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Miffy

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Re: you get asked why are you single?
« Reply #15 on: 13 June 2022, 04:39:39 pm »
Yes, and it doesn’t bother me if clients ask me, after all, it’s my choice to answer it or not.

Kiss

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Re: you get asked why are you single?
« Reply #16 on: 13 June 2022, 04:57:25 pm »
When they are hard and ready to cum they say all sorts to me ..
Can I see you regularly ?
Can we go out ?
do you do overnights ?
After the eruptions over & they scuttle off out I  don't hear from them again !

MissElvira

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Re: you get asked why are you single?
« Reply #17 on: 14 June 2022, 01:52:26 pm »
Pet hate when guys ask why I'm single, And it's mostly from online dating guys or first dates. Do women ask men why they are single, No we don't because it's obvious they are big needy messy kids that no woman wants to look after and pander to lol

But if I guy ask during i booking i just say I'm too busy and leave it at that.

Missizzy

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Re: you get asked why are you single?
« Reply #18 on: 14 June 2022, 06:50:57 pm »
This is a pet hate of mine too, especially if they won't drop it like a dog with a bone.

Lady Frog

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Re: you get asked why are you single?
« Reply #19 on: 16 June 2022, 01:18:31 am »
other clients have assumed I have a boyfriend.

I don't think they really do assume this, but pretending they do is a lot of men's favourite chat up line. If they want to find out your relationship status in a subtle way.

"So does your boyfriend know you do this?" (or similar)

They want us to go "Oh! I don't have one! I'm single!!!!!!!" I doubt it works often but it's like they are hoping they can catch you off guard type thing
A woman, especially, if she have the misfortune of knowing anything, should conceal it as well as she can. - Jane Austen

Hannaah

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Re: you get asked why are you single?
« Reply #20 on: 16 June 2022, 09:14:38 pm »
They want us to go "Oh! I don't have one! I'm single!!!!!!!" I doubt it works often but it's like they are hoping they can catch you off guard type thing

I agree with this. I had one look extremely put out when I replied yes he does know, he gets off on it and wants to hear all the dirty details from me later.  :D

Nadya

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Re: you get asked why are you single?
« Reply #21 on: 17 June 2022, 03:11:40 pm »
I get it a LOT, it's a stupid question but I usually answer 'Because I am a terrible person and very weird'

They think I am joking but AM I?


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Re: you get asked why are you single?
« Reply #22 on: 17 January 2023, 05:05:11 am »
Speaking from personal experience of many many years.

It's just blokes that like the Hot wife or cuckold thing.

How it was told me was they get off being with a bad girl.

To each their own!

Mirian

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Re: you get asked why are you single?
« Reply #23 on: 17 January 2023, 11:34:18 am »
I don't take it as an attack, I take it more as they see me as an incredibly sexy, funny and charming woman and they are surprised that no one has hunted me down yet. :D
I'm just another mosquito on this windshield that we call '' life ''

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Re: you get asked why are you single?
« Reply #24 on: 17 January 2023, 11:46:06 am »
I don't take it as an attack, I take it more as they see me as an incredibly sexy, funny and charming woman and they are surprised that no one has hunted me down yet. :D

THAT is right and brilliant!
On my very astute days I reply, Why do you ask? and on other days I tell them, None of your business! Never been asked if I have a boyf/husband by anyone who has been a decent client. Naive curiosity from a client who has been fine will still get Noyb. Because it isn't.

Mirror

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Re: you get asked why are you single?
« Reply #25 on: 17 January 2023, 04:42:23 pm »
When I was single I was asked this, also asked why I did not have a mortgage, children "There must be something wrong with you.....".

Actually in one way there was, I fixed all of that BUT why wrong just because I do not follow the conventional expectations. Mortgage is not owning, and renting comes with flexibility.

One More Rodeo

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Re: you get asked why are you single?
« Reply #26 on: 20 January 2023, 10:19:01 pm »
It’s the same as “oh you pay tax? “ that one really grips my shit. No I just get cars and mortgages from the fairy god mother you twerp!

And a follow-up on "oh you pay tax?" - "Is it even legal?"  ::)

Mirror

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Re: you get asked why are you single?
« Reply #27 on: 21 January 2023, 06:27:52 am »
And a follow-up on "oh you pay tax?" - "Is it even legal?"  ::)

"How do you do that, what do you say on the form?"

 ::) ;D

Then when I am in a relationship, married even I am asked "Are you married, is that a real ring?", "Does he know?".

"Yes and he is fine, his concerns are that I am safe and treated well"  :D