember correctly, 3-4 drop (on big toe) once a day, and it should be sorted in as much time as it takes for the nail to grow out. Prbably 1 drop on each small toe.
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Re: Asking clients to keep their socks on
« Reply #7 on: 11 February 2022, 06:36:49 pm »
I managed to get a toe nail infection from god knows where, possibly the nail salon? I didn't even realise until I went to change my nail polish. I tried various otc remedies, nothing worked. Thankfully, it was during the first lockdown so while I couldn't see a GP, I was able to cut the nail as short as possible and it grew back, free from infection, by the time I started seeing clients again!

Anyway, Ana, I don't think you were being precious at all. I would have insisted on socks on. I would possibly add a note about this to my profile too. Given his reaction, I think he was just embarrassed by it, he was probably hoping you wouldn't notice it, let alone say anything about it.

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Re: Asking clients to keep their socks on
« Reply #8 on: 11 February 2022, 09:44:36 pm »
As you say, any age can have toe fungus, young atheletes, 'jocks' get too, sweaty trainers and socks kind of thing.

I am a bit disease phobic and would refuse to do the job once I saw his trotters. I'm not to know what it is safe or deadly. But I don't want to risk (non-sexual) infection from a client. (I'm at peace with my level of sexual risk choices by the way.)

I've been treated for nail fungus in many ways, I wouldn't go disrespect someone and stomp around in their place risking their well-being. You can pass it on. I wouldn't even want him stepping in my shower as this fungus loves a moist, warm environment. The risk is he showers, then treads on my carpet which infects me cause I'm barefooted as well. Or he showers then I have one, stepping in his fungal spores. No thanks.
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Re: Asking clients to keep their socks on
« Reply #9 on: 12 February 2022, 09:39:21 am »
Oh God. I did not realise it was contagious. I need that like a dose of crabs. Thankfully it’s a rare occurrence when l see that.
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Re: Asking clients to keep their socks on
« Reply #10 on: 12 February 2022, 09:51:40 am »
There is no excuse for these men a) to deal with these infectious issues plus b) warn us if they have them.

Men are too irresponsible sometimes if you ask me.

Reminds me of a client asking if he could visit me and warning me he has a catheter. Owing to my strong sense of smell I had to decline although he sounded like he thought I would accept it.

Another client recently wanted to visit and informed me he was too sick and disabled to work. I have every sympathy however as he did not bother to let me know what his health conditions were I declined him. Since I feared the worst. You would think he would at least mention what his afflictions actually are.

Perhaps they think we will see anybody irrespective!
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Re: Asking clients to keep their socks on
« Reply #11 on: 12 February 2022, 01:04:43 pm »
Oh God. I did not realise it was contagious. I need that like a dose of crabs. Thankfully it’s a rare occurrence when l see that.

Yay this is why we had footbaths in swimming pools. It's one of those fungal and viral infections that's easily passed on.

The government changed the anti fungal varnish treatment from - doctor prescription to 'easy' over the counter as  it was alarmed there was a long standing, 'nail fungus epidemic in the UK population'. It wanted folks to treat it quick and efficiently without having to clog up GP surgeries.

It's notoriously hard to get rid of an established infection as it hides under the nail bed and can take up to 6-12 months to budge with daily application.
Because it doesn't kill you many people assume it's 'normal', ignore it and live with the chronic infection....while merrily spreading it to others. Like the client in OP's post

* just saying those spores don't politely stay inside the client's socks, they're embedded in the fibres of unwashed socks. He could have turned them inside out, nicely shedding spores on your floor and shower. Their shoes are the mobile spore vehicle :)
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Re: Asking clients to keep their socks on
« Reply #12 on: 12 February 2022, 03:58:07 pm »
The trouble with e.g. nail fungus is you don't know until they take their socks off... So you either have to say something then and there, or grit your teeth and just not see them again.
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Re: Asking clients to keep their socks on
« Reply #13 on: 12 February 2022, 05:21:18 pm »
The trouble with e.g. nail fungus is you don't know until they take their socks off... So you either have to say something then and there, or grit your teeth and just not see them again.

Gritting my teeth and getting through the booking but not seeing them again if they ask, yup that is what I would do. Then when they are out of the door, washing and disinfecting everything to within an inch of its's life!

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Re: Asking clients to keep their socks on
« Reply #14 on: 12 February 2022, 07:01:26 pm »
Yes I agree with saltysweet, because this kind of condition doesn’t kill you, people ignore it and don’t care about spreading it everywhere (especially even more with escorts because guys think we are nothing so they care even less). Same with people who come with cold sores on the mouth, like wtf did they really think we wouldn’t see it. When this happens I turn people down straight away and tell them aggressively that their behavior is incredibly disrespectful to come knowing they have a health condition.

But next time if this kind of thing happens again with the nail fungus, I won’t even ask to wear socks, I’ll just turn people down straight away.