Just been asked to do kink stuff without a safe word.
Wow! Because what would you love more than having no safety measures in place with a total stranger? That's not only a boundary pusher but also not a dom, just someone who thinks dominant means he can do whatever he wants. Arsehole at best, dangerous/abusive at worst. Yuck.
My contribution:
A stupidly long email, that ended with sorry for the long message...that's all I read/skimmed, my eyes glazed over as soon as I saw the length, so I have no idea what he was talking about.
I never read long messages anymore, in my experience I have had 100% timewasters when they have sent a novel!