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Tickle

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Re: Asking clients to keep their socks on
« Reply #15 on: 13 February 2022, 02:33:04 am »
I'm glad I read this topic. It's yet another thing to watch out for.

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Re: Asking clients to keep their socks on
« Reply #16 on: 13 February 2022, 08:07:17 am »
I used to have a two hour regular with this complaint. He keep his socks on and never took a shower.. He just happened to mention it one time. If course he was doing nothing about it whatsoever.

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Re: Asking clients to keep their socks on
« Reply #17 on: 13 February 2022, 01:43:04 pm »
Its not just nail fungus (Tinea unguium-Latin for nails) they ignore...

I had quite a few professional, well dressed clients with 'jock rash' or 'scrote rot', which is exactly the same toe nail fungus with a slightly different name (Tinea cruris-Latin for leg) as it likes to live in the juicy, hot, damp, thigh, groin, and ass cheeks. It's red-raw like nappy rash and can bleed. They've had it for years and married...

These clients call it 'summer rash'- their trousers turn into a greenhouse for fungus in the hot months.
I've advised them to see a doc or get help from a chemist and they're totally disinterested-so banned.

Because it's not deadlly they just shrug their shoulders and expect me to put my hands and lips there.
I get out my huge stash of plastic gloves for HJ and tell them it's an infection so I won't touch it directly.
I think they're a bit disengaged from their bodies.
« Last Edit: 13 February 2022, 04:29:40 pm by saltysweet »

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Re: Asking clients to keep their socks on
« Reply #18 on: 13 February 2022, 04:21:09 pm »
Its not just nail fungus (Tinea unguium-Latin for nails) they ignore...

I had quite a few professional, well dressed clients with 'jock rash' or 'scrote rot', which is exactly the same toe nail fungus with a slightly different name (Tinea cruris-Latin for leg) as it likes to live in the juicy, hot, damp, thigh, groin, and ass cheeks. It's red-raw like nappy rash and can bleed. They've had it for years and married...

These clients call it 'summer rash'- their trousers turn into a greenhouse for fungus in the hot months.
I've advised them to see a doc or get help from a chemist and they're totally disinterested-so banned.

Because it's not deadlly they just shrug their shoulders and expect me to put my hands and lips there.
My box of 100 plastic gloves magically appears for HJ and I tell them it's an infection so I won't touch it directly.
I think they're a bit disengaged from their bodies.

Jesus! It only needs a few applications of clotrimazole cream to get rid of it as well (same active ingredient as in Canesten).
"There is no sin except stupidity" - Oscar Wilde

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Re: Asking clients to keep their socks on
« Reply #19 on: 13 February 2022, 04:30:27 pm »
Jesus! It only needs a few applications of clotrimazole cream to get rid of it as well (same active ingredient as in Canesten).

Yeah Kay I tell them that...they're bored with it already. I've even sent them a text link to the cream so they can show it to the chemist.
« Last Edit: 13 February 2022, 10:25:30 pm by saltysweet »

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Re: Asking clients to keep their socks on
« Reply #20 on: 13 February 2022, 05:37:17 pm »
I think our occupation needs a special risk assessment form we can read out to clients before we see them lol.

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Re: Asking clients to keep their socks on
« Reply #21 on: 13 April 2022, 04:22:56 pm »
Hi everyone,

I need your opinion and advice on something that might sound weird for a lot of you but do you think asking clients to keep their socks on actually sounds unreasonable ?

I've been asking clients to keep their socks on for about a couple of months now (I now ask everyone without exception to avoid the awkward moment of feet inspection and where in case the client has bad feet saying "sorry your feet are bad, you need to keep your socks on/you need to go" lol ::) ::).

For those who are wondering, I made this decision because I've seen too many people in the past who had very bad feet/toe nails with contagious condition such as onychomycosis, pseudonomas, chloronychia, obvious verrucas, athlete foot or this kind (I pay a lot of attention to this). I'm very aware of any kind of health/skin condition as I'm very paranoid and always scared of catching something so I'm ultra careful and anxious.
That's why it seemed sensible for me to ask clients to keep their socks on in order for me to have more peace of mind + avoiding myself to worry to much afterwards.

However, I've noticed that when I've been asking this, some people make a weird face and ask why is that (some of them even get offended sometimes) so I explain them and even if in most of the cases it's not an issue, I've noticed a decline of people coming back to see me another time. I have no idea if it's related to this and that I might sound a bit too "clinical" for some (or it's just the fact that it's a bit quiet at the moment in general for everyone), that's why I wanted your opinion about this thing.

Do you think I should keep doing this in the future ? Or should I approach this case by case ? : I don't say anything about socks but if after looking at their feet I notice something wrong I ask them to keep their socks on ? What do you think ?

Thanks for your help
« Last Edit: 13 April 2022, 04:29:03 pm by Ana66 »

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Re: Asking clients to keep their socks on
« Reply #22 on: 13 April 2022, 05:17:45 pm »
Understandably, clients do not like criticism of their appearance or hygiene, so yes, this might well be why some have declined to return irregardless of the condition of their feet.

I do not think it is unreasonable to ask clients to keep their socks onl, however, do you stipulate this on your AW profile? If you do not, I implore you to add it so potential new clients will know they need to keep their socks on (and why you insist on this) prior to contacting you. I would then treat each client individually and decide on a case by case basis about whether they need to keep their socks on. However, at least they will be forewarned.

I must ask, how much contact do you really have with client’s feet? I don’t think I have so much as come into contact with any of my clients feet. In terms of catching most of the things you have listed, I think the probability is very small and you are being overly anxious for no real reason. If verrucas are a concern, provide a pair or pairs of plastic slides for the client to wear in the shower and disinfect them after each booking and again overnight.
« Last Edit: 13 April 2022, 05:19:52 pm by Miffy »

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Re: Asking clients to keep their socks on
« Reply #23 on: 13 April 2022, 05:22:16 pm »
I normally treat clients on case by case. Have had a few with quite disgusting feet so stayed away from those, but generally I think it reflects badly if you treat everyone based on your worse experience. The same way I had very untidy/not at all groomed clients I've also had some lovely ones. I normally make more of an effort with those lovely ones as a negative experience for them means they might not return.

I understand you might be scared of offending "undesireables", but in my view are those the clients you want to keep coming back?

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Re: Asking clients to keep their socks on
« Reply #24 on: 13 April 2022, 05:30:14 pm »
Merged with the previous thread

fallen angel

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Re: Asking clients to keep their socks on
« Reply #25 on: 13 April 2022, 07:56:21 pm »
I take it on a case by case basis, many want to leave thier socks on, especially in winter but I do think a lot of clients would think it odd if I insisted upon it.
Worst case I ever saw was a guy who's nails were like long, black corkscrews. I didn't notice on his first booking but his second visit when doing reverse cowgirl I spotted them and almost heaved!
I can't believe that he had happily taken his socks off knowing what they were like so clearly wasn't embarrassed about them at all.
I said nothing at the time but when he asked for another booking I said I could not accept and told him why and suggested he get them treated.

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Re: Asking clients to keep their socks on
« Reply #26 on: 15 April 2022, 09:39:05 am »
Thank you, I've now mentioned it on my AW profile so hopefully people will read that and expect it.  :)

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Re: Asking clients to keep their socks on
« Reply #27 on: 15 April 2022, 03:14:24 pm »

I can't believe that he had happily taken his socks off knowing what they were like so clearly wasn't embarrassed about them at all.

He probably didn't think he had any reason to be embarassed when he was paying for a professional service - he likely assumed he wasn't also paying to be judged. And he obviously enjoyed himself enough to want to come back :)

I can't honestly say I ever notice their feet and I don't especially want sock fluff all over my carpet either. I wouldn't dream of telling punters they had to wear X, Y or Z, but like other posters I would think it was very odd and I wouldn't return - if you're extremely concerned about your own feet could you maybe wear those verruca socks and higher denier stockings over them? Or use throw rugs that you can put in the washing machine every day - I have cotton rugs in the hallway and bathroom which are easy to wash :)


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Re: Asking clients to keep their socks on
« Reply #28 on: 15 April 2022, 05:26:34 pm »
He probably didn't think he had any reason to be embarassed when he was paying for a professional service - he likely assumed he wasn't also paying to be judged. And he obviously enjoyed himself enough to want to come back :)

Yes strangely some guys do seem to think that just because they are paying for an escort service that means it shouldn't be a problem if their personal hygiene is lacking, not an opinion I share.
Not sure what you mean by judged? I can't think of anyone with an ounce of self awareness who would happily show their feet in public if their toenails were so overgrown that they had started to twist and curl like a corksrew and were totally black with fungal infection.
I'm pretty sure anyone being confronted with that sight would be freaked out.
As I said, I didn't embarrass him in the session by commenting on them but I do reserve the right, like any of us are entitled to do, to not accept further bookings if I have concerns that someone has a contagious condition.
I don't consider that to be judgy behaviour in the way you implied.


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Re: Asking clients to keep their socks on
« Reply #29 on: 15 April 2022, 07:46:46 pm »
Having overgrown toenails (which could be black for any number of reasons) doesn't affect the booking in the same way as being unclean or smelly or having rotten teeth does though, or at least I can't see how it would - I've not had to deal with any of the above beyond the occasional manly armpit for a long time. I suppose they could get snagged in the bedding.

Either way nobody who is paying any service provider has any reason to feel embarrassed about their bodies and that was the part of the post which sounded judgemental whether or not it was intentional - maybe he has difficulty cutting his toenails and can't afford/access a chiropodist, or maybe he just doesn't give a shit? What has 'self awareness' got to do with anything - I don't give a ratfuck what anyone thinks of the way I look when I go out in public, and if my appearance offends somebody they're more than able to swivel their eyeballs in a different direction and look at something else?

Where are all these people with foot problems? I had the odd verruca when I was school age and athletes foot once when I had to wear shit synthetic shoes at a retail job thirty years or so ago, and that's about it - I honestly can't recall ever seeing any of this on a punter. I know that doesn't mean there hasn't been any, just that it would never occur to me to look. Mostly because I'm not a farmer sizing them up at a cattle market.