Quote from: DianaMurphy on 17 June 2012, 04:02:07 pm

Quote from: MissKylie on 17 June 2012, 02:01:26 pm

Quote from: Luvmylips on 17 June 2012, 01:49:21 pm

That is a good rate.  Let's hope he goes for it! Good luck.

Quote from: Arabella on 17 June 2012, 11:12:16 am

Ok ladies

I am in negotiations with a SD offered to meet only during the day (wifey at home) once  / twice a month.  I was thinking ?500 per date.  What do you think.

Ax

Yes it's good for her but it's still an expensive rate that's all I am saying. And with sugar daddies it's not about a 'rate' is it, it's a regular agreement/arrangement.

This is the key, the regular agreement/arrangement and the fact that you hope to be able to rely on a certain amount each month. The comparison between being an escort and a sugar babe only goes as far really as the fact you 'may' get paid for being intimate with the SD, this doesn't always have to be the case!

Yes exactly. And like I said I would be sure never to lose my independence either but it would be nice to just do longer appointments once or twice a week and overnights with the escorting and then have an arrangment with a SD. I think that would work very well for me. I could be even more selective about who I see which I would like and would probably enjoy it even more and still have a nice income. That sounds ideal to me. If it happened that is!

Good luck, it can work and you sound like you have your head in the right place to make it work. 

Thanks

Back to topic, which is the best site to use would most people say? Sugardaddie or seekingarrangment?

Try both Kylie 

There was an article about seekingarrangement I read earlier on...will try to dig it out for you later x

Quote from: DianaMurphy on 17 June 2012, 06:35:33 pm

Quote from: MissKylie on 17 June 2012, 06:29:41 pm

Thanks

Back to topic, which is the best site to use would most people say? Sugardaddie or seekingarrangment?

Try both Kylie 

I am! I have been on both for a year actually! But didn't log in for over 6months and only really putting in the effort to do it properly now. Just wondering which on is the most successful or attracts the best guys?

Look at it the same way as you do advertising as an escort, there will be different types of men in different areas of the country on both sites. Personally I had more joy with SA as that's more worldwide and a few of the good guys would search for girls when they were in a particular area for business etc.  but obviously they weren't long term arrangements.

What works for one girl might not work for another, the same as with escorting. Be prepared to put a lot of time and effort into it!!! My best SD (and the only 1 still around) I found on a totally different site, it was a site for finding rich guys though and it just turned into an SD/SB relationship. Give yourself set times to work the sites though and don't let it take over your life as it can be very frustrating!!

I'm sure one of the mods on here said on another post NEVER REVEAL YOUR TRUE ID TO ANYONE - and I've got to agree, you just don't know who you are dealing with.

If he was a true SD and wanted to take you abroad however I don't know how you would get round this one, maybe someone else knows, apart from getting the money from him to book your own flights.

Wish there were such things as Sugar Sons! I'm too old to have a SD. But if only there were young men wanting to support MILFS or GILFS lol

Wish there were such things as Sugar Sons! I'm too old to have a SD. But if only there were young men wanting to support MILFS or GILFS lol

Oh there are! LOL!

As for using your real name - difficult not to but you can keep it hidden. Pick a username and once you are happy with the SD then there will be a time when he might expect you to use it, but not all will. It's possible to accept bank transfers still without revealing your real name don't forget, even regular ones!

There are some SDs who get off on 'dating' escorts, I had a 20 something from Canberra who got off on trying to encourage me to do it, even to the extent of sending me money to set up a website! We never met... But there are lots more who would not entertain the idea. Think of it more as dating a married man rather than selling services, very, very different!!! Not all SDs are married either, other than to their job, a lot are very busy men who don't have time for a full time relationship but would love to build a relationship with a sugar babe.

I think you either say you're looking for a strict SD/SB relationship or a date pretty much. Although there are a lot of lonely men on there thinking they are going to find a hot young thing to spend the rest of their lives with lol. It's hard work. X