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Lushblossom

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Re: How not to book an escort,world championships!
« Reply #10260 on: 09 October 2016, 06:47:35 am »
Well ladies it has gone from bad to worse now with that client who was due to meet me yesterday.  He has now emailed saying he bets the neighbours would love to know what I do for a job.  It sounds like he wants to go and tell them....

I very much doubt he will though.  It can only be hot air as he feels rejected.  Hopefully he lives far enough away to not make it easy for him to do this.  Given he hasn't even so much as met an escort in his life this reaction is really unusual.  It isn't as if plenty of escorts have refused to meet him and he now hates us all.

Oddly enough I am pretty sure that my immediate neighbours on both sides and the house opposite all know what I do plus the local corner shop staff.  Nobody says anything it is just an impression from reading between the lines.  I only see max 2 clients a day and always think of the neighbours and try to keep the noise down as much as possible.

If this guy thinks he can bully me into seeing him from his insinuating he will disclose to my neighbours then he can think again.

What a horrid person....

I must say I have never had this before.  Hopefully it will all blow over soon.

Since using protonmail email account it is now impossible to block people who I do not wish to see or hear from.  I put them in spam but this means I then end up reading their emails and getting upset/bothered by them somewhat.  Hey ho.

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Re: How not to book an escort,world championships!
« Reply #10261 on: 09 October 2016, 08:32:42 am »
Ugh, what a total dick. You are completely ignoring him if I read correctly, which is absolutely the right thing to do. He will get bored with no response.
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Re: How not to book an escort,world championships!
« Reply #10262 on: 09 October 2016, 08:55:23 am »
Since using protonmail email account it is now impossible to block people who I do not wish to see or hear from.  I put them in spam but this means I then end up reading their emails and getting upset/bothered by them somewhat.  Hey ho.

Hmm I wanted to move to Proton for security reasons but I really need an email provider that blocks, since my current one Gmail doesn't either.  I find the best thing if someone is sending me arsey messages is to just force myself not to look, then the longer you don't look the easier it gets not to look, if that makes sense.  By the time you do look therefore the messages won't bother you so much.  Ok so I don't always manage to stick to this, but I try to!

However by his behaviour this guy isn't coming accross as a first timer to me, he could've spun you a line.  If you find it continues ad infinitum and borders on harassment, might be worth a warning.

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Re: How not to book an escort,world championships!
« Reply #10263 on: 09 October 2016, 12:49:06 pm »
Well ladies it has gone from bad to worse now with that client who was due to meet me yesterday.  He has now emailed saying he bets the neighbours would love to know what I do for a job.  It sounds like he wants to go and tell them....

I very much doubt he will though.  It can only be hot air as he feels rejected.  Hopefully he lives far enough away to not make it easy for him to do this.  Given he hasn't even so much as met an escort in his life this reaction is really unusual.  It isn't as if plenty of escorts have refused to meet him and he now hates us all.

Oddly enough I am pretty sure that my immediate neighbours on both sides and the house opposite all know what I do plus the local corner shop staff.  Nobody says anything it is just an impression from reading between the lines.  I only see max 2 clients a day and always think of the neighbours and try to keep the noise down as much as possible.

If this guy thinks he can bully me into seeing him from his insinuating he will disclose to my neighbours then he can think again.

What a horrid person....

I must say I have never had this before.  Hopefully it will all blow over soon.

Since using protonmail email account it is now impossible to block people who I do not wish to see or hear from.  I put them in spam but this means I then end up reading their emails and getting upset/bothered by them somewhat.  Hey ho.

He doesn't sound like a first timer to me.

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Re: How not to book an escort,world championships!
« Reply #10264 on: 09 October 2016, 12:59:50 pm »
I hate when they do that. It's not stalkish / off-putting at all  ;D a man was staring at me in the supermarket, then a few hours later txt "I saw you in XXX at 2pm can we meet?" ffs
That's why I stopped showing my face.
Tbh I'm quite puzzled how they recognised my face without all of my make-up  ;D ;D

A few months ago when I was still in London I had that really shitty day. So I go to the nearby (huge) Tesco for some comfort food, my "camouflage" clothes on. And I know literally all staff at that Tesco. Suddenly I hear really loud " hi darling, how are you, can I book you for 5 o'clock?"
I couldn't even remember him so I couldn't block him on my phone...
What is wrong with some of them ?

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Re: How not to book an escort,world championships!
« Reply #10265 on: 09 October 2016, 01:08:13 pm »
Thanks for the support ladies.

Perhaps I should just not read the ones that arrive in my spam once I put them in there.  I can always delete them regularly too unread can't I.

Yes possibly he isn't a first timer.  If it persists I will do a warning.  I don't know his mobile number though.

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Re: How not to book an escort,world championships!
« Reply #10266 on: 09 October 2016, 01:15:36 pm »
Hmm I wanted to move to Proton for security reasons but I really need an email provider that blocks, since my current one Gmail doesn't either. 

Just wanted to note that Gmail will block email addresses, it's just a bit complex to do so. Post in the IT section if you want and I'll walk you through it.
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Re: How not to book an escort,world championships!
« Reply #10267 on: 09 October 2016, 02:26:44 pm »
Just wanted to note that Gmail will block email addresses, it's just a bit complex to do so. Post in the IT section if you want and I'll walk you through it.

Oh thanks! I've been told a number of times it wasn't possible  >:(

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Re: How not to book an escort,world championships!
« Reply #10268 on: 09 October 2016, 06:49:37 pm »
Oh it is. I filter emails straight into my trash all the time.

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Re: How not to book an escort,world championships!
« Reply #10269 on: 09 October 2016, 08:26:19 pm »
"Any slots free today"

I hate that, too. 

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Re: How not to book an escort,world championships!
« Reply #10270 on: 09 October 2016, 08:31:22 pm »
Thanks for the support ladies.

Perhaps I should just not read the ones that arrive in my spam once I put them in there.  I can always delete them regularly too unread can't I.

Yes possibly he isn't a first timer.  If it persists I will do a warning.  I don't know his mobile number though.

You mean he contacted you via email and started harassing you?  It's a warning matter in my book.  A very sick man. 

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Re: How not to book an escort,world championships!
« Reply #10271 on: 10 October 2016, 06:06:35 am »
Yes Lucie he harrassed me after I could not jump and be ready half an hour earlier than planned.

I think I will put up a warning.

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Re: How not to book an escort,world championships!
« Reply #10272 on: 10 October 2016, 06:35:17 am »
A known blowout... I keep a note of them on my phone and I don't give second chances.

He rings asking for a booking so I inform him I know his game and tell him to piss off, he immediately becomes fake contrite and tells me he fell asleep last time. A likely story.

Anyway I decide to mindfuck him and 'take his booking' by entering his details straight into my blowout spreadsheet and get on with my night. I wait about 45 minutes and attempt to call him, phone switched off, gut instinct correct.

He texts a couple of hours later with a load of laughing emojis telling me I'm an idiot for falling for it twice, I text back I never changed out of my PJ's or left my house but I have happily made a note of his new timewaster address.

It's been 4 hours and his abusive texts are still filling up my call blocker complaining I've ruined his fantasy because I didn't actually turn up and waste my time. Deranged moron.
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Re: How not to book an escort,world championships!
« Reply #10273 on: 10 October 2016, 09:18:32 am »
I hate when they do that. It's not stalkish / off-putting at all  ;D a man was staring at me in the supermarket, then a few hours later txt "I saw you in XXX at 2pm can we meet?" ffs
That's why I stopped showing my face.
Tbh I'm quite puzzled how they recognised my face without all of my make-up  ;D ;D
Probably spend hours studying our photographs!!! I've had it a couple of times. There really is no need for them to be telling us they've seen us out and about though. Yes, we're people we go to shops, walk our dogs, catch buses and all the other usual stuff!
We're women, it's what we do. I just get paid for it.

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Re: How not to book an escort,world championships!
« Reply #10274 on: 10 October 2016, 09:27:21 am »

Hi

I'm in the area this week and want to make a booking, I love anal play...lots of mutual smelling,licking,fingering and fucking are you into this?

Please let me know.




Jeez. Mutual smelling. :-X