See also the main SAAFE.info site for more Support And Advice For Escorts

Author Topic: Sugar Daddies & related arrangements  (Read 135182 times)

Liverbird

  • Sr. Member
  • ****
  • Posts: 305
  • Shine on you crazy diamond...
Re: Sugar Daddies & related arrangements
« Reply #90 on: 17 December 2011, 01:44:30 am »
Was chatting with a fellow WG today. She told me that she's been a member of Sugardaddie.com  for over a year and has managed to get a few 'overnighters' with the guys on there. Seems she's made a pretty good income from these arrangements on a regular basis.
Would be interested to know, has  anyone on here had a similar positive experience on this or similar sites?

Cheers,
Wiley.xx

Kiko

  • Full Member
  • ***
  • Posts: 185
Re: Sugar Daddies & related arrangements
« Reply #91 on: 17 December 2011, 02:22:57 pm »
I joined that site many years ago... It was terrible! Guys were just looking for free sex! And since you cant mention anything about exchange of money on your profile... Or actually you cant mention anything about money on your profile, its like a cheap dating site. And the registration fees werent cheap... Do you really want to pay x-amount of money every month just to read the ramblings of some cheap douchebag men?
I'd say your friend is very lucky...
Infact, i eventually got banned from it after some douchebag flagged me for abuse! He insulted me because i turned him down. My natural reaction back then was to insult back! And the folks at sugardaddie took the mans side... Just like adultwork... Its simple to get us escorts kicked off but damn near impossible to get the timewasting males kicked off...
I am not selling sex! I'm selling condoms with free demonstration!

Holly T

  • Full Member
  • ***
  • Posts: 177
Re: Sugar Daddies & related arrangements
« Reply #92 on: 17 December 2011, 03:28:54 pm »
I've used that site, but no longer.  It was a complete waste of time for me.

After having a previous relationship with a rich man I thought it might be an idea to give it a go.  From previous experience I seemed to equate success with togetherness - not as a human bank account.  Wasn't looking for someone to give me money at the time, yet after each date I was handed a small amount of money as a thank you.

I met several wealthy men from there.

One is currently stalking me from afar with regular e-mails telling that he fell in love with me after one dinner.  He deposits money into a bank account on a regular basis even though I've told him to stop, and I haven't touched that money with the intentions of withdrawing it and putting it through his letter box next time I'm in the area.

Another lives abroad but spends half his time in the UK for business and to see his children.  I did spend one night with him where he constantly begged me for anal sex and I'm just like, "No, get a grip or a hooker" lol.  He gave me ?40 for my taxi fare home.

And then there's the white man.  He wears white shoes, white jackets, drives a white car, hates that I didn't wear white on our date.  He wanted me to lie about my age, making me several years older to be the same age his ex wife was and wanted me to dress like his ex wife.  That was the last straw and I deactivated my profile... After taking the ?400 that he thrust into my hand the last time I saw him.

Needless to say I no longer think that successful men are very together emotionally.  And on that site they seem to either be looking for free sex or someone they can buy.  Which is fair enough, but that's not what I was looking for after being in a relationship where I had my own money and we both had the disposable income where if on a whim we felt like catching a flight to London so that we could see an exhibition or a show we did.

At the same time I was on SD, I also registered on POF... seems to me just a bunch of people looking for a string of one night stands, all at no cost to them.  Although I met someone semi-famous through POF who is an absolute gentleman, and we still meet up to go for coffee or the theatre occasionally.

So after all that rambling, just my personal opinion of dating sites is that they're not all that good to use for work.... unless your overnight rate is ?300-400.

Friday

  • Sr. Member
  • ****
  • Posts: 989
Re: Sugar Daddies & related arrangements
« Reply #93 on: 17 December 2011, 09:15:58 pm »
I was on it, total waste of time..I haven't even had freebie hunters! lol  ::)

Liverbird

  • Sr. Member
  • ****
  • Posts: 305
  • Shine on you crazy diamond...
Re: Sugar Daddies & related arrangements
« Reply #94 on: 18 December 2011, 01:36:42 am »
Thank you ladies for your nuggets of wisdom regarding my enquiry.
Always great advice... helping to put it all into perspective, no matter what the problem!
I have to admit, it did sound a bit too good to be true!
But after reading your comments, it makes sense that most affluent guys who genuinly seek a younger lady to spoil, don't need to go on a shady site like that! Won't be bothering with that waste of time then :D
Cheers!
Wiley.xx

amy

  • Administrator
  • Sr. Member
  • *****
  • Posts: 15,824
Re: Sugar Daddies & related arrangements
« Reply #95 on: 18 December 2011, 01:41:40 am »
Wiley if you want to read more still, typing 'sugardaddy' into the Search box came up with a lot of previous threads when I just tried it, although the general consensus has pretty much always been that honest whoring is far more straightforward than twatting about like this with the punter-but-in-denial mob.

Liverbird

  • Sr. Member
  • ****
  • Posts: 305
  • Shine on you crazy diamond...
Re: Sugar Daddies & related arrangements
« Reply #96 on: 18 December 2011, 01:50:51 am »
Agreed Amy! Always worth an ask tho' eh?
Curiosity killed the cat;-)... that's me...
Wiley.xx

ladyjennaj

  • Sr. Member
  • ****
  • Posts: 688
Re: Sugar Daddies & related arrangements
« Reply #97 on: 18 December 2011, 10:34:37 pm »
I had mixed experiences with that site. I got 4 overnights out of it, at a paying rate of ?1500, and had a few 2 hour bookings here and there, but it was alot of hard work and ego-massaging...
 :-\

Cheryl

  • Full Member
  • ***
  • Posts: 172
Re: Sugar Daddies & related arrangements
« Reply #98 on: 19 December 2011, 02:57:18 am »
its a load of crap. My membership runs out on the 28th and i haven't had not one successful dinner date much less any money! All fools trying to find love on a site called sugardaddie. go figure.

Liverbird

  • Sr. Member
  • ****
  • Posts: 305
  • Shine on you crazy diamond...
Re: Sugar Daddies & related arrangements
« Reply #99 on: 19 December 2011, 11:03:19 pm »
Well done Ladyjennaj! That's pretty good money you made my friend! Maybe there's a knack to the whole 'Sugardaddie' thing?? It seems like a game of 'patience' to me! As you mentioned, lots of  ego-massage to get the ????'s! You should be well pround of yourself for getting one over on the rich and self-indulgent of the male species!!
Cheryl, I think maybe like me, you are 'not' a massager of ego's;-)...
..I suppose we all have our forte's and must stick to what we know we're good at!
Cheers,
Wiley.xx

ladyjennaj

  • Sr. Member
  • ****
  • Posts: 688
Re: Sugar Daddies & related arrangements
« Reply #100 on: 19 December 2011, 11:51:21 pm »
Thanks huney  :-* It took ALOT of patience...!

Liverbird

  • Sr. Member
  • ****
  • Posts: 305
  • Shine on you crazy diamond...
Re: Sugar Daddies & related arrangements
« Reply #101 on: 20 December 2011, 12:09:55 am »
You're most welcome... respect :)
xx

Nikkita

  • Guest
Re: Sugar Daddies & related arrangements
« Reply #102 on: 20 December 2011, 05:15:01 pm »
 there is another site called SA which  have some genuine verfied "sugar daddys" lol  and I met a couple of guys of there and they were OK  but I guess you  need to have alot of patience  as you do attract alot of freebie hunters and just general timewasters/ fantasists xx

joanna1

  • Full Member
  • ***
  • Posts: 120
Re: Sugar Daddies & related arrangements
« Reply #103 on: 07 June 2012, 12:03:16 am »
Hi all,

Has anyone had or got a sugardaddy? 

If so where did you find him?  Whats your arrangement with him and how did you come by/foster the arrangement?   If you've no longer got one why did it end? 

I used to have one but found it way too much hard work (constant texts, calls and neediness - was like minding a baby!) so I ended it to get my life back!  But just wondering how others find the arrangement?

Jo x



Sahrbear

  • Guest
Re: Sugar Daddies & related arrangements
« Reply #104 on: 07 June 2012, 11:24:58 am »
sugar daddies! ugh! So not worth it.

a) you have to lie about being an escort and if they ever found out they know a lot about you (or come to know a lot)
b) it's so much effort for what is in the end the same thing. They promise trips to overseas which is fine but then you're going to get a trip to Spain with him and spend a week with an old guy, having sex with him all the time and in the end you get a gucci handbag and a free but boring trip.

I did this for a while and it wasn't worth it. It took up a lot of time and in the end the pay was the same or slightly less but with really arrogant guys who thought i was their "girlfriend" and being a sugar mummy you have to act like a girlfriend. It's not like an escort client relationship where they know texting you ten times a day is a no-no.