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So I'm curious as to what you girls think of sugar daddy/baby arrangements... for me personally., I started escorting after having a few of these and working out that, for less stress and double what I made being a 'sugar baby' I could escort, without the drama of one guy. The reason I ask is because when I WAS doing the seeking arrangement thing, I had this one specific guy try to start something with me and due to him thinking he could ask me to cancel my plans for him, I decided it wasn't worth it. 6 months later and he comes to me for an escort booking (not sure if he remembered me) and he then asks if I'd like an arrangement. He offers me ?1200 a month to meet twice a week, a few hours each time, and I politely decline, saying that for this amount I would only see him for two hours a week. He then says he 'doesn't want an escort type arrangement', to which I say, well I'm sorry but I am an escort, and although I deliver a great GFE, I'm not taking a cut on my hourly rate, I'm regularly fully booked and don't need an arrangement to give me regular work. He then starts the whole 'yeah but don't you want to do something a bit less self degrading, you're more safe seeing the same guy every week, blah blah'. I tell him I have a selection of regulars who I absolutely love seeing, I love my job and I have some great (albeit professional) relationships, and that my regulars even buy me birthday gifts and bring me things, just because. He replies 'lol, bringing a hooker a birthday gift' or something to that effect. I tell him that sugar babies ARE sex workers, they're effectively escorts., and whether in an arrangement or using an escort, he's still paying for the services of a sex worker.
What's your opinion on this? Apart from that the guys a dick obviously, who needless to say I've blocked and it's water off a ducks back.... but it got me thinking, how many girls are doing the arrangement thing and taking a 50% pay cut because they've got it in their head it's better in some way, shape or form? [off topic content redacted].