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Re: How not to book an escort,world championships!
« Reply #2775 on: 20 May 2012, 05:34:49 pm »
 I think (and obviously I can't speak for other people) that KBN meant that the appropriately professional way to deal with such people is to ignore them and not rise to their bait, which is what I would have done but only because I've better things to do thanwaste my time responding to them at all.

I don't see any mention of this man being dangerous or violent, or otherwise posing any sort of threat to women anywhere, so I don't she how she or anybody else can be expected to know this about the person under discussion when they haven't been told? Being a bit of an irritating pillock doesn't make him either.

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Re: How not to book an escort,world championships!
« Reply #2776 on: 20 May 2012, 05:42:47 pm »
I thought he would have popped up on the Timewasters board. He's certainly seems well known amongst several members as evident by their reaction when he was mentioned a page or so ago.

Normally I would just block someone but if, as one of the others mentioned, they repeatedly created new profiles to keep contacting them even after being blocked, I know I'd loose my temper and say something foul out of sheer irritation and to get them to back off.


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Re: How not to book an escort,world championships!
« Reply #2777 on: 20 May 2012, 06:02:27 pm »
Well I will admit that I've only read the last few posts as I'm on my phone, but people who just send silly emails don't belong on the timewasters board as they don't risk anybody's time being wasted - if he's actually made lots of bookings with no intention of keeping them, or if the emails were threatening or abusive that's different though.

Some saddo who wants to try and get his rocks off by writing to prostitutes (and is probably looking to elicit exactly the reaction he got) isn't worthy of any of our time IMO. And I would say that insulting them (or anybody else) only makes us look bad - I've snapped myself and I'm definitely not immune either, but I don't think it does any good.
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Re: How not to book an escort,world championships!
« Reply #2778 on: 20 May 2012, 07:29:46 pm »
So if it was known someone was rude, abusive, violent to other escorts, you'd ignore all of that and deal with him on a one to one basis?

We might as well get rid of the dangerous clients and timewasters board then!

There's only so many times you can be patient with someone.

That's the question, if. Nobody throughout has mentioned that the timewaster was either rude or violent, so that point is moot. If the person in question is from AW then you report him to them and let them take it from there. They can ban his IP address to prevent him from creating further profiles.  If he does become rude, abusive or aggressive, then you put up a warning in the timewasters part of the forum alerting other ladies so they'll know what to expect if they ever have to deal with this person.

If nothing else as Amy says he probably does get off on the abuse, which is why he sends the pics in the first place, in which case you're expending your energy for nothing but his titillation. That would piss me off because I'd be rising to his bait and I'd refuse to give him that satisfaction.

Believe me I've had enough reasons to verbally abuse timewasters myself over the years, I've dealt with enough of them to last me in this lifetime and the next.
 
Apologies to other board members for taking this off-topic. I've said my piece.

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Re: How not to book an escort,world championships!
« Reply #2779 on: 21 May 2012, 01:53:09 am »
That's not brave, that's just mean. Shows a total lack of sympathy and empathy (not to mention basic respect), which, as a professional is something we should have. If you can't manage that, you're in the wrong job.
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Re: How not to book an escort,world championships!
« Reply #2780 on: 21 May 2012, 04:11:38 pm »

I have also had the smallest cock in the world man. I just told him I couldn't see it and he must be confused and actually be a girl ;D


^^^^ kinda not an ok thing to say in my opinion, to anyone ever. (unless it's a consensual kink).

Being a trans male person I find that comment a bit...off, to be frank.

In other news, I got a message today from a man who seemed to be planning on flying all the way from newcastle to Berlin! shame I deleted it, he sounded so keen  ::)

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Re: How not to book an escort,world championships!
« Reply #2781 on: 21 May 2012, 04:24:10 pm »

I have also had the smallest cock in the world man. I just told him I couldn't see it and he must be confused and actually be a girl ;D


^^^^ kinda not an ok thing to say in my opinion, to anyone ever. (unless it's a consensual kink).

Being a trans male person I find that comment a bit...off, to be frank.

In other news, I got a message today from a man who seemed to be planning on flying all the way from newcastle to Berlin! shame I deleted it, he sounded so keen  ::)

I agree I wouldn't say anything like that to someone regarding the size of their cock, but when they make a point of telling you everything about their penis - how large or small it is its hard not to return some negative comment which is what the op was doing I think?
Personally I hate guys going on constantly about cock size, even if its mine which they're talking about as its just so frigging tedious really, do they reckon sex and the amount of sexual enjoyment possible is all about the size of their members? Their views seem completely off the mark and if they aren't trying to repulse me they certainly succeed unwittingly!

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Re: How not to book an escort,world championships!
« Reply #2782 on: 22 May 2012, 12:30:57 pm »
"Good afternoon i hope your ok,
this is gonna seem different to most emails you get however, firstly i will say that i do understand your prices etc and fully appreicate that and they may be set prices.. but i have a offer for you...

im looking to go to ab fabs in heathrow (if you havent heard of it look it up online, its a swingers ) now as much as i wish i was loaded im not.... if i was then id pay you whatever you wanted thats for sure..

the offer is for you to come to the club with me i pay for entrance fee drinks well its take your own booze but id get us some, as well as 250 pound for yourself.. i will be stopping in a hotel so it would be up to you if you wanted to come back there after with me but thats your choice... so it would be a fun filled evening from 9 till 2am on fri 15th june
as i say i dont mean to cause offence from this email...

im a 30 year old good looking guy, slim athletic build and am able to send you some pics of me if you request not sure how we would do that but however you would like then id do it to prove im not some 67 year old minger"

Dear old AW! :)
 
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Yes, I'd risk it for a biscuit, as I said, you know me.

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Re: How not to book an escort,world championships!
« Reply #2783 on: 22 May 2012, 01:01:28 pm »
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im a 30 year old good looking guy, slim athletic build and am able to send you some pics of me if you request not sure how we would do that but however you would like then id do it to prove im not some 67 year old minger"

Hah! Why are these idiots so deluded as to believe that we'd happily accept less than a fraction of our fee because they're (apparently) young and hot, over a "67 year old minger" as he so eloquently puts it. What, a respectful older man that wouldn't dream of making such an insulting offer- heaven forbid!!

I really could not give a flying fig about what a gent looks like or how old he is so long as he's clean, respectful and pays up in full without a whimper.

Seriously..where do all these totally deluded ejits come from?
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Re: How not to book an escort,world championships!
« Reply #2784 on: 22 May 2012, 01:13:42 pm »
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im a 30 year old good looking guy, slim athletic build and am able to send you some pics of me if you request not sure how we would do that but however you would like then id do it to prove im not some 67 year old minger"

Hah! Why are these idiots so deluded as to believe that we'd happily accept less than a fraction of our fee because they're (apparently) young and hot, over a "67 year old minger" as he so eloquently puts it. What, a respectful older man that wouldn't dream of making such an insulting offer- heaven forbid!!

I really could not give a flying fig about what a gent looks like or how old he is so long as he's clean, respectful and pays up in full without a whimper.

Seriously..where do all these totally deluded ejits come from?
xx

It was the '67yo minger' bit that really made me chuckle, like that makes him superior just because he's younger, dream on sunshine. I am tempted to reply and explain that I'd happily choose a 67yo gentleman over a cocky cretin in his thirties, any day! But I'll just block, and forget.
Yes, I'd risk it for a biscuit, as I said, you know me.

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Re: How not to book an escort,world championships!
« Reply #2785 on: 22 May 2012, 01:51:46 pm »

Voicemail sent in the small hours of this morning:

'Hi my name's Dave and I'm a good looking guy give us a phone whenever you get this message'

Guess he didnt read the profile as regards making a booking and assumed I was after a date...Describing himself as 'good looking' wasn't a good start and how does that even come in to making a booking?! 'I'm polite respectful, genuine and punctual' might have been more relevant.

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Re: How not to book an escort,world championships!
« Reply #2786 on: 22 May 2012, 04:49:06 pm »
The need to tell you they are goodlooking and in the same breath describe someone as a minger presumably because of his age is enough to put you off. The 67 year old minger is probably someone I'd rather see as he isn't full of himself and cocky and would more likely have the correct fee I charge not try and fix one to suit their needs. Selfish self serving twat. ::)
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Re: How not to book an escort,world championships!
« Reply #2787 on: 22 May 2012, 05:33:03 pm »
This is my response to the young good looking, big cock guys........"You're body is just fine, but you'll have to put a big bag over that personality mate."

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Re: How not to book an escort,world championships!
« Reply #2788 on: 22 May 2012, 05:37:38 pm »

That's about right! The 'young good looking, big cock guys' they just don't seem to get how cheesey and tedious they come across.
I don't know if they watch too much porn or what but its the obsession with penis size and the need to drop it into their texts or phone calls that spoils it for them, they have such a one-dimensional view of sex!

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Re: How not to book an escort,world championships!
« Reply #2789 on: 22 May 2012, 05:47:57 pm »
I was watching Katherine Ryan on 8 out of 10 cats last night, and she said the last time she was on the show loads of people started following her on Twitter. Then she said...And guys, it's cute and all but us girls really don't like seeing pics of your cocks!