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« Reply #270 on: 11 May 2015, 11:41:02 pm »
Well that lasted long - my account was deleted by admin!

I think my head was clouded with views of being showered with money and gifts from men but after a few messages and phone calls offering ?150 for a date with some very blurred lines I think I will stick with my rather fabulous escorting malarky. Set price, set time, set activities. Done.

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« Reply #271 on: 12 May 2015, 12:00:27 am »
Hi Chef, I don't know the reasons..but
I think they delete acounts if they get complaints from
'nieve members' and  if 'fake' pics are used.
My mate says...they check with reverse pic search.

She was banned from Ashley for using a stock photo.
So she made a new account from a new mobile phone.

I was banned from a dating site as I told the deluded men
who annoyed me with rude mails to fuck their mums.
I think they took offence.
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« Reply #272 on: 12 May 2015, 08:45:21 pm »
So how exactly should it work? Make them pay x amount in advance or pay by session like escort bookings? I am not really sure of the rules for this but it is another way to make bookings, both social and intimate, for an agreed price. Or do you go about it completely different to an escort booking?? Ie, no hourly rate?

Very confused :-S  surely these people should just book an escort?

Yes they should, but it's basically punters who don't want to admit they're punters punting prostitutes who don't want to call themselves prostitutes, and as tedious, time consuming and annoying as that sounds to those of us who are used to 'put up straightforward ad-phone call-booking-take money to bank', rinse and repeat.

Vagueness is the order of the day, just in case some poor lamb's delicate sensibilities are affronted despite the fact that it's a crap earner pro rata (stating 1 hour = ?X is far quicker) and the lack of boundaries means confusion reigns supreme when it comes to things like what they're actually getting for their money. Fuck that noise ;D.

And (following my mistake when merging the new posts in earlier) it's back in Off Topic where it belongs. If anybody else wants to quote five year old posts, can you please take the links out?

I don't mind calling myself a prostitute. Moreover, I think there are many different types of prostituting because peoples' situations are all different. There are other reasons that different types of scenarios work better for some women too. I don't think either that any woman who does any form of prostitution has a 'delicate sensibility' either. I would say that it takes somebody with some guts.


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« Reply #273 on: 12 May 2015, 08:47:52 pm »
So how exactly should it work? Make them pay x amount in advance or pay by session like escort bookings? I am not really sure of the rules for this but it is another way to make bookings, both social and intimate, for an agreed price. Or do you go about it completely different to an escort booking?? Ie, no hourly rate?

Very confused :-S  surely these people should just book an escort?

Yes they should, but it's basically punters who don't want to admit they're punters punting prostitutes who don't want to call themselves prostitutes, and as tedious, time consuming and annoying as that sounds to those of us who are used to 'put up straightforward ad-phone call-booking-take money to bank', rinse and repeat.

Vagueness is the order of the day, just in case some poor lamb's delicate sensibilities are affronted despite the fact that it's a crap earner pro rata (stating 1 hour = ?X is far quicker) and the lack of boundaries means confusion reigns supreme when it comes to things like what they're actually getting for their money. Fuck that noise ;D.

And (following my mistake when merging the new posts in earlier) it's back in Off Topic where it belongs. If anybody else wants to quote five year old posts, can you please take the links out?

I don't mind calling myself a prostitute. Moreover, I think there are many different types of prostituting because peoples' situations are all different. There are other reasons that different types of scenarios work better for some women too. I don't think either that any woman who does any form of prostitution has a 'delicate sensibility' either. I would say that it takes somebody with some guts.

PS I see that you meant the men with their 'delicate sensibilities', not the women, apologies.

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« Reply #274 on: 12 May 2015, 10:40:42 pm »
put the java script amazon wishlist module on your site (simple copy and paste of the html) Just call it a section for sugar daddies, or cash subs or when (mostly for regulars who want to get you somethign for birthday or xmas).

You get something now and again :) But don't expect thousand pound of gifts for a date.

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« Reply #275 on: 12 May 2015, 11:01:11 pm »
Oh but be aware, don't use the "amazon wishlist tool" where you put things from other sites other than amazon on your wishlist, as your address will show up to the buyer if you source your wants from elsewhere to put on the amazin wishlist.

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« Reply #276 on: 01 July 2015, 08:40:11 pm »
Wondered if anyone had experiences with sugar daddies and what websites they used.

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« Reply #277 on: 01 July 2015, 08:54:29 pm »
Sugardaddie.com and Seeking Arrangement used to be very good back in the days but there's more time wasters on there now looking for free dates and more in the name of "Lets meet and see if there's a connection". And this is me speaking from my experience on the 2 websites.
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« Reply #278 on: 01 July 2015, 09:10:17 pm »
I think sometimes you just accidentally get one without jumping on those sites. Blue moon occasion of course. I've had 2 in the 2 years of doing this. 1 good one that is my regular and one weirdo one that i kept around because he had a habit of crying over his insecurities and shoving money in my hands and in my drawers but I finally decided it's weird and taking advantage of a sad man so I don't see him anymore.

Sugar daddys arn't like clients, I follow a lot of girlies on tumblr who are sugar babies and by the sound of things you have to serioussllyy sift the time wasters  much more than within escorting or those who are looking for an escort relationship but don't realize there is a place online for that too.

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« Reply #279 on: 01 July 2015, 09:45:28 pm »
I thought there was at least one obvious thread to merge this with, but I can't find it.

The short version is that, yes, you get even more men after a freebie 'to see if you are worth my (imaginary) millions' and, yes, this is an area where boundaries about client behaviour can get seriously blurred. Their sense of entitlement can be massive...
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« Reply #280 on: 01 July 2015, 10:03:11 pm »
I thought there was at least one obvious thread to merge this with, but I can't find it.

The short version is that, yes, you get even more men after a freebie 'to see if you are worth my (imaginary) millions' and, yes, this is an area where boundaries about client behaviour can get seriously blurred. Their sense of entitlement can be massive...

In my experience, they start off nice and respectful and gradually become more demanding and entitled and basically, show their disgusting colours x

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« Reply #281 on: 02 July 2015, 12:08:56 am »
I thought there was at least one obvious thread to merge this with, but I can't find it.

Found it :).

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« Reply #282 on: 16 July 2015, 10:16:38 am »
I thought there was at least one obvious thread to merge this with, but I can't find it.

The short version is that, yes, you get even more men after a freebie 'to see if you are worth my (imaginary) millions' and, yes, this is an area where boundaries about client behaviour can get seriously blurred. Their sense of entitlement can be massive...

In my experience, they start off nice and respectful and gradually become more demanding and entitled and basically, show their disgusting colours x

I've seen a few ladies with this on their aw profile now. Does make me wonder if they get any requests...?

A lot of these guys are on the sociopath scale & have NDP - grandiosity, sense of entitlement, rewriting a script etc. Best avoided. Must be difficult to filter through to find a "genuine" one unless you've experienced cluster B types before & know what the red flags are. Speaking from experience I've dated a few of them unfortunately. At best will just leave you with a head f**k for months.  Probably best to stick to clients where you both know what to expect.

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« Reply #283 on: 16 July 2015, 11:14:24 pm »
With prostitution being legal in UK I do not see sugar relationships working out - both parties have an option of being/hiring an escort. While in U.S. It's illegal so I guess sugar relationships are the only way to legally receive sex for money

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« Reply #284 on: 20 July 2015, 03:19:59 pm »
Ashley was hacked today..search google
My GF is concerned as she uses it for occassional
meets and it may scare clients.
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