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Lady_Lust_XXX

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Re: Dating when you are an escort?
« Reply #15 on: 29 June 2013, 01:38:48 pm »

It shouldn't be the person's job that makes-or-breaks a relationship but the fact they are genuine and honest with you and you're both comfortable with each other.  It's a pity some guys can't understand this.

IMO it is not the job that makes or breaks the relationship.  It is a persons insecurities and jealousies that do that.
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Re: Dating when you are an escort?
« Reply #16 on: 29 June 2013, 06:42:08 pm »
I so agree Nobody interesting. Just date guys and tell them nothing! Remember it's a job and we don't like the sex with the guys, it's not a loving relationship.  Go for it, we all need luuuurve! I'm back on the dating scene and loving it! x

Hmm,I actually love the sex with many of my clients! But its the love part i miss

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Re: Dating when you are an escort?
« Reply #17 on: 29 June 2013, 06:44:06 pm »
I've found kink events and munches (when kinky people meet in a vanilla, newbie friendly cafe) are an okay way to meet people. No one is that surprised when you say you're an escort and it's how I met my current boyfriend.
This is an interesting idea..i am submissive so have men "dom" type men before for fun from online sites,maybe a nice idea to try a munch.(although i am concerned they will be nerdy comic readers with long matrix trench coats on!!)

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Re: Dating when you are an escort?
« Reply #18 on: 29 June 2013, 06:45:13 pm »
Have you thought about maybe meeting a guy who works in the industry (directly or indirectly) e.g. a photographer or male performer?  These guys may understand the demands and practices of this job more than the average-Joe.

It shouldn't be the person's job that makes-or-breaks a relationship but the fact they are genuine and honest with you and you're both comfortable with each other.  It's a pity some guys can't understand this.

Jjay..that sort of person sounds ideal to be honest,but its where i meet them??
Could really do with a sex industry dating site/event!!

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Re: Dating when you are an escort?
« Reply #19 on: 29 June 2013, 06:47:45 pm »
I dont think i could date a client,maybe have a free fuck buddy type thing if he was great in bed and we had chemistry,but not for a full relationship..it would be just too weird a beginning!
I'd always worry he'd be visiting other girls too!

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Re: Dating when you are an escort?
« Reply #20 on: 30 June 2013, 10:40:29 pm »
I dont think i could date a client,maybe have a free fuck buddy type thing if he was great in bed and we had chemistry,but not for a full relationship..it would be just too weird a beginning!
I'd always worry he'd be visiting other girls too!


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