Some are idiots though and do meet for a cuppa and pay. They often want to leer at the goods haha though. I met one earlier, he gave me the cash that he 'owed' me as we met as friends. He bought us both coffee. We sat down. I took my jacket off and his face dropped. I was dressed as I would meeting a friend for coffee
at his insistence. When I meet friends for coffee I am usually wearing jeans, t-shirt and a hoodie. He wanted more of the 'hooker' look, which I don't do anyway.
He asked if I could take the hoodie off - nope too cold in the place. He asked what I had on under it, told him underwear and a t-shirt.
He wanted a bit of wank fodder for later, which he didn't get. Asked if I would go up to someone and say hi or something, nope because if someone did that to me it would annoy me.
Poor fucker paid £60 for 30 minutes of being told no plus coffees. I'd already hit my target and gave him a small discount.
I actually thought he was a TW, he wanted me to travel to him, I refused and suggested somewhere else. We met in a location I was at anyway and I stood away from the coffee shop discreetly to see if he showed.
I've had a few like this. They just want the company. Often older guys who split their time between the UK and their home country. Want female company, want to fuck but feel too guilty cheating on their wives. Or some want a regular thing but want to see if there's any connection first. Or they are just shy and trying to build themselves up to sex. As long as they don't turn needy I don't really care.