I kinda did I wanted to have him as security buddy but he starts pissing me off cause he also asks me for sex  (paying) and also made some sexual comments

Don't get me wrong it's just different when a stranger looks like at u like piece of meat vs a "friend" if u get my drift

Besides I sorta feel he should not be actually asking me for meeting, I thought he understood that, now that we r working together

Am I shady

Call me cynical, but I no longer differentiate between ’friends’ and ‘strangers’, but just ‘men’. Always an agenda where women are concerned. Sounds like he’s about to run the loverboy method on you.