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Gypsy

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Thank God for Clients!
« on: 11 August 2022, 10:23:50 pm »
I know there are some horrible people who pay for sex and the like but I just want to say during the 7 years I've been doing this it's those men who have been the most decent to me.

I never, ever meet any decent men in civvy land  :'(

It's just hit me hard this year as I have been so messed about by scrotes who are pathetic excuses for men.

Anyone else find that those who are decent always pay?

I can't see me ever stopping this to be honest. I'll still be doing what I'm doing at 90  ;D
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English Green

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Re: Thank God for Clients!
« Reply #1 on: 11 August 2022, 10:31:44 pm »
No not really there is bad and good on both sides whether they pay or not. Remember the guys that are paying are leaving so you do not really know them and a lot are married and very happily cheating away. Saw a guy recently that had about 130 feedback and said seen around 400 women but still gets regular sex off wife. Imagine being with that bloke no thanks i would rather stick slugs to my eyes and nose.

Non paying men could really be paying men on the quiet haha

Gypsy

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« Reply #2 on: 11 August 2022, 10:52:37 pm »
Lol, true ... that's what I mean - rather get paid for my time than used  ::)
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Re: Thank God for Clients!
« Reply #3 on: 12 August 2022, 12:22:03 am »
I semi agree, but TBH I don't think there's much difference in the behaviour of men just because they are or aren't punters: some are lovely, some are twats.
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« Reply #4 on: 12 August 2022, 12:55:56 am »
I completely agree! Men in civvie land always say they like how I'm a strong, independent and outspoken woman, then that's exactly why they end up being twats in the end because they realise they're not needed. Civvie men are largely full of bs to try and get a shag. I've considered sending invoices to previous dates. I love the client-escort relationship. It's honest and we both always know the boundaries and where we stand. I can't be arsed with mind fuck games like 'keeping her on her toes' crap  ::)

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« Reply #5 on: 12 August 2022, 08:38:09 am »
I've got some lovely clients. One in particular always remembers my birthday and such a thoughtful person in general. He's single too and never married.

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« Reply #6 on: 12 August 2022, 05:16:42 pm »
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« Last Edit: 12 August 2022, 08:16:47 pm by Kiss »

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Re: Thank God for Clients!
« Reply #7 on: 12 August 2022, 05:40:03 pm »
I semi agree, but TBH I don't think there's much difference in the behaviour of men just because they are or aren't punters: some are lovely, some are twats.

Fully agree some of the tactics I have encountered have been already tried long before I decided to charge, also I discovered just as much rudeness on dating and adult friend finder websites when I tried. There are some amazing human beings out there, not least many of them punters & clients.

Those who never, ever cancel - or perhaps once in ten years of monthly visits.
Never ever chat too much by text/email/phone calls between bookings.
Make a booking in a short phone call or couple of specific texts/emails.
Go ahead without fuss, have a good time finish on time and wander off or wave goodbye very happy
Some bring presents, or give tips but generally first 4 is more than enough.



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« Reply #8 on: 25 August 2022, 08:27:28 am »
Noticed the same thing, but I think their good behaviour is influenced by the fact that this is a “fake” scenario where they know that to get a “good time” they need to behave well as well as that because it’s a business transaction, they know they have to behave with basic respect  and can’t manipulate you into anything. They’re fully aware that we owe them nothing and can block them for any disrespect. The entitlement is also far lower than what I see in civvy men, and what I’ve recently noticed in a civvy woman’s adventures on “normal” hookup sites.
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« Reply #9 on: 27 August 2022, 04:04:59 pm »
It's such a nightmare. I think you get good, bad, and indifferent with everything whether it's sex work, dating, or civilian life and work. If it's not politics it's the office politics of things or even just people being people. I haven't been doing much sex work lately but have been noticing how some men are so much nicer than others. Then again they could just be having a bad day.

I've certainly gone through patches where I felt I was being treated ten times better by clients than I was by civvy men including so-called professional men who should have known better.

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« Reply #10 on: 31 August 2022, 02:03:45 pm »
Last week I had some bookings with clients/punters who would never step over the mark, turn up, round up, don't push to overstay (some leave within or bang on time), brought me lovely presents because they like to do that. A content customer sent me a random out of the blue £20 gift card, another sent me something from my Amazon wishlist, that item is likely to be worn at our next booking.

I have had some pretty low quality contact, someone out there is playing me for an idiot - which is upsetting. In the last 2 weeks I have spent time, taken opportunity to have what I call a clear out. Made it clear to a few who have been disrespectful that because of the way they behave when making arrangements I am no longer able to provide a service for them. I feel much better, and they know they can either book me properly,(and politely) or not at all. I have a choice and they have a choice. Before I told them why I could not accept their booking, all of them said they enjoyed their bookings with me.

It's all in the mix and I want to stick with those who can make a sensible booking, go ahead without fuss or faff.

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« Reply #11 on: 03 September 2022, 09:31:17 am »
I know there are some horrible people who pay for sex and the like but I just want to say during the 7 years I've been doing this it's those men who have been the most decent to me.

I never, ever meet any decent men in civvy land  :'(

It's just hit me hard this year as I have been so messed about by scrotes who are pathetic excuses for men.

Anyone else find that those who are decent always pay?

I can't see me ever stopping this to be honest. I'll still be doing what I'm doing at 90  ;D


Are you dating with guys who dont know about your profession or you are just talking about any kind of interaction with men anywhere?

Gypsy

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« Reply #12 on: 03 September 2022, 08:26:12 pm »
None of the men I go out on so called dates with know about my job. I never really get that far with anyone for it to ever be in any danger of coming up.

I'm speaking in general terms as well.
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« Reply #13 on: 06 September 2022, 03:40:33 pm »
I'm totally done with civvy dating and men, They have no use for me and actually just take up my time and mental energy for zero return. When I take a few weeks off I do get horny but then remember last time I met a hot date and had sex it was awful and I actually get better sex throiugh my clients.

Earning well enough to be independent and pay guys to fix stuff I can't is better than having one take up space on my sofa and stink out my bathroom.

And I'm a total romantic at heart and would live a partner but it's just not happened in 9 years and I'm not going to search for it. I do get lovely clients and compliments daily and seen to.


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Re: Thank God for Clients!
« Reply #14 on: 11 September 2022, 11:05:05 am »
I'm totally done with civvy dating and men, They have no use for me and actually just take up my time and mental energy for zero return. When I take a few weeks off I do get horny but then remember last time I met a hot date and had sex it was awful and I actually get better sex throiugh my clients.

Earning well enough to be independent and pay guys to fix stuff I can't is better than having one take up space on my sofa and stink out my bathroom.

And I'm a total romantic at heart and would live a partner but it's just not happened in 9 years and I'm not going to search for it. I do get lovely clients and compliments daily and seen to.


100%.


Also to see that clients treat you better than so called normal guys who are supposed to be a boyfriend. Fuck it.