I know there are some horrible people who pay for sex and the like but I just want to say during the 7 years I've been doing this it's those men who have been the most decent to me.

I never, ever meet any decent men in civvy land 

It's just hit me hard this year as I have been so messed about by scrotes who are pathetic excuses for men.

Anyone else find that those who are decent always pay?

I can't see me ever stopping this to be honest. I'll still be doing what I'm doing at 90 

Lol, true ... that's what I mean - rather get paid for my time than used 

I completely agree! Men in civvie land always say they like how I'm a strong, independent and outspoken woman, then that's exactly why they end up being twats in the end because they realise they're not needed. Civvie men are largely full of bs to try and get a shag. I've considered sending invoices to previous dates. I love the client-escort relationship. It's honest and we both always know the boundaries and where we stand. I can't be arsed with mind fuck games like 'keeping her on her toes' crap 

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Noticed the same thing, but I think their good behaviour is influenced by the fact that this is a “fake” scenario where they know that to get a “good time” they need to behave well as well as that because it’s a business transaction, they know they have to behave with basic respect  and can’t manipulate you into anything. They’re fully aware that we owe them nothing and can block them for any disrespect. The entitlement is also far lower than what I see in civvy men, and what I’ve recently noticed in a civvy woman’s adventures on “normal” hookup sites.

Last week I had some bookings with clients/punters who would never step over the mark, turn up, round up, don't push to overstay (some leave within or bang on time), brought me lovely presents because they like to do that. A content customer sent me a random out of the blue £20 gift card, another sent me something from my Amazon wishlist, that item is likely to be worn at our next booking.

I have had some pretty low quality contact, someone out there is playing me for an idiot - which is upsetting. In the last 2 weeks I have spent time, taken opportunity to have what I call a clear out. Made it clear to a few who have been disrespectful that because of the way they behave when making arrangements I am no longer able to provide a service for them. I feel much better, and they know they can either book me properly,(and politely) or not at all. I have a choice and they have a choice. Before I told them why I could not accept their booking, all of them said they enjoyed their bookings with me.

It's all in the mix and I want to stick with those who can make a sensible booking, go ahead without fuss or faff.

None of the men I go out on so called dates with know about my job. I never really get that far with anyone for it to ever be in any danger of coming up.

I'm speaking in general terms as well.

I'm totally done with civvy dating and men, They have no use for me and actually just take up my time and mental energy for zero return. When I take a few weeks off I do get horny but then remember last time I met a hot date and had sex it was awful and I actually get better sex throiugh my clients.

Earning well enough to be independent and pay guys to fix stuff I can't is better than having one take up space on my sofa and stink out my bathroom.

And I'm a total romantic at heart and would live a partner but it's just not happened in 9 years and I'm not going to search for it. I do get lovely clients and compliments daily and seen to.

100%.


Also to see that clients treat you better than so called normal guys who are supposed to be a boyfriend. Fuck it.