New account on adultwork created today, emails me.

Him: "Hi are you available today"
Me: "Unfortunately not, sorry but i am tomorrow and the rest of the week"
Him: "Ok no problem, i am quite shy and I've never really done this before so bare with me haha Don't suppose you could send me a pic of your face could you?"

So i sent him a picture of the exorcist girl, didn't get a reply after that. 

I had a guy try and book me today who refused to give me his name! First off he annoyed me because he just called and said "are you available?" I don't know why this bugs me so much, but it really does-- is it so much to ask for you to say "hello, my name is X, hope you're well today. i would like to make a booking with you and was wondering when you're available? I was hoping for x." Apparently so! I certainly don't want to have a 5 minute conversation about something random, I just don't like getting "are you available?"

Anyway we decided on a time and I asked what his name was and he said he wanted to be anonymous and I said well sorry I can't book you then and he got all huffy and said why does it matter, and I said well there has to be a mutual level of trust here, if I'm going to give you my address and have sex with you you need to give me your name! He got sooo pissy with me I just said I couldn't book him and hung up.

What's weird about this one is that he wasn't even sharp enough to think of a fake name!

Well, I once booked in an Anony Mouse...    

Seriously though, they call from a number and could be giving you any name so it's not a huge biggie for an incall.  Even call them Mr Cash.  Obviously, a totally different issue for an outcall for which I will need full name etc

I usually charge ?100 for half an hour, I know it's expensive but I prefer hour long bookings or longer and it makes sense to me to see 2 guys in a day instead of 4 since I set myself a daily target as I am sure most escorts do, anyway......I have a special offer on at the moment where I am charging ?100 for the hour so I am no longer offering half hour appointments at all and it says all this on my profile.

Anyway just got an email from a guy saying how much he liked my profile and could he see me one afternoon for half an hour for ?50

Now I know that may be some girls half hour rate but I'd never fuck a guy for that kinda money and not to mention the effort I make to be presentable etc for my clients, not a chance.

It's offensive enough when they ask for a discount but half my original fee? And when I am clearly not even doing half hour appointments. Fuck sake my hourly rates cheap enough just now.

Anyway it's after midnight, I am tired and that's not the kinda email I wanted to read so I told him to F OFF and then I blocked him!

Best just to reply with 'As you can see from my profile I am not offering 30 min bookings at the moment'.No need to drop the F Bomb.It sets you up for flak really.
If you are that tired don't read your emails.We all know its not cool to ask for discounts so no need for a comment about what other girls charge.I do 50 for 30 mins.So what?I wouldn't be happy to be asked for less than what I charge.We all get plonkers best to press delete or answer politely but firmly then block.

Have to agree with Bibi & GC.

PP: Don't let these idiots get to you, as Bibi says refer them back to your profile, if they keep on then just block them.

By lowering yourself to their limit, you are chancing them leaving a bad review somewhere (like this guy did), or as Bibi said someone turning violent.

Also turn off your work phone and don't look at your work emails after your working hours are finished, as your just causing yourself unneeded stress.

Lady's I agree that I have dealt with this badly and shouldnt have nipped at him although I am still annoyed that he told stories without telling the full story but such as life.

I told someone to fuck off cause they offended me, hardly outing a client or holding someone hostage.

I have more than been punished for telling him to F off with the shit I got today from a bunch of unknowns so lesson learnt.

Let's hope that nobody ever tells anyone to fuck off ever as it's clearly the worst thing you can do in the world.

Bibi please don take offence, it was just the fact that ?50 is half what I usually charge so it's like someone offering you ?25.

Remember we're all different, some people have a nippy personality like I do when I think someone's been rude, I am rude straight back. Other people just let it go over their head. I need to learn to let things go over my head.

PP I don't post very often and certainly ignore many posts by many people, not just yours.  I don't let forum or other online stuff get to me that much any more.  And I appreciate you need to vent on here.  But if you get yourself riled all the time and are antagonistic, you can put yourself at risk.  And it can long term up and up your stress levels.  You can chose to of course ignore my point and not take it on board.  Your prerogative.  But when you post on a public forum, you got to respect and allow others to post their viewpoints.  Even if you don't agree with me, I wanna point out the risks of what you are doing to others reading it, especially those new to this work, to make them aware that it can be risky to have a short fuse with guys being kinda in the public eye and potentially vulnerable if someone takes umbrage and decides to go after you.  It's so easy to get new Sim cards and new email accounts etc.   

For every short term satisfaction of telling someone to F... off or other aggressive interaction with someone contacting you, you are potentially risking some vendetta were you got more to loose in terms of business, peace of mind etc than just perhaps try to not let these guys get to you.  It's frustrating and of course can wind you up and make you tense.  I wasn't being sarky when I suggested finding an outlet for all that pent-up aggression.  Maybe kick box or do whatever, kick a pillow.  Sooner or later you risk getting into a slanging match with some real nutcase.  I am not a meek scared person btw just feel it's wiser to make working as safe as possible.  And that includes not antagonising people wherever possible.  The price offered or charged is totally irrelevant.  It's about how you react or better still don't even respond to it.  I don't do half hours and charge more because I have built up some regulars prepared to pay it.  And of course some guys baulk at my prices.  I let it bounce off me and  few seconds later it's forgotten.  Totally agree yet again with Bibi, don't answer the phone at stupid o'clock if it winds you up.  Most of us see it as a daytime job but many people still think of it as "ladies of the night".  If you have the phone switched off on silent or turned off, then they can't disturb you.