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trashbaby

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Re: How not to book an escort,world championships!
« Reply #8490 on: 20 January 2016, 04:46:34 pm »
I would have hung up after the first two. Anything other than "Are you available between this and this time?" is already wasting my time. For everything else there is a description on my profile so they don't need to ask pointless questions. After they take a booking I may take questions related to the booking such as meeting point location and what to do when they arrive.

You're absolutely right. It's bizarre, I've been reading this forum for months and felt really prepared but when faced with my first wanking-on-the-phone-lets-have-a-chat-TW I was just like a rabbit in the headlights  ;D We live and learn... God what would I do without you guys...

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Re: How not to book an escort,world championships!
« Reply #8491 on: 20 January 2016, 04:51:06 pm »
Everybody has to go through it getting the run around from a TW or being cheated out of money the latter actually hasn't happened to me yet and hopefully won't if I keep my wits about me and keep an eye on warnings for descriptions of dodgy clients but It probably is going to happen one day. I've probably posted on this forum before about being messed about by idiots on the phone. Just have to learn what they do and get tough on them. At first I was just too nice being afraid to lose clients but TW's never intended on being a client in the first place just to use you as a free sex line while making fake promises to book you

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Re: How not to book an escort,world championships!
« Reply #8492 on: 20 January 2016, 05:37:12 pm »
I would have hung up after the first two. Anything other than "Are you available between this and this time?" is already wasting my time. For everything else there is a description on my profile so they don't need to ask pointless questions. After they take a booking I may take questions related to the booking such as meeting point location and what to do when they arrive.

You're absolutely right. It's bizarre, I've been reading this forum for months and felt really prepared but when faced with my first wanking-on-the-phone-lets-have-a-chat-TW I was just like a rabbit in the headlights  ;D We live and learn... God what would I do without you guys...

I do agree with Trash but I think you are doing just fine Poppy. Even us experienced ladies get caught out sometimes. You will soon find your ruthless edge!

Nia Hope

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Re: How not to book an escort,world championships!
« Reply #8493 on: 20 January 2016, 09:13:29 pm »
I just got this text. I'm so confused? What has this got to do with escorting?

"hi love are you free now? Tell me please is it possible if I spit on your face for 15 min? Nothing else

He wants to spit on your face for 15 mins. It's a sexual service. Some ladies offer this (both ways or one way). He gets off on spitting on ladies' faces.

I occasionally have clients who, (in domination bookings)  want me to spit in their face, open their mouth and spit in it now and again,  slap them in the face (not too hard as to mark) and get right in their face and verbally abuse them, I don't mind to a certain level doing it as that's what they want. I once had a client who wanted me to mostly just spit in his face and mouth for the full hour and keep rubbing it all over, I didn't enjoy it at all so never accepted a booking off him again.


In the few bookings where I'm the sub ( in a roleplay scenario)  I make it clear at the start that spitting in my face, or slapping my face isn't allowed in any way. If anyone spat in my face or slapped my face in any situation I would seriously punch them hard in theirs.
This proves how some are offended by certain requests and some aren't, I would love an hour of spitting at a client and do it often by request. I don't know how you market yourself so I suppose it's a case of not reading profiles? It is a fetish thing x
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katrina

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Re: How not to book an escort,world championships!
« Reply #8494 on: 20 January 2016, 11:15:02 pm »
I just got this text. I'm so confused? What has this got to do with escorting?

"hi love are you free now? Tell me please is it possible if I spit on your face for 15 min? Nothing else

He wants to spit on your face for 15 mins. It's a sexual service. Some ladies offer this (both ways or one way). He gets off on spitting on ladies' faces.

I occasionally have clients who, (in domination bookings)  want me to spit in their face, open their mouth and spit in it now and again,  slap them in the face (not too hard as to mark) and get right in their face and verbally abuse them, I don't mind to a certain level doing it as that's what they want. I once had a client who wanted me to mostly just spit in his face and mouth for the full hour and keep rubbing it all over, I didn't enjoy it at all so never accepted a booking off him again.


In the few bookings where I'm the sub ( in a roleplay scenario)  I make it clear at the start that spitting in my face, or slapping my face isn't allowed in any way. If anyone spat in my face or slapped my face in any situation I would seriously punch them hard in theirs.
This proves how some are offended by certain requests and some aren't, I would love an hour of spitting at a client and do it often by request. I don't know how you market yourself so I suppose it's a case of not reading profiles? It is a fetish thing x

Nia, if you're talking about how I market myself you only have to look at my link :-) As well as the GFE, I do offer various domination and fetish services (this particular guy who wanted me to spit in his face for the full hour was when I first started escorting, I didn't have a profile at that time and I thought why not give it a try) I wasn't 'offended' by it but it did actually quite repulse me so I refused any future bookings from him.


 I do a lot of what *some* people would consider to be 'off limits' or even repulsive to them, such as I'm happy to wee in someone's mouth, make them drink it, happy for spunk on my face but not spit on it, but happy to have them spit on my fanny, tongue up my arse, etc etc,. Each to their own I suppose.     

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Re: How not to book an escort,world championships!
« Reply #8495 on: 21 January 2016, 12:46:28 am »
Hey babe

I'm a gym toned fit and attractive guy,,suited and booted aged 32

I'm going to a meeting near you tomorrow and wondered if you would be happy to see me for a foot fetish meet? 5min foot worship for ?20

Hope so

Jamie x

Nia Hope

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Re: How not to book an escort,world championships!
« Reply #8496 on: 21 January 2016, 08:26:46 am »
I just got this text. I'm so confused? What has this got to do with escorting?

"hi love are you free now? Tell me please is it possible if I spit on your face for 15 min? Nothing else

He wants to spit on your face for 15 mins. It's a sexual service. Some ladies offer this (both ways or one way). He gets off on spitting on ladies' faces.

I occasionally have clients who, (in domination bookings)  want me to spit in their face, open their mouth and spit in it now and again,  slap them in the face (not too hard as to mark) and get right in their face and verbally abuse them, I don't mind to a certain level doing it as that's what they want. I once had a client who wanted me to mostly just spit in his face and mouth for the full hour and keep rubbing it all over, I didn't enjoy it at all so never accepted a booking off him again.


In the few bookings where I'm the sub ( in a roleplay scenario)  I make it clear at the start that spitting in my face, or slapping my face isn't allowed in any way. If anyone spat in my face or slapped my face in any situation I would seriously punch them hard in theirs.
This proves how some are offended by certain requests and some aren't, I would love an hour of spitting at a client and do it often by request. I don't know how you market yourself so I suppose it's a case of not reading profiles? It is a fetish thing x

Nia, if you're talking about how I market myself you only have to look at my link :-) As well as the GFE, I do offer various domination and fetish services (this particular guy who wanted me to spit in his face for the full hour was when I first started escorting, I didn't have a profile at that time and I thought why not give it a try) I wasn't 'offended' by it but it did actually quite repulse me so I refused any future bookings from him.


 I do a lot of what *some* people would consider to be 'off limits' or even repulsive to them, such as I'm happy to wee in someone's mouth, make them drink it, happy for spunk on my face but not spit on it, but happy to have them spit on my fanny, tongue up my arse, etc etc,. Each to their own I suppose.   
Same as you I do a lot of stuff some would be horrified at! I wouldn't be up for a guy spitting at me though, it is each to their own. The point I was trying to make was that how not to book an escort is different to each of us x
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Jezabel

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Re: How not to book an escort,world championships!
« Reply #8497 on: 21 January 2016, 09:27:40 am »
Good morning.

Can I first say I've looked at your profile and wow ! You are stunning !!!

I am wondering if you are available tonight  around 7 for a incall or outcall. I'd be looking to either meet you at a cash machine for a outcall where I give you cash in exchange for a sniff of your fingers after they have been in your shoes or rubbed your toes. Or a incall I'd like to just watch you dangle your shoes.

Let me know if you can accommodate and I'll ring you to confirm and make a booking through here also


I'm happy to see foot fetish gents but I didn't beleive for one second he'd actually book via AW  (0 FB) or call.........I've had similar 'requests' but they have always been TWs.  And since I only do incalls or outcalls to actual houses/hotels I'm not gonna meet some random by a cash point even if he was serious........


 
« Last Edit: 21 January 2016, 09:29:51 am by Jezabel »

katrina

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Re: How not to book an escort,world championships!
« Reply #8498 on: 21 January 2016, 10:45:10 am »

Same as you I do a lot of stuff some would be horrified at! I wouldn't be up for a guy spitting at me though, it is each to their own. The point I was trying to make was that how not to book an escort is different to each of us x


Yes I think you're right, what some people consider rude, others wouldn't bat an eyelid at. A client (who I have seen a few times before) rung me the other week and just said "Hi Katrina, can I come round and shag you for an hour between 1pm and 3pm, whichever time suits you?" I found that to be easy, straight to the point and not offensive in any way. We agreed on 2pm and everything was fine. Sometimes its not what people say, its the way they say it.


I very rarely get 'offended' by whatever guys ring up/email or text to me, I usually ignore and forget it or laugh about it, but once someone emailed asking for a roleplay which involved (a very close relative) and his friends in a forced sex scenario. I was horrified and disgusted that someone could even think that up, I showed it to an escort friend and she couldn't understand why I was so offended and repulsed by his fantasy (she doesn't have any children) . 

katrina

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Re: How not to book an escort,world championships!
« Reply #8499 on: 21 January 2016, 11:00:00 am »
Hey babe

I'm a gym toned fit and attractive guy,,suited and booted aged 32

I'm going to a meeting near you tomorrow and wondered if you would be happy to see me for a foot fetish meet? 5min foot worship for ?20

Hope so

Jamie x


I would have been tempted to reply with "Hi, thanks for your message but I really don't care if you look like the hunch back of notre dam, I offer an escort service which means I charge for my time, my prices are set and the minimum booking is *insert price or time* Have a nice day :-) 

Nia Hope

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Re: How not to book an escort,world championships!
« Reply #8500 on: 21 January 2016, 12:03:57 pm »
Hey babe

I'm a gym toned fit and attractive guy,,suited and booted aged 32

I'm going to a meeting near you tomorrow and wondered if you would be happy to see me for a foot fetish meet? 5min foot worship for ?20

Hope so

Jamie x


I would have been tempted to reply with "Hi, thanks for your message but I really don't care if you look like the hunch back of notre dam, I offer an escort service which means I charge for my time, my prices are set and the minimum booking is *insert price or time* Have a nice day :-)
I have said to these types that as long as your dick doesn't stink and you have the correct money then I have no preference to looks, x
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littleminxjennifer

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Re: How not to book an escort,world championships!
« Reply #8501 on: 21 January 2016, 12:25:37 pm »
oi whet u bared?

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littleminxjennifer

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Re: How not to book an escort,world championships!
« Reply #8502 on: 21 January 2016, 01:19:41 pm »
oh they're out in force today...

email

hi, i'd love to see you, problem is i've never cum with a woman before, think you can do it?

i reply saying that its really up to him, and if he's happy with my services etc, thats what he'd get and i do prode myself in giving a good service

his reply was
well i have ?50, can we come to an arrangement for an hour?

eh naw.. thats less than half my hours rate so blocked and deleted.  urgh!!

Disciplinarian

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Re: How not to book an escort,world championships!
« Reply #8503 on: 21 January 2016, 03:52:10 pm »
I would have hung up after the first two. Anything other than "Are you available between this and this time?" is already wasting my time. For everything else there is a description on my profile so they don't need to ask pointless questions.

I envy you, if I took this approach I would be bankrupt.

Playing Devil's advocate for a bit, AW is littered with profiles that have clearly just ticked every box in the "likes" column so to a certain extent I have no problem with a potential client clarifying a few things.

trashbaby

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Re: How not to book an escort,world championships!
« Reply #8504 on: 21 January 2016, 11:20:39 pm »
Just had one who wants to put a lollipop up my bum!  :o ;D